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class="padleft"><div class="vheadingv">Verse<a href="/bsb/1_samuel/18.htm" class="clickchap" style="color:#001320" title="Click any translation name for full chapter">  (Click for Chapter)</a></div><div id="par"><a href="/niv/1_samuel/18.htm">New International Version</a> But David said to Saul, &#8220Who am I, and what is my family or my clan in Israel, that I should become the king&#8217s son-in-law?&#8221 <a href="/nlt/1_samuel/18.htm">New Living Translation</a> “Who am I, and what is my family in Israel that I should be the king’s son-in-law?” David exclaimed. “My father’s family is nothing!” <a href="/esv/1_samuel/18.htm">English Standard Version</a> And David said to Saul, “Who am I, and who are my relatives, my father’s clan in Israel, that I should be son-in-law to the king?” <a href="/bsb/1_samuel/18.htm">Berean Standard Bible</a> And David said to Saul, “Who am I, and what is my family or my father’s clan in Israel, that I should become the son-in-law of the king?” <a href="/kjv/1_samuel/18.htm">King James Bible</a> And David said unto Saul, Who am I? and what is my life, or my father's family in Israel, that I should be son in law to the king? <a href="/nkjv/1_samuel/18.htm">New King James Version</a> So David said to Saul, “Who am I, and what is my life or my father’s family in Israel, that I should be son-in-law to the king?” <a href="/nasb_/1_samuel/18.htm">New American Standard Bible</a> But David said to Saul, “Who am I, and who is my family, or my father’s family in Israel, that I should be the king’s son-in-law?” <a href="/nasb/1_samuel/18.htm">NASB 1995</a> But David said to Saul, &#8220Who am I, and what is my life or my father&#8217s family in Israel, that I should be the king&#8217s son-in-law?&#8221 <a href="/nasb77/1_samuel/18.htm">NASB 1977 </a> But David said to Saul, “Who am I, and what is my life or my father’s family in Israel, that I should be the king’s son-in-law?” <a href="/lsb/1_samuel/18.htm">Legacy Standard Bible </a> But David said to Saul, “Who am I, and what is my life or my father’s family in Israel, that I should be the king’s son-in-law?” <a href="/amp/1_samuel/18.htm">Amplified Bible</a> David said to Saul, “Who am I, and what is my life or my father’s family in Israel, that I should be the king’s son-in-law?” <a href="/csb/1_samuel/18.htm">Christian Standard Bible</a> Then David responded, “Who am I, and what is my family or my father’s clan in Israel that I should become the king’s son-in-law? ” <a href="/hcsb/1_samuel/18.htm">Holman Christian Standard Bible</a> Then David responded, &#8220Who am I, and what is my family or my father&#8217s clan in Israel that I should become the king&#8217s son-in-law?&#8221 <a href="/asv/1_samuel/18.htm">American Standard Version</a> And David said unto Saul, Who am I, and what is my life, or my father's family in Israel, that I should be son-in-law to the king? <a href="/cev/1_samuel/18.htm">Contemporary English Version</a> David answered, "How could I possibly marry your daughter? I'm not very important, and neither is my family." <a href="/erv/1_samuel/18.htm">English Revised Version</a> And David said unto Saul, Who am I, and what is my life, or my father's family in Israel, that I should be son in law to the king? <a href="/gwt/1_samuel/18.htm">GOD'S WORD® Translation</a> "Who am I?" David asked Saul. "And how important are my relatives or my father's family in Israel that I should be the king's son-in-law?" <a href="/gnt/1_samuel/18.htm">Good News Translation</a> David answered, "Who am I and what is my family that I should become the king's son-in-law?" <a href="/isv/1_samuel/18.htm">International Standard Version</a> David told Saul, "Who am I and what is my life or my father's family in Israel that I should be the king's son-in-law?" <a href="/msb/1_samuel/18.htm">Majority Standard Bible</a> And David said