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class="vheadingv"><b>Verse</b><a href="/bsb/proverbs/25.htm" class="clickchap" style="color:#001320" title="Click any translation name for full chapter">  (Click for Chapter)</a></div><div id="par"><span class="versiontext"><a href="/niv/proverbs/25.htm">New International Version</a></span><br />Through patience a ruler can be persuaded, and a gentle tongue can break a bone.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nlt/proverbs/25.htm">New Living Translation</a></span><br />Patience can persuade a prince, and soft speech can break bones.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/esv/proverbs/25.htm">English Standard Version</a></span><br />With patience a ruler may be persuaded, and a soft tongue will break a bone.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/bsb/proverbs/25.htm">Berean Standard Bible</a></span><br />Through patience a ruler can be persuaded, and a gentle tongue can break a bone.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/kjv/proverbs/25.htm">King James Bible</a></span><br />By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nkjv/proverbs/25.htm">New King James Version</a></span><br />By long forbearance a ruler is persuaded, And a gentle tongue breaks a bone.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nasb_/proverbs/25.htm">New American Standard Bible</a></span><br />Through patience a ruler may be persuaded, And a gentle tongue breaks bone.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nasb/proverbs/25.htm">NASB 1995</a></span><br />By forbearance a ruler may be persuaded, And a soft tongue breaks the bone.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nasb77/proverbs/25.htm">NASB 1977 </a></span><br />By forbearance a ruler may be persuaded, And a soft tongue breaks the bone.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/lsb/proverbs/25.htm">Legacy Standard Bible </a></span><br />When one is slow to anger, a ruler may be persuaded, And a soft tongue breaks the bone.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/amp/proverbs/25.htm">Amplified Bible</a></span><br />By patience <i>and</i> a calm spirit a ruler may be persuaded, And a soft <i>and</i> gentle tongue breaks the bone [of resistance].<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/csb/proverbs/25.htm">Christian Standard Bible</a></span><br />A ruler can be persuaded through patience, and a gentle tongue can break a bone.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/hcsb/proverbs/25.htm">Holman Christian Standard Bible</a></span><br />A ruler can be persuaded through patience, and a gentle tongue can break a bone. <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/asv/proverbs/25.htm">American Standard Version</a></span><br />By long forbearing is a ruler persuaded, And a soft tongue breaketh the bone.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/cev/proverbs/25.htm">Contemporary English Version</a></span><br />Patience and gentle talk can convince a ruler and overcome any problem. <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/erv/proverbs/25.htm">English Revised Version</a></span><br />By long forbearing is a ruler persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/gwt/proverbs/25.htm">GOD'S WORD® Translation</a></span><br />With patience you can persuade a ruler, and a soft tongue can break bones.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/gnt/proverbs/25.htm">Good News Translation</a></span><br />Patient persuasion can break down the strongest resistance and can even convince rulers. <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/isv/proverbs/25.htm">International Standard Version</a></span><br />Through patience a ruler may be persuaded; a gentle word can break a bone.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/msb/proverbs/25.htm">Majority Standard Bible</a></span><br />Through patience a ruler can be persuaded, and a gentle tongue can break a bone.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/net/proverbs/25.htm">NET Bible</a></span><br />Through patience a ruler can be persuaded, and a soft tongue can break a bone. <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nheb/proverbs/25.htm">New Heart English Bible</a></span><br />By patience a ruler is persuaded. A soft tongue breaks the bone.