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height:250px;"> <script type="text/javascript"> googletag.cmd.push(function() { googletag.display('div-gpt-ad-1347323895031-4'); }); </script> </div> </div> <p>A 2007 survey of 1,000 American workers released by the San Francisco-based Employment Law Alliance found that 45% of respondents had been bullied at the office—verbal abuse, job sabotage, misuse of authority, deliberate destruction of relationships—and that 40% of the reported bullies were women. In 2010, the Workplace Bullying Institute, a national education and advocacy group, reported that female bullies directed their hostilities toward other women 80% of the time—up 9% since 2007. Male bullies, by contrast, were generally equal-opportunity tormentors.</p> <p>A 2011 survey of 1,000 working women by the American Management Association found that 95% of them believed they were undermined by another woman at some point in their careers. According to a 2008 University of Toronto study of nearly 1,800 U.S. employees, women working under female supervisors reported more symptoms of physical and psychological stress than did those working under male supervisors.</p></blockquote> <p>The article points out that Queen Bees often assault careers in ways that leave “no fingerprints.” I find this interesting; I think that men are more direct in their tactics, often women tend to be more manipulative so that they do not have to take responsibility for their actions and can deny or disown them. And their victims barely know what hit them. Men’s directness is easier to spot and criticize, women’s tactics, not so much. It is more difficult to “prove.”</p> </p></p><div class="textads clearingfix"><!-- PJM_728_by_90_text --> <div id="div-gpt-ad-1347323895031-7" style="width:728px; height:auto;"> <script type="text/javascript"> googletag.cmd.push(function() { googletag.display('div-gpt-ad-1347323895031-7'); }); </script> </div> </div> <div class="textads clearingfix"><!-- PJM_728_by_90_text --> <div id="div-gpt-ad-1347323895031-7" style="width:728px; height:auto;"> <script type="text/javascript"> googletag.cmd.push(function() { googletag.display('div-gpt-ad-1347323895031-7'); }); </script> </div> </div> <div class="readmore"> <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/drhelen/2013/03/03/queen-bees-their-assaults-harm-careers-and-leave-no-fingerprints/#comments" title="Comment on Queen Bees: “They assaults harm careers and leave no fingerprints.”">6 Comments</a><span class="quotespan">»</span></div> </div> </div> <div class="post rounded-corner-box"> <div id="advertisement-content"> <!-- PJM_728_by_90_middle --> <div id="div-gpt-ad-1347323895031-6" style="width:728px; height:90px;"> <script type="text/javascript"> googletag.cmd.push(function() { googletag.display('div-gpt-ad-1347323895031-6'); }); </script> </div> </div> </div> <div id="post-5118" class="post rounded-corner-box"> <div class="headline"> <h2><a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/drhelen/2013/03/01/5118/"></a></h2> <div class="date">March 1st, 2013 - 9:45 am</div> </div> <div class="entry"> <p><a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://www.helenspage.com/p/fake-kentucky-beggar-makes-100000-a-year/786">At Helen’s Page: </a>Fake Kentucky Beggar Makes $100,000 a Year.</p> </p> <div class="readmore"> <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/drhelen/2013/03/01/5118/#comments" title="Comment on ">1 Comment</a><span class="quotespan">»</span></div> </div> </div> <div id="post-5115" class="post rounded-corner-box"> <div class="headline"> <h2><a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/drhelen/2013/02/27/5115/"></a></h2> <div class="date">February 27th, 2013 - 12:56 pm</div> </div> <div class="entry"> <p><a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://www.helenspage.com/p/looking-for-patriotic-and-conservative-r/784">At Helen’s Page:</a> Calling all patriotic and conservative romance writers.</p> </p> <div class="readmore"> <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/drhelen/2013/02/27/5115/#comments" title="Comment on ">1 Comment</a><span class="quotespan">»</span></div> </div> </div> <div id="post-5111" class="post rounded-corner-box"> <div class="headline"> <h2><a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/drhelen/2013/02/27/if-the-problem-category-were-race-or-religion-it-would-be-politically-intolerable/">“If the problem category were race or religion it would be politically intolerable.”