to Saul, ?Who am I, and what is my family or my father?s clan in Israel, that I should become the son-in-law of the king?? <a href="/net/1_samuel/18.htm">NET Bible</a> David said to Saul, "Who am I? Who are my relatives or the clan of my father in Israel that I should become the king's son-in-law?" <a href="/nheb/1_samuel/18.htm">New Heart English Bible</a> David said to Saul, "Who am I, and what is my life, or my father's family in Israel, that I should be son-in-law to the king?" <a href="/wbt/1_samuel/18.htm">Webster's Bible Translation</a> And David said to Saul, Who am I? and what is my life, or my father's family in Israel, that I should be son-in-law to the king? <a href="/web/1_samuel/18.htm">World English Bible</a> David said to Saul, “Who am I, and what is my life, or my father’s family in Israel, that I should be son-in-law to the king?” <div class="vheading2">Literal Translations</div><a href="/lsv/1_samuel/18.htm">Literal Standard Version</a> And David says to Saul, “Who [am] I? And what [is] my life—the family of my father in Israel—that I am son-in-law of the king?” <a href="/ylt/1_samuel/18.htm">Young's Literal Translation</a> And David saith unto Saul, 'Who am I? and what my life -- the family of my father in Israel -- that I am son-in-law to the king?' <a href="/slt/1_samuel/18.htm">Smith's Literal Translation</a> And David will say to Saul, Who am I? and who was my father's family in Israel that I shall be son-in-law to the king?<div class="vheading2">Catholic Translations</div><a href="/drb/1_samuel/18.htm">Douay-Rheims Bible</a> And David said to Saul: Who am I, or what is my life, or my father's family in Israel, that I should be son in law of the king? <a href="/cpdv/1_samuel/18.htm">Catholic Public Domain Version</a> Then David said to Saul, “Who am I, and what is my life, and what is my father’s kinship within Israel, that I should be the son-in-law of the king?” <a href="/nabre/1_samuel/18.htm">New American Bible</a> But David answered Saul: “Who am I? And who are my kindred or my father’s clan in Israel that I should become the king’s son-in-law?” <a href="/nrsvce/1_samuel/18.htm">New Revised Standard Version</a> David said to Saul, “Who am I and who are my kinsfolk, my father’s family in Israel, that I should be son-in-law to the king?”<div class="vheading2">Translations from Aramaic</div><a href="/lamsa/1_samuel/18.htm">Lamsa Bible</a> And David said to Saul, Who am I? And what have I done, or what is my life or my father's family in Israel, that I should be son-in-law to the king? <a href="/hpbt/1_samuel/18.htm">Peshitta Holy Bible Translated</a> And David said to Shaul: “Who am I and what have I done and what is my life and the family of my father in Israel, that I should take the daughter of the King?”<div class="vheading2">OT Translations</div><a href="/jps/1_samuel/18.htm">JPS Tanakh 1917</a> And David said unto Saul: 'Who am I, and what is my life, or my father's family in Israel, that I should be son-in-law to the king?' <a href="/parallel/1_samuel/18-18.htm">Additional Translations ...</a></div></div></div><div id="centbox"><div class="padcent"><a name="audio" id="audio"></a><div class="vheadingv">Audio Bible</div><iframe width="100%" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/H8oQfYUMRZg?start=5398" title="YouTube video player" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share" allowfullscreen></iframe> <div class="vheadingv">Context</div><a href="/bsb/1_samuel/18.htm">David Marries Michal</a> 17Then Saul said to David, “Here is my older daughter Merab. I will give her to you in marriage. Only be valiant for me and fight the LORD’s battles.” But Saul was thinking, “I need not raise my hand against him; let the hand of the Philistines be against him.” 18<a href="/hebrew/1732.htm" title="1732: dā·wiḏ (N-proper-ms) -- Perhaps beloved one, a son of Jesse. Rarely; Daviyd; from the same as