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/wbt/proverbs/25.htm">Webster's Bible Translation</a></span><br />By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/web/proverbs/25.htm">World English Bible</a></span><br />By patience a ruler is persuaded. A soft tongue breaks the bone. <div class="vheading2"><b>Literal Translations</b></div><span class="versiontext"><a href="/lsv/proverbs/25.htm">Literal Standard Version</a></span><br />A ruler is persuaded by long-suffering, "" And a soft tongue breaks a bone.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/ylt/proverbs/25.htm">Young's Literal Translation</a></span><br /> By long-suffering is a ruler persuaded, And a soft tongue breaketh a bone.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/slt/proverbs/25.htm">Smith's Literal Translation</a></span><br />In slowness to anger shall the prince be persuaded, and the soft tongue shall break the bones.<div class="vheading2"><b>Catholic Translations</b></div><span class="versiontext"><a href="/drb/proverbs/25.htm">Douay-Rheims Bible</a></span><br />By patience a prince shall be appeased, and a soft tongue shall break hardness. <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/cpdv/proverbs/25.htm">Catholic Public Domain Version</a></span><br />By patience, a leader shall be appeased, and a soft tongue shall break hardness.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nabre/proverbs/25.htm">New American Bible</a></span><br />By patience is a ruler persuaded, and a soft tongue can break a bone. <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nrsvce/proverbs/25.htm">New Revised Standard Version</a></span><br />With patience a ruler may be persuaded, and a soft tongue can break bones.<div class="vheading2"><b>Translations from Aramaic</b></div><span class="versiontext"><a href="/lamsa/proverbs/25.htm">Lamsa Bible</a></span><br />By long forbearing, a ruler is persuaded; and a soft tongue breaks the bones.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/hpbt/proverbs/25.htm">Peshitta Holy Bible Translated</a></span><br />In patience soothe a Ruler, and with a soft tongue break bones.<div class="vheading2"><b>OT Translations</b></div><span class="versiontext"><a href="/jps/proverbs/25.htm">JPS Tanakh 1917</a></span><br />By long forbearing is a ruler persuaded, And a soft tongue breaketh the bone.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/sep/proverbs/25.htm">Brenton Septuagint Translation</a></span><br />In long-suffering is prosperity to kings, and a soft tongue breaks the bones.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/parallel/proverbs/25-15.htm">Additional Translations ...</a></span></div></div></div><div id="centbox"><div class="padcent"><a name="audio" id="audio"></a><div class="vheadingv"><b>Audio Bible</b></div><iframe width="100%" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/kpUA5ZltBeQ?start=5178" title="YouTube video player" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share" allowfullscreen></iframe><span class="p"><br /><br /><br /></span><div class="vheadingv"><b>Context</b></div><span class="hdg"><a href="/bsb/proverbs/25.htm">More Proverbs of Solomon</a></span><br>…<span class="reftext">14</span>Like clouds and wind without rain is the man who boasts of gifts never given. <span class="reftext">15</span><span class="highl"><a href="/hebrew/753.htm" title="753: bə·’ō·reḵ (Prep-b:: N-msc) -- Length. From 'arak; length.">Through patience</a> <a href="/hebrew/639.htm" title="639: ’ap·pa·yim (N-md) -- A nostril, nose, face, anger. From 'anaph; properly, the nose or nostril; hence, the face, and occasionally a person; also ire."></a> <a href="/hebrew/7101.htm" title="7101: qā·ṣîn (N-ms) -- A chief, ruler. From qatsah in the sense of determining; a magistrate or other leader.">a ruler</a> <a href="/hebrew/6601.htm" title="6601: yə·p̄ut·teh (V-Pual-Imperf-3ms) -- A primitive root; to open, i.e. Be roomy; usually figuratively to be simple or delude.">can be persuaded,</a> <a href="/hebrew/7390.htm" title="7390: rak·kāh (Adj-fs) -- Tender, delicate, soft. From rakak; tender; by implication, weak.">and a gentle</a> <a href="/hebrew/3956.htm" title="3956: wə·lā·šō·wn (Conj-w:: N-cs) -- Tongue. Or lashon; also feminine lshonah; from lashan; the tongue, used literally, and figuratively.">tongue</a> <a href="/hebrew/7665.htm" title="7665: tiš·bār- (V-Qal-Imperf-3fs) -- To break, break in pieces. A primitive root; to burst.">can break</a> <a href="/hebrew/1634.htm" title="1634: gā·rem (N-ms) -- A bone, strength. From garam; a bone; hence, self, i.e. very.">a bone.