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class="sqs-block-content"> <div class="sqs-html-content"> <p class="" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"><em>“COME TOGETHER is wise and deeply comforting. Once again, Emily Nagoski is dismantling myths about sexuality and giving everyone permission to discover what is already true and love what they discover.”</em><br><br>–Angela Chen, author of ACE: What Asexuality Reveals About Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex</p> </div> </div></div></div></div><div class="sqs-block image-block sqs-block-image sqs-col-6 span-6 float float-right" data-aspect-ratio="143.92935982339955" data-block-type="5" id="block-yui_3_17_2_1_1614104888613_88337"><div class="sqs-block-content"> <div class=" image-block-outer-wrapper layout-caption-hidden design-layout-inline combination-animation-none individual-animation-none individual-text-animation-none " data-test="image-block-inline-outer-wrapper" > <figure class=" sqs-block-image-figure intrinsic " style="max-width:1400px;" > <a class=" sqs-block-image-link " href="https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Come-As-You-Are-Revised-and-Updated/Emily-Nagoski/9781982165314" > <div class="image-block-wrapper" data-animation-role="image" > <div class="sqs-image-shape-container-element has-aspect-ratio " style=" position: relative; padding-bottom:143.9293670654297%; overflow: hidden;-webkit-mask-image: -webkit-radial-gradient(white, black); " > <img data-stretch="false" data-src="https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/1614106041528-0G7POVU1KS6434DW67CP/caya2_frontcover.jpg" data-image="https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/1614106041528-0G7POVU1KS6434DW67CP/caya2_frontcover.jpg" data-image-dimensions="1400x2100" data-image-focal-point="0.5,0.5" alt="caya2_frontcover.jpg" data-load="false" elementtiming="system-image-block" src="https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/1614106041528-0G7POVU1KS6434DW67CP/caya2_frontcover.jpg" width="1400" height="2100" alt="" sizes="(max-width: 640px) 100vw, (max-width: 767px) 100vw, 100vw" style="display:block;object-fit: cover; width: 100%; height: 100%; object-position: 50% 50%" onload="this.classList.add("loaded")" srcset="https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/1614106041528-0G7POVU1KS6434DW67CP/caya2_frontcover.jpg?format=100w 100w, https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/1614106041528-0G7POVU1KS6434DW67CP/caya2_frontcover.jpg?format=300w 300w, https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/1614106041528-0G7POVU1KS6434DW67CP/caya2_frontcover.jpg?format=500w 500w, https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/1614106041528-0G7POVU1KS6434DW67CP/caya2_frontcover.jpg?format=750w 750w, https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/1614106041528-0G7POVU1KS6434DW67CP/caya2_frontcover.jpg?format=1000w 1000w, https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/1614106041528-0G7POVU1KS6434DW67CP/caya2_frontcover.jpg?format=1500w 1500w, https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/1614106041528-0G7POVU1KS6434DW67CP/caya2_frontcover.jpg?format=2500w 2500w" loading="lazy" decoding="async" data-loader="sqs"> </div> </div> </a> </figure> </div> </div></div><div class="sqs-block html-block sqs-block-html" data-block-type="2" data-border-radii="{"topLeft":{"unit":"px","value":0.0},"topRight":{"unit":"px","value":0.0},"bottomLeft":{"unit":"px","value":0.0},"bottomRight":{"unit":"px","value":0.0}}" id="block-yui_3_17_2_1_1668374038933_13751"><div class="sqs-block-content"> <div class="sqs-html-content"> <h2 style="white-space:pre-wrap;">Come As You Are - REVISED and UPDATED</h2><p class="" style="white-space:pre-wrap;">After five years of talking to readers, Emily has updated Come As You Are with new science, new language, and new perspectives. Emily has recorded a three part audio preface to the book to explain some of what’s new: <a href="https://www.feministsurvivalproject.com/episodes/bonus-come-as-you-are-preface-01">Part 1</a>, <a href="https://www.feministsurvivalproject.com/episodes/bonus-come-as-you-are-preface-02">Part 2</a>, <a href="https://www.feministsurvivalproject.com/episodes/bonus-come-as-you-are-preface-03">Part 3</a>.</p><p class="" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"><a href="https://www.bookmoonbooks.com/item/rPCoGQ_-yAW7UjERLZaHhw">Order a signed copy</a> from Emily’s local indie bookseller, <a href="https://www.bookmoonbooks.com/item/rPCoGQ_-yAW7UjERLZaHhw">Book Moon Books.</a> (They’re wonderful.)</p><p class="" style="white-space:pre-wrap;">You can also <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/1982165316/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_apa_fabc_WJ9HRZSVEZWA4XCB8VA5">order from Amazon</a>, and from a plethora of sellers via <a href="https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Come-As-You-Are-Revised-and-Updated/Emily-Nagoski/9781982165314">Simon and Schuster’s website</a>.