dowd; loving; David, the youngest son of Jesse.">And David</a> <a href="/hebrew/559.htm" title="559: way·yō·mer (Conj-w:: V-Qal-ConsecImperf-3ms) -- To utter, say. A primitive root; to say.">said</a> <a href="/hebrew/413.htm" title="413: ’el- (Prep) -- To, into, towards. ">to</a> <a href="/hebrew/7586.htm" title="7586: šā·’ūl (N-proper-ms) -- Passive participle of sha'al; asked; Shaul, the name of an Edomite and two Israelites.">Saul,</a> <a href="/hebrew/4310.htm" title="4310: mî (Interrog) -- An interrogative pronoun of persons, as mah is of things, who?; also whoever; often used in oblique construction with prefix or suffix.">“Who</a> <a href="/hebrew/595.htm" title="595: ’ā·nō·ḵî (Pro-1cs) -- I. Sometimes; a primitive pro. I.">am I,</a> <a href="/hebrew/4310.htm" title="4310: ū·mî (Conj-w:: Interrog) -- An interrogative pronoun of persons, as mah is of things, who?; also whoever; often used in oblique construction with prefix or suffix.">and what</a> <a href="/hebrew/2416.htm" title="2416: ḥay·yay (N-mpc:: 1cs) -- Alive, raw, fresh, strong, life. From chayah; alive; hence, raw; fresh, strong; also life, whether literally or figuratively.">is my family</a> <a href="/hebrew/1.htm" title="1: ’ā·ḇî (N-msc:: 1cs) -- Father. A primitive word; father, in a literal and immediate, or figurative and remote application).">or my father’s</a> <a href="/hebrew/4940.htm" title="4940: miš·pa·ḥaṯ (N-fsc) -- From shaphah; a family, i.e. Circle of relatives; figuratively, a class, a species or sort; by extens. A tribe or people.">clan</a> <a href="/hebrew/3478.htm" title="3478: bə·yiś·rā·’êl (Prep-b:: N-proper-ms) -- From sarah and 'el; he will rule as God; Jisrael, a symbolical name of Jacob; also of his posterity.">in Israel,</a> <a href="/hebrew/3588.htm" title="3588: kî- (Conj) -- That, for, when. ">that</a> <a href="/hebrew/1961.htm" title="1961: ’eh·yeh (V-Qal-Imperf-1cs) -- To fall out, come to pass, become, be. A primitive root; to exist, i.e. Be or become, come to pass.">I should become</a> <a href="/hebrew/2860.htm" title="2860: ḥā·ṯān (N-ms) -- A relative by marriage, a circumcised child. From chathan; a relative by marriage; figuratively, a circumcised child.">the son-in-law</a> <a href="/hebrew/4428.htm" title="4428: lam·me·leḵ (Prep-l, Art:: N-ms) -- King. From malak; a king.">of the king?”</a> 19So when it was time to give Saul’s daughter Merab to David, she was given in marriage to Adriel of Meholah.…<div class="cred"><a href="//berean.bible">Berean Standard Bible</a> · <a href="//berean.bible/downloads.htm">Download</a></div> <a name="crossref" id="crossref"></a><div class="vheading">Cross References</div><div id="crf"><a href="/1_samuel/9-21.htm">1 Samuel 9:21</a> Saul replied, “Am I not a Benjamite from the smallest tribe of Israel, and is not my clan the least of all the clans of Benjamin? So why would you say such a thing to me?” <a href="/1_samuel/24-14.htm">1 Samuel 24:14</a> Against whom has the king of Israel come out? Whom are you pursuing? A dead dog? A flea? <a href="/2_samuel/7-18.htm">2 Samuel 7:18</a> Then King David went in, sat before the LORD, and said, “Who am I, O Lord GOD, and what is my house, that You have brought me this far? <a href="/1_chronicles/17-16.htm">1 Chronicles 17:16</a> Then King David went in, sat before the LORD, and said, “Who am I, O LORD God, and what is my house, that You have brought me this far? <a href="/judges/6-15.htm">Judges 6:15</a> “Please, my Lord,” Gideon replied, “how can I save Israel? Indeed, my clan is the weakest in Manasseh, and I am the youngest in my father’s house.” <a href="/exodus/3-11.htm">Exodus 3:11</a> But Moses asked God, “Who am I, that I should go to Pharaoh and bring the Israelites out of Egypt?” <a href="/1_samuel/15-17.htm">1 Samuel 15:17</a> And Samuel said, “Although you were once small in your own eyes, have you not become the head of the tribes of Israel? The LORD anointed