</a> </span><span class="reftext">16</span>If you find honey, eat just what you need, lest you have too much and vomit it up.…<div class="cred"><a href="//berean.bible">Berean Standard Bible</a> · <a href="//berean.bible/downloads.htm">Download</a></div><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a name="crossref" id="crossref"></a><div class="vheading">Cross References</div><div id="crf"><span class="crossverse"><a href="/james/1-19.htm">James 1:19</a></span><br />My beloved brothers, understand this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger,<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/ecclesiastes/10-4.htm">Ecclesiastes 10:4</a></span><br />If the ruler’s temper flares against you, do not abandon your post, for calmness lays great offenses to rest.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/proverbs/15-1.htm">Proverbs 15:1</a></span><br />A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/matthew/5-9.htm">Matthew 5:9</a></span><br />Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called sons of God.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/1_peter/3-15.htm">1 Peter 3:15</a></span><br />But in your hearts sanctify Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give a defense to everyone who asks you the reason for the hope that is in you. But respond with gentleness and respect,<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/proverbs/16-32.htm">Proverbs 16:32</a></span><br />He who is slow to anger is better than a warrior, and he who controls his temper is greater than one who captures a city.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/2_timothy/2-24.htm">2 Timothy 2:24-25</a></span><br />And a servant of the Lord must not be quarrelsome, but must be kind to everyone, able to teach, and forbearing. / He must gently reprove those who oppose him, in the hope that God may grant them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/galatians/5-22.htm">Galatians 5:22-23</a></span><br />But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, / gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/proverbs/21-14.htm">Proverbs 21:14</a></span><br />A gift in secret soothes anger, and a covert bribe pacifies great wrath.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/romans/12-18.htm">Romans 12:18</a></span><br />If it is possible on your part, live at peace with everyone.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/ephesians/4-2.htm">Ephesians 4:2</a></span><br />with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love,<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/proverbs/14-29.htm">Proverbs 14:29</a></span><br />A patient man has great understanding, but a quick-tempered man promotes folly.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/colossians/3-12.htm">Colossians 3:12-13</a></span><br />Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, clothe yourselves with hearts of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. / Bear with one another and forgive any complaint you may have against someone else. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/proverbs/19-11.htm">Proverbs 19:11</a></span><br />A man’s insight gives him patience, and his virtue is to overlook an offense.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/1_thessalonians/5-14.htm">1 Thessalonians 5:14</a></span><br />And we urge you, brothers, to admonish the unruly, encourage the fainthearted, help the weak, and be patient with everyone.</div><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a name="tsk" id="tsk"><div class="vheading">Treasury of Scripture</div><p class="tsk2">By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaks the bone.</p><p class="hdg">long</p><p class="tskverse"><b><a href="/proverbs/15-1.htm">Proverbs 15:1</a></b></br> A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.