</a></h2> <div class="date">February 27th, 2013 - 7:25 am</div> </div> <div class="entry"> <p><a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://www.mindingthecampus.com/forum/2013/02/the_problem_of_males_on_the_fe.html">Minding the Campus.com:</a> “The Problem of Males on the Feminized Campus” (thanks to the reader who provided the link!):</p> <blockquote><p>But there is also a cultural problem here: the now conventional anti-male attitude on campus. I know from my own teaching experience that the pervasiveness of this attitude, launched on the first day of class with a stark rape seminar, causes males, especially of blue-collar origin, to flee a community they quickly come to see as suffused with the gender-studies rebuke of men now built into college life. </p> <p>A consistent failure of the school system is reflected in its failure to educate males and females equally effectively. If the problem category were race or religion it would be politically intolerable. But boys and men–no problem. Where, for example, is the White House Council on Boys and Men, still non-existent years after the nifty one on girls and women was proudly brandished? Presumably lost somewhere in electoral politics and some dingy acceptance of payback for that vaunted 5000 years of patriarchy. We can do better. </p></blockquote> </p> <div class="readmore"> <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/drhelen/2013/02/27/if-the-problem-category-were-race-or-religion-it-would-be-politically-intolerable/#comments" title="Comment on “If the problem category were race or religion it would be politically intolerable.”">4 Comments</a><span class="quotespan">»</span></div> </div> </div> <div id="post-5106" class="post rounded-corner-box"> <div class="headline"> <h2><a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/drhelen/2013/02/27/penta-millionaires/">Penta-Millionaires are Happier with Relationships, Jobs and Social Life</a></h2> <div class="date">February 27th, 2013 - 4:47 am</div> </div> <div class="entry"> <p><a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://www.cnbc.com/id/100497407">A new study</a> shows that penta-millionaires are happier than the merely rich:</p> <blockquote><p>The study found that 53 percent of those worth $5 million or more were “very satisfied” with their job or previous job. That compares with only 21 percent for those worth $100,000 or less.</p> <p>The multi-millionaires are also twice as satisfied with their social life, presumably since the wealthy have no shortage of friends and invitations.</p> <p>Nearly three quarters of the penta-millionaires are very satisfied with their marriage or “committed relationship” – far more than the 45 percent reported for the merely affluent. Millionaires are also significantly more likely to report higher levels of satisfaction regarding their relationships with their children (59 percent vs. 52 percent).</p> <p>The findings on relationships and kids are perhaps the most surprising, since we tend to think of large wealth leaving behind a trail of broken marriages, alienated offspring and artificial friendships. The survey shows that, in fact, solid family relationships may not only accompany large wealth – they may in fact be one of the causes.</p></blockquote> <p>This news is not surprising. Thomas Stanley’s book, <em><a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1589795474/ref=as_li_tf_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1589795474&linkCode=as2&tag=wwwviolentkicom">The Millionaire Next Door: The Surprising Secrets of America’s Wealthy</a>,</em> first written years ago, points out this “surprising” finding. Those who amass millions usually do so over time methodically, and steadily. The traits needed to save this way are often the same traits of reliability and loyalty one has to family and friends. Our culture wants to demonize all people with money as unhappy, greedy types who prey on others, but it’s generally the people who envy them who have more of these traits.</p> </p> <div class="readmore"> <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/drhelen/2013/02/27/penta-millionaires/#comments" title="Comment on Penta-Millionaires are Happier with Relationships, Jobs and Social Life">10 Comments</a><span class="quotespan">»</span></div> </div> </div> <div id="post-5096" class="post rounded-corner-box"> <div class="headline"> <h2><a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/drhelen/2013/02/22/would-you-care-if-your-wife-earned-more/">Would You Care if Your Wife Earned More?</a></h2> <div class="date">February 22nd, 2013 - 5:23 am</div> </div> <div class="entry"> <p><a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://www.chicagobooth.edu/about/newsroom/news/2013/2013-02-18-bertrand">According to this study,</a> marriages don’t go well when the wife earns more:</p> <blockquote><p>Women outearn their husbands in nearly a quarter of households with spouses between 18 and 65 years old, according to data from the 2010 American Community Survey. But their increased paycheck comes at a price, as the researchers show. They find that marriage rates decline when a woman has the potential to outearn her husband. Using US Census Bureau data from 1970 to 2010, Bertrand and her coauthors find that the more likely it is that a wife can earn more than her husband, the less likely she is to work outside the home.</p> <p>Moreover, among adults age 25 to 39, marriage rates have declined from about 81 percent in 1970 to 51 percent in 2010. The authors calculate that as much as 29 percent of that decline may be linked to aversion to a wife earning more than her husband.