you king over Israel <a href="/1_samuel/26-20.htm">1 Samuel 26:20</a> So do not let my blood fall to the ground far from the presence of the LORD. For the king of Israel has come out to look for a flea, like one who hunts a partridge in the mountains.” <a href="/2_samuel/9-8.htm">2 Samuel 9:8</a> Mephibosheth bowed down and said, “What is your servant, that you should show regard for a dead dog like me?” <a href="/1_kings/3-7.htm">1 Kings 3:7</a> And now, O LORD my God, You have made Your servant king in my father David’s place. But I am only a little child, not knowing how to go out or come in. <a href="/psalms/8-4.htm">Psalm 8:4</a> what is man that You are mindful of him, or the son of man that You care for him? <a href="/isaiah/41-14.htm">Isaiah 41:14</a> Do not fear, O Jacob, you worm, O few men of Israel. I will help you,” declares the LORD. “Your Redeemer is the Holy One of Israel. <a href="/luke/1-48.htm">Luke 1:48</a> For He has looked with favor on the humble state of His servant. From now on all generations will call me blessed. <a href="/luke/14-11.htm">Luke 14:11</a> For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and the one who humbles himself will be exalted.” <a href="/matthew/23-12.htm">Matthew 23:12</a> For whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.</div> <a name="tsk" id="tsk"><div class="vheading">Treasury of Scripture</div>And David said to Saul, Who am I? and what is my life, or my father's family in Israel, that I should be son in law to the king?Who am I<a href="/1_samuel/18-26.htm">1 Samuel 18:26</a> And when his servants told David these words, it pleased David well to be the king's son in law: and the days were not expired.<a href="/1_samuel/9-21.htm">1 Samuel 9:21</a> And Saul answered and said, Am not I a Benjamite, of the smallest of the tribes of Israel? and my family the least of all the families of the tribe of Benjamin? wherefore then speakest thou so to me?<a href="/exodus/3-11.htm">Exodus 3:11</a> And Moses said unto God, Who am I, that I should go unto Pharaoh, and that I should bring forth the children of Israel out of Egypt?<div class="vheading">Jump to Previous</div><a href="/1_samuel/10-21.htm">Clan</a> <a href="/1_samuel/18-17.htm">David</a> <a href="/1_samuel/18-16.htm">Israel</a> <a href="/judges/8-18.htm">King's</a> <a href="/romans/9-3.htm">Kinsfolk</a> <a href="/1_samuel/10-24.htm">Life</a> <a href="/1_samuel/18-17.htm">Saul</a> <a href="/judges/19-5.htm">Son-In-Law</a><div class="vheading2">Jump to Next</div><a href="/2_samuel/16-5.htm">Clan</a> <a href="/1_samuel/18-19.htm">David</a> <a href="/1_samuel/18-28.htm">Israel</a> <a href="/1_samuel/18-22.htm">King's</a> <a href="/1_kings/16-11.htm">Kinsfolk</a> <a href="/1_samuel/19-5.htm">Life</a> <a href="/1_samuel/18-19.htm">Saul</a> <a href="/1_samuel/18-21.htm">Son-In-Law</a><div class="vheading2">1 Samuel 18</div>1. <a href="/1_samuel/18-1.htm">Jonathan befriends David</a> 5. <a href="/1_samuel/18-5.htm">Saul envies his praise</a> 10. <a href="/1_samuel/18-10.htm">seeks to kill him in his fury</a> 12. <a href="/1_samuel/18-12.htm">fears him for his good success</a> 17. <a href="/1_samuel/18-17.htm">offers him his daughters for snare</a> 23. <a href="/1_samuel/18-23.htm">David persuaded to be the king's son-in-law, </a> 25. <a href="/1_samuel/18-25.htm">gives two hundred foreskins of the Philistines for Michal's dowry</a> 28. <a href="/1_samuel/18-28.htm">Saul's hatred and David's glory increase</a> </div></div><div id="mdd"><div align="center"><div class="bot2"><table align="center" width="100%"><tr><td><div align="center"> <script id="3d27ed63fc4348d5b062c4527ae09445"> (new Image()).src = 'https://capi.connatix.com/tr/si?token=51ce25d5-1a8c-424a-8695-4bd48c750f35&cid=3a9f82d0-4344-4f8d-ac0c-e1a0eb43a405'; </script> <script id="b817b7107f1d4a7997da1b3c33457e03"> (new Image()).src = 