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class="vheadingv"><b>Verse</b><a href="/bsb/proverbs/18.htm" class="clickchap" style="color:#001320" title="Click any translation name for full chapter">  (Click for Chapter)</a></div><div id="par"><span class="versiontext"><a href="/niv/proverbs/18.htm">New International Version</a></span><br />To answer before listening— that is folly and shame.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nlt/proverbs/18.htm">New Living Translation</a></span><br />Spouting off before listening to the facts is both shameful and foolish.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/esv/proverbs/18.htm">English Standard Version</a></span><br />If one gives an answer before he hears, it is his folly and shame.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/bsb/proverbs/18.htm">Berean Standard Bible</a></span><br />He who answers a matter before he hears it—this is folly and disgrace to him.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/kjv/proverbs/18.htm">King James Bible</a></span><br />He that answereth a matter before he heareth <i>it</i>, it <i>is</i> folly and shame unto him.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nkjv/proverbs/18.htm">New King James Version</a></span><br />He who answers a matter before he hears <i>it,</i> It <i>is</i> folly and shame to him.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nasb_/proverbs/18.htm">New American Standard Bible</a></span><br />One who gives an answer before he hears, It is foolishness and shame to him.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nasb/proverbs/18.htm">NASB 1995</a></span><br />He who gives an answer before he hears, It is folly and shame to him.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nasb77/proverbs/18.htm">NASB 1977 </a></span><br />He who gives an answer before he hears, It is folly and shame to him.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/lsb/proverbs/18.htm">Legacy Standard Bible </a></span><br />He who responds with a word before he hears, It is folly and shame to him.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/amp/proverbs/18.htm">Amplified Bible</a></span><br />He who answers before he hears [the facts]— It is folly and shame to him.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/csb/proverbs/18.htm">Christian Standard Bible</a></span><br />The one who gives an answer before he listens — this is foolishness and disgrace for him.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/hcsb/proverbs/18.htm">Holman Christian Standard Bible</a></span><br />The one who gives an answer before he listens— this is foolishness and disgrace for him. <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/asv/proverbs/18.htm">American Standard Version</a></span><br />He that giveth answer before he heareth, It is folly and shame unto him.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/cev/proverbs/18.htm">Contemporary English Version</a></span><br />It's stupid and embarrassing to give an answer before you listen. <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/erv/proverbs/18.htm">English Revised Version</a></span><br />He that giveth answer before he heareth, it is folly and shame unto him.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/gwt/proverbs/18.htm">GOD'S WORD® Translation</a></span><br />Whoever gives an answer before he listens is stupid and shameful.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/gnt/proverbs/18.htm">Good News Translation</a></span><br />Listen before you answer. If you don't, you are being stupid and insulting. <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/isv/proverbs/18.htm">International Standard Version</a></span><br />Whoever answers before listening is both foolish and shameful.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/msb/proverbs/18.htm">Majority Standard Bible</a></span><br />He who answers a matter before he hears it?this is folly and disgrace to him.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/net/proverbs/18.htm">NET Bible</a></span><br />The one who gives an answer before he listens--that is his folly and his shame. <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nheb/proverbs/18.htm">New Heart English Bible</a></span><br />He who gives answer before he hears, that is folly and shame to him.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/wbt/proverbs/18.htm">Webster's Bible Translation</a></span><br />He that answereth a matter before he heareth it, it is folly and shame to him.