</p><p class="" style="white-space:pre-wrap;">Emily narrates the new audiobook, with the part of The Patriarchy played by her favorite narrator, Nicholas Boulton. The audiobook is available from <a href="https://libro.fm/audiobooks/9781797119267-come-as-you-are-revised-and-updated?bookstore=bookmoonbooks">Book Moon</a> and on <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/B08CPVQT5M/ref=tmm_aud_title_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=">Audible</a>.</p> </div> </div></div><div class="sqs-block image-block sqs-block-image" data-block-type="5" id="block-yui_3_17_2_1_1668371329757_13357"><div class="sqs-block-content"> <figure class=" sqs-block-image-figure image-block-outer-wrapper image-block-v2 design-layout-card combination-animation-none individual-animation-none individual-text-animation-none image-position-left image-linked " data-scrolled data-test="image-block-v2-outer-wrapper" > <div class="intrinsic"> <div class=" image-inset" data-animation-role="image" data-description="" > <div class="sqs-image-shape-container-element content-fit " style=" position: relative; overflow: hidden;-webkit-mask-image: -webkit-radial-gradient(white, black); "> <img data-stretch="false" data-src="https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/cc0df252-6177-4f2c-8998-bd54e379b777/CAYA-Square.jpg" data-image="https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/cc0df252-6177-4f2c-8998-bd54e379b777/CAYA-Square.jpg" data-image-dimensions="1080x1080" data-image-focal-point="0.5,0.5" alt="come as you are podcast with emily nagoski - cartoon drawing of a bed, vibrator and underpants" data-load="false" elementtiming="system-image-block" src="https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/cc0df252-6177-4f2c-8998-bd54e379b777/CAYA-Square.jpg" width="1080" height="1080" alt="" sizes="(max-width: 640px) 100vw, (max-width: 767px) 100vw, 100vw" style="display:block;object-fit: contain;" onload="this.classList.add("loaded")" srcset="https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/cc0df252-6177-4f2c-8998-bd54e379b777/CAYA-Square.jpg?format=100w 100w, https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/cc0df252-6177-4f2c-8998-bd54e379b777/CAYA-Square.jpg?format=300w 300w, https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/cc0df252-6177-4f2c-8998-bd54e379b777/CAYA-Square.jpg?format=500w 500w, https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/cc0df252-6177-4f2c-8998-bd54e379b777/CAYA-Square.jpg?format=750w 750w, https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/cc0df252-6177-4f2c-8998-bd54e379b777/CAYA-Square.jpg?format=1000w 1000w, https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/cc0df252-6177-4f2c-8998-bd54e379b777/CAYA-Square.jpg?format=1500w 1500w, https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/cc0df252-6177-4f2c-8998-bd54e379b777/CAYA-Square.jpg?format=2500w 2500w" loading="lazy" decoding="async" data-loader="sqs"> <div class="image-overlay" style="overflow: hidden;-webkit-mask-image: -webkit-radial-gradient(white, black);"></div> </div> </div> </div> <figcaption class="image-card-wrapper" data-width-ratio> <div class="image-card sqs-dynamic-text-container"> <div class="image-title-wrapper"><div class="image-title sqs-dynamic-text" ><p class="" style="white-space:pre-wrap;">The Come As You Are Podcast</p></div></div> <div class="image-subtitle-wrapper"><div class="image-subtitle sqs-dynamic-text" ><p class="" style="white-space:pre-wrap;">If you enjoyed the book, I hope you'll love the podcast. It’s eight episodes of sex and science with Emily Nagoski and Mo.</p><p class="" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/come-as-you-are/id1628661035" target="_blank"><strong>Apple Podcasts</strong></a> • <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/3T5ANu57MH01MIrJXp8Znw" target="_blank"><strong>Spotify</strong></a><br><a href="https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/22d8fb00-b4d2-4ef2-b74a-7232019c744c/come-as-you-are" target="_blank"><strong>Amazon Podcasts</strong></a><strong> • </strong><a href="https://www.stitcher.com/show/come-as-you-are-711488" target="_blank"><strong>Stitcher</strong></a></p></div></div> <div class="image-button-wrapper"> <div class="image-button sqs-dynamic-text"> <div class="image-button-inner"> <a href="https://www.pushkin.fm/podcasts/come-as-you-are" class="sqs-button-element--primary">Subscribe</a> </div> </div> </div> </div> </figcaption> </figure> </div></div><div class="sqs-block image-block sqs-block-image sqs-col-6 span-6 float float-right" data-block-type="5" id="block-yui_3_17_2_36_1512296096464_345284"><div class="sqs-block-content"> <div class=" image-block-outer-wrapper layout-caption-below design-layout-inline combination-animation-none individual-animation-none individual-text-animation-none " data-test="image-block-inline-outer-wrapper" > <figure class=" sqs-block-image-figure intrinsic " style="max-width:614px;" > <div class="image-block-wrapper" data-animation-role="image" > <div class="sqs-image-shape-container-element has-aspect-ratio " style=" position: relative; padding-bottom:142.6710205078125%; overflow: hidden;-webkit-mask-image: -webkit-radial-gradient(white, black); " > <img data-stretch="false" data-src="https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/1512299862272-6O50QPHEKZPRNEDHNAU5/powells+crop.jpg" data-image="https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/1512299862272-6O50QPHEKZPRNEDHNAU5/powells+crop.jpg" data-image-dimensions="614x876" data-image-focal-point="0.5,0.5" alt="powells crop.jpg" data-load="false" elementtiming="system-image-block" src="https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/1512299862272-6O50QPHEKZPRNEDHNAU5/powells+crop.jpg" width="614" height="876" alt="" sizes="(max-width: 640px) 100vw, (max-width: 767px) 100vw, 100vw" style="display:block;object-fit: cover; width: 100%; height: 100%; object-position: 50% 50%" onload="this.classList.add("loaded")" srcset="https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/1512299862272-6O50QPHEKZPRNEDHNAU5/powells+crop.jpg?format=100w 100w, https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/1512299862272-6O50QPHEKZPRNEDHNAU5/powells+crop.jpg?format=300w 300w, https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/1512299862272-6O50QPHEKZPRNEDHNAU5/powells+crop.jpg?format=500w 500w, https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/1512299862272-6O50QPHEKZPRNEDHNAU5/powells+crop.jpg?format=750w 750w, https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/1512299862272-6O50QPHEKZPRNEDHNAU5/powells+crop.jpg?format=1000w 1000w, https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/1512299862272-6O50QPHEKZPRNEDHNAU5/powells+crop.jpg?format=1500w 1500w, https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/1512299862272-6O50QPHEKZPRNEDHNAU5/powells+crop.jpg?format=2500w 2500w" loading="lazy" decoding="async" data-loader="sqs"> </div> </div> </figure> </div> </div></div><div class="sqs-block horizontalrule-block sqs-block-horizontalrule sqs-col-6 span-6 float float-left" data-block-type="47" id="block-yui_3_17_2_1_1614104888613_117218"><div class="sqs-block-content"><hr /></div></div><div class="sqs-block html-block sqs-block-html" data-block-type="2" data-border-radii="{"topLeft":{"unit":"px","value":0.0},"topRight":{"unit":"px","value":0.0},"bottomLeft":{"unit":"px","value":0.0},"bottomRight":{"unit":"px","value":0.0}}" id="block-yui_3_17_2_1_1614104888613_119696"><div class="sqs-block-content"> <div class="sqs-html-content"> <p class="" style="white-space:pre-wrap;">Emily Nagoski is the award-winning  author of the New York <em>Times</em> bestseller, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/1476762090?">Come As You Are: the surprising new science that will transform your sex life</a>. Her new book, <a href="https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/592377/burnout-by-emily-nagoski-phd-and-amelia-nagoski-dma/" target="_blank">Burnout</a>, was released March 26, 2019</p><p class="" style="white-space:pre-wrap;">A gifted and engaging speaker, Emily is an expert on women's sexual wellbeing, healthy relationships, and the prevention of sexual violence and harassment. People bring Emily, because Emily "brings the science."</p><p class="" style="white-space:pre-wrap;">You can <a href="/events">see her calendar</a>, <a href="/volunteer">invite her to speak</a>, read more about the <a href="/team">programs she offers</a> (for trainings for professionals – therapists, medical providers, educators, etc – see <a href="/pro-trainings">pro trainings</a>), and <a href="/videos-and-podcasts">see/hear Emily in action</a>.</p><p class="" style="white-space:pre-wrap;"><a href="/the-facts">View Full Bio →</a></p><h2 style="white-space:pre-wrap;">the latest</h2> </div> </div></div><div class="row sqs-row"><div class="col sqs-col-6 span-6"><div class="sqs-block image-block sqs-block-image" data-block-type="5" id="block-yui_3_17_2_1_1540569367850_32136"><div class="sqs-block-content"> <figure class=" sqs-block-image-figure image-block-outer-wrapper image-block-v2 design-layout-collage combination-animation-none individual-animation-none 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https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/6d288c18-4d6b-4ae9-9f95-2f8f976dcb83/burnout-cover-new-brene.jpg?format=1500w 1500w, https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5a2311d41f318d2a02e64554/6d288c18-4d6b-4ae9-9f95-2f8f976dcb83/burnout-cover-new-brene.jpg?format=2500w 2500w" loading="lazy" decoding="async" data-loader="sqs"> <div class="image-overlay" style="overflow: hidden;-webkit-mask-image: -webkit-radial-gradient(white, black);"></div> </div> </div> </div> <figcaption class="image-card-wrapper" data-width-ratio> <div class="image-card sqs-dynamic-text-container"> <div class="image-title-wrapper"><div class="image-title sqs-dynamic-text" ><p class="" style="white-space:pre-wrap;">subscribe to receive occasional updates about BURNOUT and public events - <a href="https://thedirtynormal.us8.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=ff63ef89b9a7eab5a7749b855&id=92512164a8" target="_blank">click here</a></p></div></div> </div> </figcaption> </figure> 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