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lively discussion of Yale GALA's own Will Schwalbe's &quot;We Should Not be Friends&quot; who will join for the dicsussion!</b></font> </p> <p> &nbsp; </p> <p> &nbsp; </p> <p> &nbsp; </p> <p> <font size="3"><b>Please RSVP for the Zoom link</b>.&nbsp; (Same as last month, if you attended before).&nbsp;</font><br /> </p> <div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif"> <span style="font-size: medium; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif"><br /> [We send book announcements to everyone who indicates an interest in the Book Club] - if you aren't receiving these emails please send natasha@yalegala.org your details.</span> </div> <p> <b style="color: #222222; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; color: red"><br /> </span></b> </p> <div style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small"> <p style="margin: 0px" class="MsoNormal"> &ldquo; </p> </div> <p style="box-sizing: border-box; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0.5rem; display: inline; color: #474747; font-family: 'Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px"> &nbsp;&nbsp; </p> <p style="margin: 12pt 0in 0in" class="MsoNormal"> <font face="arial, helvetica, sans-serif" size="3">2. <b>Wikipedia Entry:</b>&nbsp;</font> </p> <p style="margin: 0.5em 0px; color: #202122"> <font face="arial, helvetica, sans-serif" size="3"><i><b><br /> <br /> </b></i></font> </p> <p style="margin: 12pt 0in 0in" class="MsoNormal"> <br /> <font face="arial, helvetica, sans-serif" size="3" style="color: #222222"><b><br /> 3. Where to find the book:&nbsp;</b></font> </p> <p style="margin: 12pt 0in 0in" class="MsoNormal"> <span style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; background-color: #ffffff"><font color="#ff0000"><b>Google Books</b></font></span> </p> <p style="margin: 12pt 0in 0in" class="MsoNormal"> <span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">Other sources: your library (including inter-library loan), retailers, Amazon&nbsp;</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">or use the free Kindle app on any device; book is available from all booksellers in every format).&nbsp;</span>&nbsp;<br /> <br /> <font size="2"><b>It also may be available to borrow (for free) on WorldCat</b>:&nbsp;<a href="https://www.worldcat.org/title/1304517630">https://www.worldcat.org/title/1304517630</a><br /> (Enter your location)<br /> <br /> Alas it isn't available at OpenLibrary&nbsp;</font><a href="https://openlibrary.org/">https://openlibrary.org/</a><font size="2">&nbsp; Preview only:&nbsp;</font><br /> <font size="2"><br /> or The Internet Archive&nbsp;</font><a href="https://archive.org/">https://archive.org/</a><font size="2"><br /> </font><b><font size="3"><br /> Used book sellers include</font></b> </p> <p style="margin: 12pt 0in 0in" class="MsoNormal"> <font size="2"><font color="#ff0000">Abe Books&nbsp;</font></font> </p> <p style="margin: 12pt 0in 0in" class="MsoNormal"> <font size="2" color="#ff0000">Thriftbooks <br /> </font><span style="font-size: small"><font color="#ff0000"><br /> </font><font face="arial, helvetica, sans-serif">Alibris Books&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></span> </p> <p style="margin: 12pt 0in 0in" class="MsoNormal"> &nbsp; </p> <p style="margin: 12pt 0in 0in" class="MsoNormal"> &nbsp;&nbsp; </p> <p style="margin: 12pt 0in 0in" class="MsoNormal"> <font face="Calibri, sans-serif" size="3">4. *</font><b style="color: black; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif"><font size="3">OPTIONAL RESOURCES* for the book and auth</font></b><b style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif"><font size="3">ors here:&nbsp;&nbsp;</font></b> </p> <p style="margin: 12pt 0in 0in" class="MsoNormal"> <span style="color: black"> <br /> <font face="arial, helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Pub</font></span><font face="arial, helvetica, sans-serif" size="2"><b style="color: black">lisher's Page:&nbsp;</b></font> </p> <p style="margin: 12pt 0in 0in" class="MsoNormal"> &nbsp; </p> <p style="margin: 12pt 0in 0in" class="MsoNormal"> &nbsp; </p> <p style="margin: 12pt 0in 0in" class="MsoNormal"> &nbsp; </p> <h3 style="box-sizing: border-box; padding: 0px 0px 4px; margin: 0px; text-rendering: optimizelegibility; line-height: 24px; color: #0f1111; font-family: 'Amazon Ember', Arial, sans-serif"><span style="font-size: 18px; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">5. Reviews</span></h3> <p> <font face="arial, helvetica, sans-serif" size="3">&nbsp;</font> </p> <h4 style="box-sizing: border-box; margin-top: 12px; margin-bottom: 8px; color: var(--font-color-headings,var(--generic-graphite,#292929)); font-family: 'Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif; font-weight: var(--font-weight-headings,600); break-after: avoid; break-inside: avoid; font-size: 16px; line-height: 1.37" class="cp-heading heading-modest review-source heading--linked">Library