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/web/proverbs/18.htm">World English Bible</a></span><br />He who answers before he hears, that is folly and shame to him. <div class="vheading2"><b>Literal Translations</b></div><span class="versiontext"><a href="/lsv/proverbs/18.htm">Literal Standard Version</a></span><br />Whoever is answering a matter before he hears, "" It is folly to him—and shame.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/ylt/proverbs/18.htm">Young's Literal Translation</a></span><br /> Whoso is answering a matter before he heareth, Folly it is to him and shame.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/slt/proverbs/18.htm">Smith's Literal Translation</a></span><br />He turning back the word before he shall hear it, is folly and shame to him.<div class="vheading2"><b>Catholic Translations</b></div><span class="versiontext"><a href="/drb/proverbs/18.htm">Douay-Rheims Bible</a></span><br />He that answereth before he heareth sheweth himself to be a fool, and worthy of confusion. <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/cpdv/proverbs/18.htm">Catholic Public Domain Version</a></span><br />Whoever responds before he listens, demonstrates himself to be foolish and deserving of confusion.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nabre/proverbs/18.htm">New American Bible</a></span><br />Whoever answers before listening, theirs is folly and shame. <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nrsvce/proverbs/18.htm">New Revised Standard Version</a></span><br />If one gives answer before hearing, it is folly and shame.<div class="vheading2"><b>Translations from Aramaic</b></div><span class="versiontext"><a href="/lamsa/proverbs/18.htm">Lamsa Bible</a></span><br />He who gives answer before he hears is a fool and a reviler.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/hpbt/proverbs/18.htm">Peshitta Holy Bible Translated</a></span><br />He that gives an answer before he hears is a fool, and is brought to shame.<div class="vheading2"><b>OT Translations</b></div><span class="versiontext"><a href="/jps/proverbs/18.htm">JPS Tanakh 1917</a></span><br />He that giveth answer before he heareth, It is folly and confusion unto him.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/sep/proverbs/18.htm">Brenton Septuagint Translation</a></span><br />Whoso answers a word before he hears <i>a cause</i>, it is folly and reproach to him.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/parallel/proverbs/18-13.htm">Additional Translations ...</a></span></div></div></div><div id="centbox"><div class="padcent"><a name="audio" id="audio"></a><div class="vheadingv"><b>Audio Bible</b></div><iframe width="100%" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/kpUA5ZltBeQ?start=3602" title="YouTube video player" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share" allowfullscreen></iframe><span class="p"><br /><br /><br /></span><div class="vheadingv"><b>Context</b></div><span class="hdg"><a href="/bsb/proverbs/18.htm">The Selfishness of the Unfriendly</a></span><br>…<span class="reftext">12</span>Before his downfall a man’s heart is proud, but humility comes before honor. <span class="reftext">13</span><span class="highl"><a href="/hebrew/7725.htm" title="7725: mê·šîḇ (V-Hifil-Prtcpl-ms) -- A primitive root; to turn back transitively or intransitively, literally or figuratively; generally to retreat; often adverbial, again.">He who answers</a> <a href="/hebrew/1697.htm" title="1697: dā·ḇār (N-ms) -- Speech, word. From dabar; a word; by implication, a matter or thing; adverbially, a cause.">a matter</a> <a href="/hebrew/2962.htm" title="2962: bə·ṭe·rem (Prep-b:: Adv) -- From an unused root apparently meaning to interrupt or suspend; properly, non-occurrence; used adverbially, not yet or before.">before</a> <a href="/hebrew/8085.htm" title="8085: yiš·mā‘ (V-Qal-Imperf-3ms) -- To hear. A primitive root; to hear intelligently.">he hears it—</a> <a href="/hebrew/1931.htm" title="1931: hî- (Pro-3fs) -- He, she, it. ">this</a> <a href="/hebrew/200.htm" title="200: ’iw·we·leṯ (N-fs) -- Folly. From the same as 'eviyl; silliness.">is folly</a> <a href="/hebrew/3639.htm" title="3639: ū·ḵə·lim·māh (Conj-w:: N-fs) -- Insult, reproach, ignominy. From kalam; disgrace.">and disgrace</a> <a href="/hebrew/lōw (Prep:: 3ms) -- ">to him.