</p></blockquote> <p>Naturally, the researchers conclude that women picking up all the slack is to blame for higher rates of divorce:</p> <blockquote><p>Moreover, wives who earn more often end up doing more of the household chores, not less. Data from the American Time Use Survey, covering the years 2003 to 2011, showed that while husbands spent an average of 20.8 hours a week on non-market work and childcare, wives spent 33.5 hours on those activities. One explanation for this, the researchers suggest, is that a wife making more money is doing more chores to assuage her husband’s unease. But serving as both the primary breadwinner and the primary homemaker may be draining. That, the researchers point out, “may be one of the mechanisms behind our results on divorce.”</p></blockquote> <p>However, <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://www.forbes.com/2006/08/23/Marriage-Careers-Divorce_cx_mn_land.html">studies have also shown</a> that women are unhappy when they earn more than their husbands so I wonder if the unhappiness is caused partly because the women feel that they should have a man with “higher status.”</p> <p>I think in today’s legal climate, it is a good idea for a man to marry someone who makes more money than they do, for the simple reason that it may protect him more down the line if there is a divorce. Most men I know don’t care if the wife makes more money, but then, that is my experience.</p> <p>Would you care if your wife earned more or would it be a welcome relief?</p> <p>****</p> <p><em>Image courtesy shutterstock / <a id="portfolio_link" href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://www.shutterstock.com/gallery-682633p1.html">Kary1974</a></em></p> </p> <div class="readmore"> <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/drhelen/2013/02/22/would-you-care-if-your-wife-earned-more/#comments" title="Comment on Would You Care if Your Wife Earned More?">84 Comments</a><span class="quotespan">»</span></div> </div> </div> <div id="post-5087" class="post rounded-corner-box"> <div class="headline"> <h2><a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/drhelen/2013/02/19/could-you-live-on-15000-a-year/">Could You Live on $15,000 a Year?</a></h2> <div class="date">February 19th, 2013 - 11:43 am</div> </div> <div class="entry"> <p>Captain Capitalism (Aaron Clarey) sent me a copy of his new book <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1480284769/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1480284769&linkCode=as2&tag=wwwviolentkicom">Enjoy the Decline</a> and I’ve spent the day reading it. It’s an entertaining read, to say the least, and it has me wondering about some of the strategies that Clarey brings up and if they are worth implementing.</p> <p>He discusses how the relationship between the state and its citizenry has become parasitic; one chart he mentions shows a full 70% of government spending going to income transfers. “These income transfers are parasitic in nature in that they benefit a <em>specific group of people</em> instead of investments, infrastructure, roads, defense, and other public goods which benefit <em>everyone</em>.” Clarey asks, “..how do you as an individual adapt or change your behavior when your relationship with the state changes from a symbiotic one to that of a parasitical one?”</p> <p>So what do you do? You can kill the parasite, not really an option. Another option is to leave the country but not everyone can pack up and go and finally, the third option and the one Clarey discusses most as he feels it is the most optimal is minimalism. “While there is no official definition, minimalism is essentially shrinking your economic production to its absolute minimum.”</p> <p>So Clarey says that the idea is to work “VERY LITTLE” and still get by. He states, “If you have no major financial obligations (children, mortgage, etc.) the average person can easily get by on $15,000 per year. This amount can be earned quite easily by either working full time at some menial job, or part time as independent contractor with some semblance of a skill.”</p> <p>I do have financial obligations and it would be hard to live on $15,000 a year. Could you do it? If so, how? Would it be worth it to “Go Galt?”</p> </p> <div class="readmore"> <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/drhelen/2013/02/19/could-you-live-on-15000-a-year/#comments" title="Comment on Could You Live on $15,000 a Year?">13 Comments</a><span class="quotespan">»</span></div> </div> </div> <div id="post-5084" class="post rounded-corner-box"> <div class="headline"> <h2><a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/drhelen/2013/02/19/5084/"></a></h2> <div class="date">February 19th, 2013 - 5:40 am</div> </div> <div class="entry"> <p>Captain Capitalism wonders <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://captaincapitalism.blogspot.com/2013/02/the-advice-deficit.html">if there is an advice deficit.