Journal</h4> <div style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #474747; font-family: 'Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px" class="cp-expandable-html"> <div style="box-sizing: border-box" class="expandable-html__text-container"> <br /> </div> <div style="box-sizing: border-box; display: inline" class="expandable-html__text"> &nbsp; </div> </div> <div style="box-sizing: border-box; display: inline" class="expandable-html__text"> <span style="color: var(--font-color-headings,var(--generic-graphite,#292929)); font-family: 'Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px; font-weight: var(--font-weight-headings,600)">Publishers Weekly<br /> </span><br /> </div> <div style="box-sizing: border-box; display: inline" class="expandable-html__text"> <span style="color: #474747; font-family: 'Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px"><br /> <br /> <br /> </span> </div> <div> <h4 style="box-sizing: border-box; margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 12px; color: var(--font-color-headings,var(--generic-graphite,#292929)); font-family: 'Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif; font-weight: var(--font-weight-headings,600); break-after: avoid; break-inside: avoid; font-size: 16px; line-height: 1.37" class="cp-heading heading-modest review-source heading--linked">Booklist</h4> <div style="box-sizing: border-box; color: #474747; font-family: 'Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 16px" class="cp-expandable-html"> <div style="box-sizing: border-box" class="expandable-html__text-container"> <br /> </div> </div> <p> &nbsp; </p> <p> <span style="font-size: 18px; box-sizing: border-box"><b style="color: #222222; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; color: black">&ndash;&gt; ** INVITE ** ANY YALE ALUMNI to our discussion on July 20:&nbsp;</span></b></span> </p> <p style="margin: 0in; color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif" class="MsoNormal"> &nbsp; </p> <p style="margin: 0in; color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif" class="MsoNormal"> <b style="font-size: 12pt"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; color: black">NOTE: Our informal group doesn&rsquo;t have any set &ldquo;curriculum;&rdquo; we discuss the books that members nominate and that we all vote for&hellip;</span></b><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">&nbsp;but ongoing themes, connected to LGBTQ+ experience &ndash; sometimes including Yale &ndash; do emerge.&nbsp;<b>At discussions, each of us can bring up ANY points we want</b>. We welcome the widest range of opinions, in a lively collegial atmosphere &ndash; Boola Boola Redux!</span><span style="font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 10px">&nbsp;</span> </p> <p> &nbsp; </p> <p> <span style="font-size: medium; font-family: sans-serif; caret-color: #000000">Yale GALA LGBTQ+ Book Club is a series of lively Zoom discussions of LGBTQ+ contemporary and classic novels, non-fiction, plays, and poetry. All alumni are welcome, of all orientations, genders, races, and points of view. We meet the third Thursday of every month at 8 pm ET via Zoom.&nbsp;</span> </p> <p> <font size="3">&nbsp;</font> </p> <p> <font size="3" color="#ff0000"><b><span style="caret-color: #4a4a4a; font-family: 'Mallory Light'">To register, please<span class="Apple-converted-space">&nbsp;</span></span>email natasha@yalegalaevents.org<span style="caret-color: #4a4a4a"><span class="Apple-converted-space" style="font-family: 'Mallory Light'">&nbsp;</span><font face="arial, helvetica, sans-serif">with the subject line, &ldquo;Yale GALA LGBTQ+ Book Club:&nbsp; We Should Not Be Friends&quot; -</font></span></b></font><b style="color: #ff0000; font-size: medium"><span style="caret-color: #4a4a4a"><font face="arial, helvetica, sans-serif">&nbsp;or simply Book Club</font></span></b> </p> <p> &nbsp;<br /> <font size="2"> More Info:&nbsp;</font><a href="http://www.yalegala.org/article.html?aid=750">http://www.yalegala.org/article.html?aid=750</a> </p> <div> &nbsp; </div> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in; color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif"> <b><span style="font-size: 16pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; color: black">SOME BOOKS TO CONSIDER FOR FUTURE DISCUSSIONS</span></b> </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in; color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif"> <span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; color: black">&nbsp;</span> </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in; color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif"> <span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; color: black">We are NOT limited to the below recommendations but see what you think of these diverse titles.