</a> </span><span class="reftext">14</span>The spirit of a man can endure his sickness, but who can survive a broken spirit?…<div class="cred"><a href="//berean.bible">Berean Standard Bible</a> · <a href="//berean.bible/downloads.htm">Download</a></div><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a name="crossref" id="crossref"></a><div class="vheading">Cross References</div><div id="crf"><span class="crossverse"><a href="/james/1-19.htm">James 1:19</a></span><br />My beloved brothers, understand this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger,<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/john/7-51.htm">John 7:51</a></span><br />“Does our law convict a man without first hearing from him to determine what he has done?”<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/proverbs/29-20.htm">Proverbs 29:20</a></span><br />Do you see a man who speaks in haste? There is more hope for a fool than for him.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/proverbs/15-28.htm">Proverbs 15:28</a></span><br />The heart of the righteous ponders how to answer, but the mouth of the wicked blurts out evil.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/ecclesiastes/5-1.htm">Ecclesiastes 5:1-2</a></span><br />Guard your steps when you go to the house of God. Draw near to listen rather than to offer the sacrifice of fools, who do not know that they do wrong. / Do not be quick to speak, and do not be hasty in your heart to utter a word before God. For God is in heaven and you are on earth. So let your words be few.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/matthew/7-1.htm">Matthew 7:1-2</a></span><br />“Do not judge, or you will be judged. / For with the same judgment you pronounce, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/job/29-16.htm">Job 29:16</a></span><br />I was a father to the needy, and I took up the case of the stranger.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/proverbs/25-8.htm">Proverbs 25:8</a></span><br />do not bring hastily to court. Otherwise, what will you do in the end when your neighbor puts you to shame?<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/proverbs/10-19.htm">Proverbs 10:19</a></span><br />When words are many, sin is unavoidable, but he who restrains his lips is wise.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/proverbs/17-27.htm">Proverbs 17:27-28</a></span><br />A man of knowledge restrains his words, and a man of understanding maintains a calm spirit. / Even a fool is considered wise if he keeps silent, and discerning when he holds his tongue.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/james/3-1.htm">James 3:1-2</a></span><br />Not many of you should become teachers, my brothers, because you know that we who teach will be judged more strictly. / We all stumble in many ways. If anyone is never at fault in what he says, he is a perfect man, able to control his whole body.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/1_samuel/25-10.htm">1 Samuel 25:10-11</a></span><br />But Nabal asked them, “Who is David? Who is this son of Jesse? Many servants these days are breaking away from their masters. / Why should I take my bread and water and the meat I have slaughtered for my shearers, and give them to these men whose origin I do not know?”<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/acts/17-11.htm">Acts 17:11</a></span><br />Now the Bereans were more noble-minded than the Thessalonians, for they received the message with great eagerness and examined the Scriptures every day to see if these teachings were true.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/isaiah/11-3.htm">Isaiah 11:3-4</a></span><br />And He will delight in the fear of the LORD. He will not judge by what His eyes see, and He will not decide by what His ears hear, / but with righteousness He will judge the poor, and with equity He will decide for the lowly of the earth. He will strike the earth with the rod of His mouth and slay the wicked with the breath of His lips.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/1_corinthians/2-15.htm">1 Corinthians 2:15</a></span><br />The spiritual man judges all things, but he himself is not subject to anyone’s judgment.</div><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a name="tsk" id="tsk"><div class="vheading">Treasury of Scripture</div><p class="tsk2">He that answers a matter before he hears it, it is folly and shame to him.