'https://capi.connatix.com/tr/si?token=cb0edd8b-b416-47eb-8c6d-3cc96561f7e8&cid=3a9f82d0-4344-4f8d-ac0c-e1a0eb43a405'; </script>  <div id='div-gpt-ad-1529103594582-2'> </div>  <div id='div-gpt-ad-1529103594582-0' style='max-width: 300px;'> </div>  <div id='div-gpt-ad-1529103594582-3'> </div>  <div id='div-gpt-ad-1529103594582-1' style='max-width: 300px;'> </div>  <div align="center" id='div-gpt-ad-1531425649696-0'> </div> <ins class="adsbygoogle" style="display:inline-block;width:200px;height:200px" data-ad-client="ca-pub-3753401421161123" data-ad-slot="3592799687"></ins> <script> (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({}); </script> </div> </td></tr></table></div></div></div><div id="combox"><div class="padcom"><a name="study" id="study"></a><div class="vheading"><table width="100%"><tr><td width="99%" valign="top"><a href="/study/1_samuel/18.htm">Study Bible</a></td><td width="1%" valign="top"><a href="/study/1_samuel/" title="Book Summary and Study">Book ◦</a> <a href="/study/chapters/1_samuel/18.htm" title="Chapter summary and Study">Chapter </a></tr></table></div>And David said to Saul David's response to Saul comes after Saul offers his daughter in marriage to David. This offer is not just a personal matter but a political one, as marriage into the royal family would elevate David's status significantly. David's humility is evident here, reflecting his character as a man after God's own heart (<a href="/1_samuel/13-14.htm">1 Samuel 13:14</a>). This humility contrasts with Saul's growing pride and insecurity.Who am I David's rhetorical question underscores his humility and self-awareness. Despite his recent victory over Goliath and rising popularity, David does not see himself as worthy of such an honor. This humility is a recurring theme in David's life and is reminiscent of Moses' response to God's call in <a href="/exodus/3-11.htm">Exodus 3:11</a>. It also foreshadows the humility of Christ, who, despite His divine nature, took on the form of a servant (<a href="/philippians/2-6.htm">Philippians 2:6-7</a>).and what is my family David's family, the house of Jesse, was not of significant social standing in Israel. They were from Bethlehem, a small town in Judah, which was not considered a place of prominence. This acknowledgment of his family's humble status highlights the biblical theme that God often chooses the lowly and unexpected to fulfill His purposes, as seen in <a href="/1_corinthians/1-27.htm">1 Corinthians 1:27-29</a>.or my father’s clan in Israel The mention of his father's clan emphasizes the modesty of David's background. Jesse's family was not part of the ruling elite or priestly class. This humility is significant in the biblical narrative, as it sets the stage for God's sovereign choice of David as king, demonstrating that God's criteria for leadership differ from human expectations (<a href="/1_samuel/16-7.htm">1 Samuel 16:7</a>).that I should become the son-in-law of the king? Becoming the king's son-in-law would have been a significant honor and responsibility. In ancient Israel, marriage alliances were often used to secure political power and stability. David's question reflects his awareness of the gravity of such a position. This moment foreshadows the greater covenant relationship between God and His people, ultimately fulfilled in Jesus Christ, who is both the Son of David and the King of Kings (<a href="/revelation/19-16.htm">Revelation 19:16</a>).<div class="vheading2">Persons / Places / Events</div>1. <a href="/topical/d/david.htm">David</a> A young shepherd who was anointed by Samuel to be the future king of Israel. At this point, he is serving in King Saul's court and has gained favor due to his victory over Goliath and his military successes. 2. <a href="/topical/s/saul.htm">Saul</a> The first king of Israel, who has become increasingly jealous and fearful of David's rising popularity and God's favor upon him. 3. <a href="/topical/d/david's_family.htm">David's Family</a> David refers to his humble origins, coming from the tribe of Judah and the family of Jesse, a modest lineage without royal connections. 