</a></p> </p> <div class="readmore"> <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/drhelen/2013/02/19/5084/#comments" title="Comment on ">1 Comment</a><span class="quotespan">»</span></div> </div> </div> <div id="post-5080" class="post rounded-corner-box"> <div class="headline"> <h2><a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/drhelen/2013/02/13/the-study-found-that-stereotypes-seemed-to-be-holding-boys-back/">“..the study found that stereotypes seemed to be holding boys back.”</a></h2> <div class="date">February 13th, 2013 - 7:42 am</div> </div> <div class="entry"> <p>Several readers have sent me this article from the <em>Mail Online</em> regarding <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2277278/Why-naughty-stereotype-holds-boys-school.html#axzz2KhAJDBAC">“naughty” boy sterotypes</a>:</p> <blockquote><p>The belief that girls are brainier and better behaved is holding boys back at school, research suggests.</p> <p>A study of British pupils found that, from a young age, children think girls are academically superior.</p> <p>And, what’s more, they believe that adults think so too….</p> <p>And by the age of seven, boys shared the belief that they were naughtier and did less well at school. Follow-up questions showed the children thought that adults had similar expectations.</p> <p>The second part of the study found that stereotypes seemed to be holding boys back…<br/> Study co-author Dr Robbie Sutton said: ‘Our study suggests that by counteracting the stereotypes in the classroom – wherever they might have come from originally – we can help boys do better.’</p></blockquote> <p>This reminds me of the study I found on girls taking over at college. <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/https://docs.google.com/viewer?a=v&q=cache:Q-b0Tf5PSYIJ:https://www.aeaweb.org/atypon.php%3Freturn_to%3D/doi/pdfplus/10.1257/jep.20.4.133+&hl=en&gl=us&pid=bl&srcid=ADGEESgYSEyPynTYfBE4VTuYWJO_LLQdz9ZWxUtuMcmZnv0elRvnloV2bv0CpvXqDYoyV7l3YiOOD9R6gYw8JXyC4BbwvwALY9PdN9_2o2kM1ztqvWmeAZL25YqucNZAIpiXeYjbBQ08&sig=AHIEtbSaPYdGpnEu-bSs6zWNP5-eVkBVvw">In it the researchers state: </a></p> <blockquote><p>One source of the persistent female advantage in K–12 school performance<br/> and the new female lead in college attainment is the higher incidence of behavioral<br/> problems (or lower level of noncognitive skills) among boys. Boys have a much<br/> higher incidence than do girls of school disciplinary and behavior problems, and spend far fewer hours doing homework (Jacob, 2002).</p> <p>Controlling for these<br/> noncognitive behavioral factors can explain virtually the entire female advantage in<br/> college attendance for the high school graduating class of 1992, after adjusting for<br/> family background, test scores, and high school achievement. Similarly, our own<br/> analysis of the 1979 and 1997 NLSY samples shows that teenage boys, both in the<br/> early 1980s and late 1990s, had a higher (self-reported) incidence of arrests and<br/> school suspension than teenage girls and that controls for such measures of<br/> behavioral problems significantly attenuate the female college advantage. Boys<br/> have two to three times the rate of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder<br/> (ADHD) than girls and much higher rates of criminal activity (Cuffe, Moore, and<br/> McKeown, 2003; Federal Bureau of Investigation, 2004). Boys are also much more<br/> likely than girls to be placed in special education programs.12 The source of boys’<br/> higher incidence of behavioral problems is an area of active research and could be<br/> due to their later maturation as well as their higher rates of impatience (Silverman,<br/> 2003).</p> <p>Women are now the majority of undergraduates and those receiving a bachelor degree.</p></blockquote> <p>So boys are basically being graded on their behavior, not their merit. They have different styles of doing homework and don’t sit still in class. Teachers often hate this and reward girls for their conformity to their rules and penalize boys for their non-conformity and behavior. Teachers can no longer discipline in school, and the only punishment is often suspension. I wonder how the lack of discipline has played a role in teacher’s using grading, perhaps subconsciously to punish boys.</p> <p>More importantly, I wonder how many bureaucrats and teachers, and even parents are using 7-year old boys as targets of revenge for something they perceive was done to girls so many years ago. In my opinion, to use innocent children as a means of revenge for past grievances is child abuse. Too bad there is no government agency that gives a damn that a concerted effort to abuse boys is taking place in Western culture. Boys are being cheated out of higher education. Some will do well despite no college degree and others will flounder. Either way, it doesn’t bode well for our culture or say much about our supposedly “egalitarian” society. <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1412811902/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=1412811902&linkCode=as2&tag=wwwviolentkicom">As George Orwell said, </a> “…some animals are more equal than others.” In our education system, this seems to be the case.