</p><p class="hdg">that</p><p class="tskverse"><b><a href="/deuteronomy/13-14.htm">Deuteronomy 13:14</a></b></br> Then shalt thou inquire, and make search, and ask diligently; and, behold, <i>if it be</i> truth, <i>and</i> the thing certain, <i>that</i> such abomination is wrought among you;</p><p class="tskverse"><b><a href="/2_samuel/16-4.htm">2 Samuel 16:4</a></b></br> Then said the king to Ziba, Behold, thine <i>are</i> all that <i>pertained</i> unto Mephibosheth. And Ziba said, I humbly beseech thee <i>that</i> I may find grace in thy sight, my lord, O king.</p><p class="tskverse"><b><a href="/2_samuel/19-24.htm">2 Samuel 19:24-30</a></b></br> And Mephibosheth the son of Saul came down to meet the king, and had neither dressed his feet, nor trimmed his beard, nor washed his clothes, from the day the king departed until the day he came <i>again</i> in peace… </p><p class="hdg">answereth a matter; returneth a word.</p><div class="vheading">Jump to Previous</div><a href="/proverbs/15-28.htm">Answers</a> <a href="/proverbs/18-6.htm">Cause</a> <a href="/psalms/109-29.htm">Confusion</a> <a href="/proverbs/17-12.htm">Folly</a> <a href="/proverbs/18-7.htm">Foolish</a> <a href="/proverbs/17-18.htm">Gives</a> <a href="/proverbs/15-32.htm">Heareth</a> <a href="/proverbs/15-32.htm">Hearing</a> <a href="/proverbs/15-29.htm">Hears</a> <a href="/job/9-16.htm">Listening</a> <a href="/proverbs/17-14.htm">Matter</a> <a href="/proverbs/18-3.htm">Shame</a><div class="vheading2">Jump to Next</div><a href="/proverbs/18-23.htm">Answers</a> <a href="/proverbs/18-17.htm">Cause</a> <a href="/proverbs/19-26.htm">Confusion</a> <a href="/proverbs/19-3.htm">Folly</a> <a href="/proverbs/19-3.htm">Foolish</a> <a href="/proverbs/18-23.htm">Gives</a> <a href="/proverbs/21-28.htm">Heareth</a> <a href="/proverbs/20-12.htm">Hearing</a> <a href="/proverbs/21-28.htm">Hears</a> <a href="/proverbs/19-27.htm">Listening</a> <a href="/proverbs/25-2.htm">Matter</a> <a href="/proverbs/19-22.htm">Shame</a><div class="vheading2">Proverbs 18</div><span class="reftext">1. </span><span class="outlinetext"><a href="/proverbs/18-1.htm">A fool delights not in understanding</a></span><br></div></div><div id="mdd"><div align="center"><div class="bot2"><table align="center" width="100%"><tr><td><div align="center"> <script id="3d27ed63fc4348d5b062c4527ae09445"> (new Image()).src = 'https://capi.connatix.com/tr/si?token=51ce25d5-1a8c-424a-8695-4bd48c750f35&cid=3a9f82d0-4344-4f8d-ac0c-e1a0eb43a405'; </script> <script id="b817b7107f1d4a7997da1b3c33457e03"> (new Image()).src = 'https://capi.connatix.com/tr/si?token=cb0edd8b-b416-47eb-8c6d-3cc96561f7e8&cid=3a9f82d0-4344-4f8d-ac0c-e1a0eb43a405'; </script><br /><br />  <div id='div-gpt-ad-1529103594582-2'> </div><br /><br />  <div id='div-gpt-ad-1529103594582-0' style='max-width: 300px;'> </div><br /><br />  <div id='div-gpt-ad-1529103594582-3'> </div><br /><br />  <div id='div-gpt-ad-1529103594582-1' style='max-width: 300px;'> </div><br /><br />  <div align="center" id='div-gpt-ad-1531425649696-0'> </div><br /><br /> <ins class="adsbygoogle" style="display:inline-block;width:200px;height:200px" data-ad-client="ca-pub-3753401421161123" data-ad-slot="3592799687"></ins> <script> (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); </script> <br /><br /> </div> </td></tr></table></div></div></div><div id="combox"><div class="padcom"><a name="study" id="study"></a><div class="vheading"><table width="100%"><tr><td width="99%" valign="top"><a href="/study/proverbs/18.htm">Study Bible</a></td><td width="1%" valign="top"><a href="/study/proverbs/" title="Book Summary and Study">Book ◦</a> <a href="/study/chapters/proverbs/18.htm" title="Chapter summary and Study">Chapter </a></tr></table></div><b>He who answers a matter before he hears it—</b><br>This phrase emphasizes the importance of listening before speaking, a principle deeply rooted in biblical wisdom literature. In the cultural context of ancient Israel, where oral communication was paramount, listening was a critical skill. The Hebrew culture valued the role of elders and wise counselors, who were expected to listen carefully before giving advice or making judgments. This principle is echoed in <a href="/james/1-19.htm">James 1:19</a>, which advises believers to be "quick to listen, slow to speak." The act of answering prematurely is seen as a failure to exercise discernment and patience, virtues highly esteemed in the biblical tradition.