4. <a href="/topical/i/israel.htm">Israel</a> The nation chosen by God, consisting of twelve tribes. David's question reflects his humility and awareness of his place within the larger community of Israel. 5. <a href="/topical/k/king's_son-in-law.htm">King’s Son-in-law</a> The position David is being offered, which would elevate his status significantly by marrying into the royal family.<div class="vheading2">Teaching Points</div><a href="/topical/h/humility_in_elevation.htm">Humility in Elevation</a> David's response to Saul's offer demonstrates humility. Despite his accomplishments, he does not presume to be worthy of royal status. This teaches us to remain humble, recognizing that any elevation in life is by God's grace. <a href="/topical/u/understanding_our_identity.htm">Understanding Our Identity</a> David's question reflects an understanding of his identity in God rather than in societal status. We should find our worth and identity in God's view of us, not in worldly achievements or connections. <a href="/topical/g/god's_sovereignty_in_promotion.htm">God's Sovereignty in Promotion</a> David's life illustrates that God is the one who elevates and positions us according to His purpose. We should trust in God's timing and plan for our lives, rather than striving for positions through our own efforts. <a href="/topical/g/gratitude_for_god's_favor.htm">Gratitude for God's Favor</a> Recognizing our humble beginnings and God's favor should lead us to gratitude. Like David, we should acknowledge God's hand in our lives and remain thankful for His blessings.<div class="vheading2">Lists and Questions</div><a href="/top10/lessons_from_1_samuel_18.htm">Top 10 Lessons from 1 Samuel 18</a> <a href="/q/do_findings_confirm_1_samuel_18_events.htm">Are there any historical or archaeological findings that confirm or challenge the events and relationships mentioned in 1 Samuel 18?</a> <a href="/q/why_did_saul_offer_michal_to_david.htm">1 Samuel 18:20–21: Why would Saul offer his daughter Michal to David if he intended to harm him, and does this suggest inconsistencies within the narrative? </a> <a href="/q/was_david's_'ten_thousands'_song_true.htm">1 Samuel 18:5-7: Did the women's song about David killing 'ten thousands' reflect historical reality or an exaggeration?</a> <a href="/q/could_doeg_plausibly_kill_85_priests.htm">How historically plausible is it that one person like Doeg could have slaughtered 85 priests in one event (1 Samuel 22:18)?</a><a name="commentary" id="commentary"></a><div class="vheading2"><a href="/commentaries/ellicott/1_samuel/18.htm">Ellicott's Commentary for English Readers</a></div>(18) What is my life?--These words in David's modest and wise answer have been variously interpreted. (a) They have been taken to refer to David's personal life; but surely that has been alluded to in the preceding words, "Who am I?" (b) As referring to the condition of life in which he was born and to which he was accustomed; so Keil; but it is doubtful if the Hebrew word here used ever has this significance. (c) With a reference to David's family; so Ewald and Lange. Ewald would translate, "What are my folks or relations?" Of these (c) is undoubtedly the preferable meaning. <a href="/commentaries/1_samuel/18-18.htm">Parallel Commentaries ...