</p><p class="tskverse"><b><a href="/proverbs/16-14.htm">Proverbs 16:14</a></b></br> The wrath of a king <i>is as</i> messengers of death: but a wise man will pacify it.</p><p class="tskverse"><b><a href="/genesis/32-4.htm">Genesis 32:4</a></b></br> And he commanded them, saying, Thus shall ye speak unto my lord Esau; Thy servant Jacob saith thus, I have sojourned with Laban, and stayed there until now:</p><p class="hdg">the bone </p><div class="vheading">Jump to Previous</div><a href="/proverbs/17-22.htm">Bone</a> <a href="/proverbs/18-1.htm">Break</a> <a href="/proverbs/14-1.htm">Breaketh</a> <a href="/proverbs/17-14.htm">Breaks</a> <a href="/proverbs/24-31.htm">Broken</a> <a href="/2_peter/3-15.htm">Forbearance</a> <a href="/2_timothy/2-24.htm">Forbearing</a> <a href="/proverbs/22-4.htm">Gentle</a> <a href="/proverbs/22-22.htm">Judge</a> <a href="/2_timothy/3-10.htm">Long-Suffering</a> <a href="/proverbs/23-10.htm">Moved</a> <a href="/proverbs/19-11.htm">Patience</a> <a href="/2_chronicles/18-2.htm">Persuaded</a> <a href="/proverbs/25-7.htm">Prince</a> <a href="/proverbs/17-10.htm">Protest</a> <a href="/proverbs/25-7.htm">Ruler</a> <a href="/proverbs/15-1.htm">Soft</a> <a href="/proverbs/25-13.htm">Time</a> <a href="/proverbs/21-23.htm">Tongue</a> <a href="/proverbs/21-11.htm">Undergoes</a> <a href="/proverbs/10-12.htm">Wrongs</a><div class="vheading2">Jump to Next</div><a href="/jeremiah/50-17.htm">Bone</a> <a href="/ecclesiastes/3-3.htm">Break</a> <a href="/ecclesiastes/10-8.htm">Breaketh</a> <a href="/ecclesiastes/10-8.htm">Breaks</a> <a href="/proverbs/25-19.htm">Broken</a> <a href="/jeremiah/15-15.htm">Forbearance</a> <a href="/jeremiah/20-9.htm">Forbearing</a> <a href="/proverbs/29-23.htm">Gentle</a> <a href="/proverbs/29-14.htm">Judge</a> <a href="/romans/2-4.htm">Long-Suffering</a> <a href="/proverbs/30-21.htm">Moved</a> <a href="/ecclesiastes/7-8.htm">Patience</a> <a href="/jeremiah/20-7.htm">Persuaded</a> <a href="/proverbs/28-16.htm">Prince</a> <a href="/proverbs/27-5.htm">Protest</a> <a href="/proverbs/28-3.htm">Ruler</a> <a href="/ecclesiastes/12-4.htm">Soft</a> <a href="/proverbs/25-19.htm">Time</a> <a href="/proverbs/25-23.htm">Tongue</a> <a href="/luke/9-25.htm">Undergoes</a> <a href="/isaiah/34-8.htm">Wrongs</a><div class="vheading2">Proverbs 25</div><span class="reftext">1. </span><span class="outlinetext"><a href="/proverbs/25-1.htm">observations about kings</a></span><br><span class="reftext">8. </span><span class="outlinetext"><a href="/proverbs/25-8.htm">and about avoiding causes of quarrels</a></span><br></div></div><div id="mdd"><div align="center"><div class="bot2"><table align="center" width="100%"><tr><td><div align="center"> <script id="3d27ed63fc4348d5b062c4527ae09445"> (new Image()).src = 'https://capi.connatix.com/tr/si?token=51ce25d5-1a8c-424a-8695-4bd48c750f35&cid=3a9f82d0-4344-4f8d-ac0c-e1a0eb43a405'; 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In the context of ancient Israel, rulers held significant power, and approaching them required wisdom and tact. The idea that patience can persuade a ruler suggests the importance of timing and persistence in communication. This aligns with the broader biblical principle found in <a href="/ecclesiastes/7-8.htm">Ecclesiastes 7:8</a>, which states that "the patient in spirit is better than the proud in spirit." Patience is also a fruit of the Spirit (<a href="/galatians/5-22.htm">Galatians 5:22</a>), indicating its divine value. Historically, figures like Esther demonstrated patience in approaching King Xerxes, ultimately leading to the salvation of her people (Esther 5-7).<p><b>and a gentle tongue can break a bone</b><br>The imagery of a gentle tongue breaking a bone highlights the power of soft and wise speech. In the ancient Near Eastern culture, speech was a powerful tool, and the ability to speak wisely was highly valued. This phrase suggests that gentle words can achieve what force cannot, echoing the sentiment found in <a href="/proverbs/15.htm">Proverbs 15:1</a>, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." The metaphor of breaking a bone with gentleness underscores the paradoxical strength of meekness, a quality exemplified by Jesus Christ, who often used gentle words to convey profound truths and challenge the status quo (<a href="/matthew/11-29.htm">Matthew 11:29</a>). This principle encourages believers to use their words carefully and with kindness, reflecting the character of Christ.