<p><b>this is folly and disgrace to him.</b><br>The terms "folly" and "disgrace" highlight the negative consequences of speaking without understanding. In the wisdom literature of the Bible, folly is often contrasted with wisdom and is associated with moral and spiritual failure. Proverbs frequently warns against foolish behavior, which leads to shame and dishonor. The disgrace mentioned here can be understood as a loss of reputation and respect within the community, a serious matter in a society where honor and social standing were crucial. This teaching aligns with the broader biblical narrative that values humility and the pursuit of wisdom, as seen in the life and teachings of Jesus Christ, who exemplified perfect understanding and discernment.<div class="vheading2">Persons / Places / Events</div>1. <b><a href="/topical/s/solomon.htm">Solomon</a></b><br>Traditionally regarded as the author of Proverbs, Solomon was the son of King David and known for his wisdom. His proverbs often provide practical guidance for living a life that honors God.<br><br>2. <b><a href="/topical/a/ancient_israel.htm">Ancient Israel</a></b><br>The cultural and historical context in which Proverbs was written. Understanding the societal norms and values of ancient Israel can help us grasp the full meaning of the text.<br><br>3. <b><a href="/topical/t/the_fool.htm">The Fool</a></b><br>A recurring character in Proverbs, representing someone who lacks wisdom and understanding, often acting impulsively or without knowledge.<div class="vheading2">Teaching Points</div><b><a href="/topical/t/the_importance_of_listening.htm">The Importance of Listening</a></b><br>Listening is a crucial skill for gaining understanding and wisdom. By truly hearing others, we can respond appropriately and avoid misunderstandings.<br><br><b><a href="/topical/t/the_consequences_of_hasty_speech.htm">The Consequences of Hasty Speech</a></b><br>Speaking without full knowledge can lead to embarrassment and damage to one's reputation. It is wise to gather all information before forming a response.<br><br><b><a href="/topical/c/cultivating_patience_in_communication.htm">Cultivating Patience in Communication</a></b><br>Patience allows us to process information thoroughly and respond thoughtfully. This aligns with the biblical call to be slow to speak.<br><br><b><a href="/topical/t/the_role_of_humility_in_dialogue.htm">The Role of Humility in Dialogue</a></b><br>Humility helps us recognize that we do not have all the answers and need to listen to others. This attitude fosters better relationships and understanding.<br><br><b><a href="/topical/w/wisdom_in_seeking_counsel.htm">Wisdom in Seeking Counsel</a></b><br>Seeking advice and listening to others' perspectives can provide valuable insights and prevent us from making foolish decisions.<div class="vheading2">Lists and Questions</div><a href="/top10/lessons_from_proverbs_18.htm">Top 10 Lessons from Proverbs 18</a><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a href="/q/what_did_jesus_mean_by_'my_body'.htm">Can long-distance relationships succeed?</a><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a href="/q/bible's_view_on_greatness,_smallness.htm">Why judge before knowing the full story?</a><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a href="/q/how_to_avoid_the_false_cause_fallacy.htm">How can you avoid the false cause fallacy?</a><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a href="/q/why_judge_without_full_story.htm">Why judge before knowing the full story?</a><a name="commentary" id="commentary"></a><div class="vheading2"><a href="/commentaries/ellicott/proverbs/18.htm">Ellicott's Commentary for English Readers</a></div>(13) <span class= "bld">He that answereth a matter before he heareth it </span>. . .--Comp. <a href="//apocrypha.org/ecclesiasticus/11-8.htm" title="Answer not before thou hast heard the cause: neither interrupt men in the midst of their talk.">Ecclesiasticus 11:8</a>.<p><div class="vheading2"><a href="/commentaries/pulpit/proverbs/18.htm">Pulpit Commentary</a></div><span class="cmt_sub_title">Verse 13.</span> - <span class="cmt_word">He that answereth a matter,</span> etc. Thus Ecclus. 11:8, "Answer not before thou hast heard the, cause; neither interrupt men in the midst of their talk." A reminiscence of the passage occurs in the Talmud ('Aboth.' 5. 