</p> </p> <div class="readmore"> <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/drhelen/2013/02/13/the-study-found-that-stereotypes-seemed-to-be-holding-boys-back/#comments" title="Comment on “..the study found that stereotypes seemed to be holding boys back.”">1 Comment</a><span class="quotespan">»</span></div> </div> </div> <div id="post-5078" class="post rounded-corner-box"> <div class="headline"> <h2><a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/drhelen/2013/02/12/some-advice-for-complainers/">Some Advice for Complainers</a></h2> <div class="date">February 12th, 2013 - 1:04 pm</div> </div> <div class="entry"> <p>Are you a chronic complainer? I am and I have to catch myself to get myself to stop. Sure, complaining often produces a high, but who needs the aggravation and rumination that comes with it. <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://albertellis.org/no-complaining/">Here is some good advice</a> from the Albert Ellis Institute for how to deal with complaining. </p> </p> <div class="readmore"> <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/drhelen/2013/02/12/some-advice-for-complainers/#respond" title="Comment on Some Advice for Complainers">Comments</a><span class="quotespan">»</span></div> </div> </div> </div> <div id="archive-nav"> <div style="float:left;"><a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/drhelen/page/2/">« Older Entries</a></div> <div class="break"></div> </div> </div> <div id="sidebar"> <div id="sidebar-full"> <div class="adspace"><div class="admsg">Advertisement</div> <!-- PJM_300_by_250_top --> <div id="div-gpt-ad-1347323895031-5" style="width:300px; height:250px;"> <script type="text/javascript"> googletag.cmd.push(function() { googletag.display('div-gpt-ad-1347323895031-5'); }); </script> </div> </div> <div class="sidebar-box rounded-sidebar-box" style="padding-top:0;"> <div class="mostpopular"><h2></h2> </div> <div id="widget-popular"> <div id="widget-most-popular" class="popular-box"> <ul class="sidebar-content"> <li><a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/richardfernandez/2013/03/04/thats-all-folks/">That's All Folks</a></li> <li><a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/blog/tiny-terrorists-caught-up-in-anti-gun-hysteria/">'Tiny Terrorists' Caught Up in Anti-Gun Hysteria</a></li> <li><a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/tatler/2013/03/04/todays-hysterical-gun-freakout-teacher-invades-kids-privacy-threatens-him-over-digital-photo-of-airsoft-gun/">Today's Hysterical Gun Freakout: Teacher Invades Kid's Privacy, Threatens Him Over Digital Photo of Airsoft Gun</a></li> </ul> <div class="sidebar-footer" style="margin-top:10px;"><a class="more-link" href="/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/">More</a> </div> </div> </div> </div> <div class="skyscraper"> <!-- PJM_160_by_600_top --> <div id="div-gpt-ad-1347323895031-1" style="width:160px; height:600px;"> <script type="text/javascript"> googletag.cmd.push(function() { googletag.display('div-gpt-ad-1347323895031-1'); }); </script> </div> </div> <div class="skyscraper"> <!-- PJM_160_by_600_middle --> <div id="div-gpt-ad-1347323895031-0" style="width:160px; height:600px;"> <script type="text/javascript"> googletag.cmd.push(function() { googletag.display('div-gpt-ad-1347323895031-0'); }); </script> </div> </div> <div class="skyscraper skyscraperiframe"> <iframe id="ad_iframe_160_by_600_middle" src="/web/20130305085120if_/http://pjmedia.com/wp-content/themes/pjm/includes/ads/ad_iframe_160_by_600_middle.html" width="160" scrolling="no" height="600" frameborder="0" bordercolor="transparent" vspace="0" hspace="0" marginheight="0" marginwidth="0"></iframe> </div> </div> </div> </div><!-- #wrapper-container --> <div id="footer"> <p><a href="/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/">Home</a> | <a href="/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/about-us/">About Us</a> | <a href="/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/press/media/">Media</a> | <a href="/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/advertising/">Advertising</a> | <a href="/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/contact-us/?dept=tips">Tips For PJM</a> | <a href="/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/pjm-archive/">Archive</a> | <a href="/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/privacy-policy/">Privacy Policy</a> | <a href="/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/terms-of-service/">Terms of Service</a> | <a href="/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/pj-media-faq/">FAQ</a> | <a href="/web/20130305085120/http://pjmedia.com/contact-us/">Contact Us</a><!-- | <a href="#">Unsubscribe</a> --></p> <p> v1.62.1 PJMWeb1 <!--192.168.101.182--></p> </div> </div> </div> <script type="text/javascript"> var _gaq = _gaq || []; _gaq.push(['_setAccount', 'UA-3218147-1']); _gaq.push(['_trackPageview']); (function() { var ga = document.createElement('script'); ga.type = 'text/javascript'; ga.async = true; ga.src = ('https:' == document.location.protocol ? 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