<div class="vheading2">Persons / Places / Events</div>1. <b><a href="/topical/r/ruler.htm">Ruler</a></b><br>Represents those in positions of authority or leadership. In the context of ancient Israel, this could refer to kings, judges, or other leaders.<br><br>2. <b><a href="/topical/s/solomon.htm">Solomon</a></b><br>Traditionally attributed as the author of Proverbs, Solomon was the king of Israel known for his wisdom.<br><br>3. <b><a href="/topical/a/ancient_israel.htm">Ancient Israel</a></b><br>The cultural and historical backdrop of the Proverbs, where wisdom literature was highly valued.<br><br>4. <b><a href="/topical/t/the_wise_person.htm">The Wise Person</a></b><br>The implied audience of Proverbs, who seeks to live according to God's wisdom.<br><br>5. <b><a href="/topical/t/the_persuader.htm">The Persuader</a></b><br>The individual who uses patience and gentle speech to influence others, as described in the verse.<div class="vheading2">Teaching Points</div><b><a href="/topical/t/the_power_of_patience.htm">The Power of Patience</a></b><br>Patience is a virtue that can influence even those in authority. It requires trust in God's timing and wisdom.<br><br><b><a href="/topical/g/gentle_speech_as_a_tool_for_influence.htm">Gentle Speech as a Tool for Influence</a></b><br>A gentle tongue, though seemingly weak, can have a profound impact. It can break down defenses and open doors for dialogue and understanding.<br><br><b><a href="/topical/w/wisdom_in_communication.htm">Wisdom in Communication</a></b><br>Effective communication in the Christian life involves both patience and gentleness. This reflects the character of Christ and can lead to positive outcomes.<br><br><b><a href="/topical/t/the_role_of_wisdom_in_leadership.htm">The Role of Wisdom in Leadership</a></b><br>Leaders and those who influence others should cultivate patience and gentleness, as these qualities can lead to better decision-making and harmony.<br><br><b><a href="/topical/p/practical_application_in_conflict_resolution.htm">Practical Application in Conflict Resolution</a></b><br>In conflicts, applying patience and gentle speech can lead to resolution and reconciliation, reflecting the peace of Christ.<div class="vheading2">Lists and Questions</div><a href="/top10/lessons_from_proverbs_25.htm">Top 10 Lessons from Proverbs 25</a><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a href="/q/main_themes_of_bible's_books.htm">What are the main themes of the Bible's books?</a><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a href="/q/key_teachings_in_book_of_james.htm">What are the key teachings in the Book of James?</a><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a href="/q/how_can_you_speak_truthfully_with_love.htm">How can you speak truthfully with love?</a><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a href="/q/what_does_the_bible_say_on_quarrelsome_women.htm">What does the Bible say about quarrelsome women?</a><a name="commentary" id="commentary"></a><div class="vheading2"><a href="/commentaries/pulpit/proverbs/25.htm">Pulpit Commentary</a></div><span class="cmt_sub_title">Verse 15.</span> - <span class="cmt_word">By long forbearing;</span> <span class="accented">i</span>.<span class="accented">e</span>. by patience, calmness that does not break out into passion whatever be the provocation, even, it is implied, in the face of a false and malicious accusation (comp. <a href="/proverbs/14-29.htm">Proverbs 14:29</a>). <span class="cmt_word">Is a prince persuaded.</span> <span class="accented">Katson</span> is rather "an arbiter," or judge, than "a prince," and the proverb says that such an officer is led to take a favourable view of an accused person's case when he sees him calm and composed, ready to explain the matter without any undue heat or irritation, keeping steadily to the point, and not seduced by calumny or misrepresentation to forget himself and lose his temper. Such a bearing presupposes innocence and weighs favourably with the judge. The LXX. makes the gnome apply to monarchs alone, "In long suffering is prosperity unto kings." <span class="cmt_word">A soft tongue breaketh the bone.