10), "I weighed all things in the balance, and found nothing lighter than meal; lighter than meal is the betrothed man who dwells in the house of his intended father-in-law; lighter than he is a guest who introduces a friend; and lighter than he is the man who answers before he has heard the other's speech" (Dukes, p. 72, § 21). So Menander - <p><span class="greek">Ὁ προκαταγιγνώσκων δὲ πρὶν ἀκοῦσαι σαφῶς</span><br /><span class="greek">Αὐτὸς πονηρός ἐστι πιστεύσας κακῶς</span>. Seneca, 'Medea,' 199 - <p><span class="foreign">"Qui statuit aliquid, parte inaudita altera,<br />AEquum licet statuerit, haud aequus erit."</span> <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/commentaries/proverbs/18-13.htm">Parallel Commentaries ...</a></span><span class="p"><br /><br /><br /></span><a name="lexicon" id="lexicon"></a><div class="vheading">Hebrew</div><span class="word">He who answers</span><br /><span class="heb">מֵשִׁ֣יב</span> <span class="translit">(mê·šîḇ)</span><br /><span class="parse">Verb - Hifil - Participle - masculine singular<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_7725.htm">Strong's 7725: </a> </span><span class="str2">To turn back, in, to retreat, again</span><br /><br /><span class="word">a matter</span><br /><span class="heb">דָּ֭בָר</span> <span class="translit">(dā·ḇār)</span><br /><span class="parse">Noun - masculine singular<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_1697.htm">Strong's 1697: </a> </span><span class="str2">A word, a matter, thing, a cause</span><br /><br /><span class="word">before</span><br /><span class="heb">בְּטֶ֣רֶם</span> <span class="translit">(bə·ṭe·rem)</span><br /><span class="parse">Preposition-b | Adverb<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_2962.htm">Strong's 2962: </a> </span><span class="str2">Non-occurrence, not yet, before</span><br /><br /><span class="word">he hears [it]—</span><br /><span class="heb">יִשְׁמָ֑ע</span> <span class="translit">(yiš·mā‘)</span><br /><span class="parse">Verb - Qal - Imperfect - third person masculine singular<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_8085.htm">Strong's 8085: </a> </span><span class="str2">To hear intelligently</span><br /><br /><span class="word">this</span><br /><span class="heb">הִיא־</span> <span class="translit">(hî-)</span><br /><span class="parse">Pronoun - third person feminine singular<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_1931.htm">Strong's 1931: </a> </span><span class="str2">He, self, the same, this, that, as, are</span><br /><br /><span class="word">[is] folly</span><br /><span class="heb">אִוֶּ֥לֶת</span> <span class="translit">(’iw·we·leṯ)</span><br /><span class="parse">Noun - feminine singular<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_200.htm">Strong's 200: </a> </span><span class="str2">Silliness</span><br /><br /><span class="word">and disgrace</span><br /><span class="heb">וּכְלִמָּֽה׃</span> <span class="translit">(ū·ḵə·lim·māh)</span><br /><span class="parse">Conjunctive waw | Noun - feminine singular<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_3639.htm">Strong's 3639: </a> </span><span class="str2">Insult, reproach, ignominy</span><br /><br /><span class="word">to him.</span><br /><span class="heb">ל֝֗וֹ</span> <span class="translit">(lōw)</span><br /><span class="parse">Preposition | third person masculine singular<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/.htm">Strong's Hebrew</a> </span><span class="str2"></span><br /><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><div class="vheading">Links</div><a href="/niv/proverbs/18-13.htm">Proverbs 18:13 NIV</a><br /><a href="/nlt/proverbs/18-13.htm">Proverbs 18:13 NLT</a><br /><a href="/esv/proverbs/18-13.htm">Proverbs 18:13 ESV</a><br /><a href="/nasb/proverbs/18-13.htm">Proverbs 18:13 NASB</a><br /><a href="/kjv/proverbs/18-13.htm">Proverbs 18:13 KJV</a><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a href="//bibleapps.com/proverbs/18-13.htm">Proverbs 18:13 BibleApps.com</a><br /><a href="//bibliaparalela.com/proverbs/18-13.htm">Proverbs 18:13 Biblia Paralela</a><br /><a href="//holybible.com.cn/proverbs/18-13.htm">Proverbs 18:13 Chinese Bible</a><br /><a href="//saintebible.com/proverbs/18-13.htm">Proverbs 18:13 French Bible</a><br /><a href="/catholic/proverbs/18-13.htm">Proverbs 18:13 Catholic Bible</a><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a href="/proverbs/18-13.htm">OT Poetry: Proverbs 18:13 He who gives answer before he hears (Prov. 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