</a> <a name="lexicon" id="lexicon"></a><div class="vheading">Hebrew</div>And David דָּוִ֜ד (dā·wiḏ) Noun - proper - masculine singular <a href="/hebrew/strongs_1732.htm">Strong's 1732: </a> David -- perhaps 'beloved one', a son of Jesse said וַיֹּ֨אמֶר (way·yō·mer) Conjunctive waw | Verb - Qal - Consecutive imperfect - third person masculine singular <a href="/hebrew/strongs_559.htm">Strong's 559: </a> To utter, say to אֶל־ (’el-) Preposition <a href="/hebrew/strongs_413.htm">Strong's 413: </a> Near, with, among, to Saul, שָׁא֗וּל (šā·’ūl) Noun - proper - masculine singular <a href="/hebrew/strongs_7586.htm">Strong's 7586: </a> Saul -- first king of Israel, also an Edomite and two Israelites “Who מִ֤י (mî) Interrogative <a href="/hebrew/strongs_4310.htm">Strong's 4310: </a> Who?, whoever, in oblique construction with prefix, suffix am I, אָֽנֹכִי֙ (’ā·nō·ḵî) Pronoun - first person common singular <a href="/hebrew/strongs_595.htm">Strong's 595: </a> I and what וּמִ֣י (ū·mî) Conjunctive waw | Interrogative <a href="/hebrew/strongs_4310.htm">Strong's 4310: </a> Who?, whoever, in oblique construction with prefix, suffix is my family חַיַּ֔י (ḥay·yay) Noun - masculine plural construct | first person common singular <a href="/hebrew/strongs_2416.htm">Strong's 2416: </a> Alive, raw, fresh, strong, life or my father’s אָבִ֖י (’ā·ḇî) Noun - masculine singular construct | first person common singular <a href="/hebrew/strongs_1.htm">Strong's 1: </a> Father clan מִשְׁפַּ֥חַת (miš·pa·ḥaṯ) Noun - feminine singular construct <a href="/hebrew/strongs_4940.htm">Strong's 4940: </a> A family, circle of relatives, a class, a species, sort, a tribe, people in Israel, בְּיִשְׂרָאֵ֑ל (bə·yiś·rā·’êl) Preposition-b | Noun - proper - masculine singular <a href="/hebrew/strongs_3478.htm">Strong's 3478: </a> Israel -- 'God strives', another name of Jacob and his desc that כִּֽי־ (kî-) Conjunction <a href="/hebrew/strongs_3588.htm">Strong's 3588: </a> A relative conjunction I should become אֶהְיֶ֥ה (’eh·yeh) Verb - Qal - Imperfect - first person common singular <a href="/hebrew/strongs_1961.htm">Strong's 1961: </a> To fall out, come to pass, become, be the son-in-law חָתָ֖ן (ḥā·ṯān) Noun - masculine singular <a href="/hebrew/strongs_2860.htm">Strong's 2860: </a> A relative by marriage, a circumcised child of the king?” לַמֶּֽלֶךְ׃ (lam·me·leḵ) Preposition-l, Article | Noun - masculine singular <a href="/hebrew/strongs_4428.htm">Strong's 4428: </a> A king <div class="vheading">Links</div><a href="/niv/1_samuel/18-18.htm">1 Samuel 18:18 NIV</a> <a href="/nlt/1_samuel/18-18.htm">1 Samuel 18:18 NLT</a> <a href="/esv/1_samuel/18-18.htm">1 Samuel 18:18 ESV</a> <a href="/nasb/1_samuel/18-18.htm">1 Samuel 18:18 NASB</a> <a href="/kjv/1_samuel/18-18.htm">1 Samuel 18:18 KJV</a> <a href="//bibleapps.com/1_samuel/18-18.htm">1 Samuel 18:18 BibleApps.com</a> <a href="//bibliaparalela.com/1_samuel/18-18.htm">1 Samuel 18:18 Biblia Paralela</a> <a href="//holybible.com.cn/1_samuel/18-18.htm">1 Samuel 18:18 Chinese Bible</a> <a href="//saintebible.com/1_samuel/18-18.htm">1 Samuel 18:18 French Bible</a> <a href="/catholic/1_samuel/18-18.htm">1 Samuel 18:18 Catholic Bible</a> <a href="/1_samuel/18-18.htm">OT History: 1 Samuel 18:18 David said to Saul Who am I (1Sa iSam 1 Sam i sa) </a></div></div></td></tr></table></div><div id="left"><a href="/1_samuel/18-17.htm" onmouseover='lft.src="/leftgif.png"' onmouseout='lft.src="/left.png"' title="1 Samuel 18:17"><img src="/left.png" name="lft" border="0" alt="1 Samuel 18:17" /></a></div><div id="right"><a href="/1_samuel/18-19.htm" onmouseover='rght.src="/rightgif.png"' onmouseout='rght.src="/right.png"' title="1 Samuel 18:19"><img src="/right.png" name="rght" border="0" alt="1 Samuel 18:19" /></a></div><div id="botleft"><a href="#" onmouseover='botleft.src="/botleftgif.png"' onmouseout='botleft.src="/botleft.png"' title="Top of Page"><img src="/botleft.png" name="botleft" border="0" alt="Top of Page" /></a></div><div id="botright"><a href="#" onmouseover='botright.src="/botrightgif.png"' onmouseout='botright.src="/botright.png"' title="Top of Page"><img src="/botright.png" name="botright" border="0" alt="Top of Page" /></a></div><div id="bot"><iframe width="100%" height="1500" scrolling="no" src="/botmenubhnew2.htm" frameborder="0"></iframe></div></td></tr></table></div></body></html>