</span> A soft answer (<a href="/proverbs/15-1.htm">Proverbs 15:1</a>), gentle, conciliating words, overcome opposition, and disarm the most determined enemy, and make tender in him that which was hardest and most uncompromising. "Gutta cavat lapidem, non vi, sed saepe cadendo." Similar proverbs are found elsewhere, though probably in a different sense. Thus in modern Greek, "The tongue has no bones, yet it breaks bones;" in Turkish, "The tongue has no bone, yet it crushes;" again, "One drop of honey," says the Turk, "catches more bees than a ton of vinegar." <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/commentaries/proverbs/25-15.htm">Parallel Commentaries ...</a></span><span class="p"><br /><br /><br /></span><a name="lexicon" id="lexicon"></a><div class="vheading">Hebrew</div><span class="word">Through patience</span><br /><span class="heb">בְּאֹ֣רֶךְ</span> <span class="translit">(bə·’ō·reḵ)</span><br /><span class="parse">Preposition-b | Noun - masculine singular construct<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_753.htm">Strong's 753: </a> </span><span class="str2">Length</span><br /><br /><span class="word">a ruler</span><br /><span class="heb">קָצִ֑ין</span> <span class="translit">(qā·ṣîn)</span><br /><span class="parse">Noun - masculine singular<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_7101.htm">Strong's 7101: </a> </span><span class="str2">A magistrate, other leader</span><br /><br /><span class="word">can be persuaded,</span><br /><span class="heb">יְפֻתֶּ֣ה</span> <span class="translit">(yə·p̄ut·teh)</span><br /><span class="parse">Verb - Pual - Imperfect - third person masculine singular<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_6601.htm">Strong's 6601: </a> </span><span class="str2">To open, be, roomy, to be, simple, delude</span><br /><br /><span class="word">and a gentle</span><br /><span class="heb">רַ֝כָּ֗ה</span> <span class="translit">(rak·kāh)</span><br /><span class="parse">Adjective - feminine singular<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_7390.htm">Strong's 7390: </a> </span><span class="str2">Tender, delicate, soft</span><br /><br /><span class="word">tongue</span><br /><span class="heb">וְלָשׁ֥וֹן</span> <span class="translit">(wə·lā·šō·wn)</span><br /><span class="parse">Conjunctive waw | Noun - common singular<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_3956.htm">Strong's 3956: </a> </span><span class="str2">The tongue</span><br /><br /><span class="word">can break</span><br /><span class="heb">תִּשְׁבָּר־</span> <span class="translit">(tiš·bār-)</span><br /><span class="parse">Verb - Qal - Imperfect - third person feminine singular<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_7665.htm">Strong's 7665: </a> </span><span class="str2">To break, break in pieces</span><br /><br /><span class="word">a bone.</span><br /><span class="heb">גָּֽרֶם׃</span> <span class="translit">(gā·rem)</span><br /><span class="parse">Noun - masculine singular<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_1634.htm">Strong's 1634: </a> </span><span class="str2">A bone, self, very</span><br /><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><div class="vheading">Links</div><a href="/niv/proverbs/25-15.htm">Proverbs 25:15 NIV</a><br /><a href="/nlt/proverbs/25-15.htm">Proverbs 25:15 NLT</a><br /><a href="/esv/proverbs/25-15.htm">Proverbs 25:15 ESV</a><br /><a href="/nasb/proverbs/25-15.htm">Proverbs 25:15 NASB</a><br /><a href="/kjv/proverbs/25-15.htm">Proverbs 25:15 KJV</a><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a href="//bibleapps.com/proverbs/25-15.htm">Proverbs 25:15 BibleApps.com</a><br /><a href="//bibliaparalela.com/proverbs/25-15.htm">Proverbs 25:15 Biblia Paralela</a><br /><a href="//holybible.com.cn/proverbs/25-15.htm">Proverbs 25:15 Chinese Bible</a><br /><a href="//saintebible.com/proverbs/25-15.htm">Proverbs 25:15 French Bible</a><br /><a href="/catholic/proverbs/25-15.htm">Proverbs 25:15 Catholic Bible</a><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a href="/proverbs/25-15.htm">OT Poetry: Proverbs 25:15 By patience a ruler is persuaded (Prov. 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