<b>&nbsp;</b></span><b><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; color: red">Nominate any LGBTQ+ book that interests you, contemporary or classic</span></b><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; color: black">, whether a work of<b>&nbsp;FICTION&nbsp;</b>(novel, story collection),&nbsp;<b>NON-FICTION</b>&nbsp;(history, biography, memoir, essay collection),<b>&nbsp;PLAY</b>&nbsp;(or musical), or<b>&nbsp;POETRY</b>; there doesn&rsquo;t need to be a Yale connection. Mention your choice, at a discussion, and I&rsquo;ll add it to the following list for future group emails. We periodically, live at the beginning of discussions, take nominations and then vote as a group. <br /> <br /> For our UPCOMING OPEN DATES (&lsquo;Third Thursdays&rsquo;) &ndash;&nbsp;<b>in the next couple of months, we need to select books for: March , April and May. </b>&nbsp;</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; color: black">If you&rsquo;re looking for some ideas,&nbsp;</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">here are&nbsp;</span><a href="https://jclarkmedia.com/gaybooks/#external" target="_blank"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">major LGBTQ+ book &lsquo;best lists&rsquo; and award winners</span></a><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">&nbsp;(Lambda Literary, Publishing Triangle, Stonewall Awards, more).&nbsp;<b>NEW!</b>&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><a href="https://jclarkmedia.com/bipoc/" target="_blank"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">BIPOC (Black, Indigenous and People of Color) LGBTQ+ literature</span></a><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">&nbsp;with links to external BIPOC sites. You&rsquo;re not limited to those websites. PLEASE NOTE: new titles take a few months to become widely available in libraries. Here are members&rsquo; recommendations.<span style="color: black"></span></span> </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in; color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif"> <span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; color: black">&nbsp;</span> </p> <ul type="disc" style="color: #222222; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: small; margin-top: 0in; margin-bottom: 0in"> <li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in; color: black; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif"><b><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">AMAN</span></b><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">&nbsp;recommends: (FICTION)&nbsp;<b>Delicious Foods</b>&nbsp;by James Hannaham;&nbsp;&nbsp;<b>Marriage of a Thousand Lies</b>&nbsp;by SJ Sindu;&nbsp;&nbsp;<b>The Prophets</b>&nbsp;by Robert Jones Jr.;&nbsp;&nbsp;<b>The Story of a Marriage</b>&nbsp;by Andrew Sean Greer.&nbsp;&nbsp;(NON-FICTION)</span><span style="color: windowtext">&nbsp;</span><b><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">Becoming a Man: The Story of a Transition</span></b><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">&nbsp;by P Carl;&nbsp;&nbsp;<b>Hunger: A Memoir of (My) Body</b>&nbsp;by Roxane Gay; <b>Love, Hait and Click Bait</b> by Liz Bower and <b>Ghost Wall: A Novel </b>by Sarah Moss.</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in; color: black; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif"><b><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">ANN</span></b><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">&nbsp;recommends:&nbsp;<b>The Motion of Light in Water: Sex and Science Fiction Writing in the East Village</b>&nbsp;memoir by Samuel R. Delany</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in; color: black; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif"><b><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">BRUCE</span></b><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">&nbsp;recommends:&nbsp;<b>Giovanni's Room</b>&nbsp;by James Baldwin;&nbsp;&nbsp;<b>The Gallery</b>&nbsp;by John Horne Burns (1947);&nbsp;<b>Dreadful: The Short Life and Gay Times of John Horne Burns</b>&nbsp;by David Margolick</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in; color: black; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif"><b><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">CHIP</span></b><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">&nbsp;recommends:&nbsp;<b>Poetry of Emily Dickinson</b>&nbsp;(list of&nbsp;</span><span style="color: windowtext"><a href="https://jclarkmedia.com/dickinson/" target="_blank"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">Dickinson&rsquo;s most openly lesbian poems</span></a></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">); <b>There Will be No Miracles Here</b> by Casey Gerald; and <b>Dreadful: The Short Life and Gay Times of John Horne Burns</b>&nbsp;by David Margolick</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in; color: black; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif"><b><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">JIM</span></b><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">&nbsp;recommends:&nbsp;<b>The Bell</b>&nbsp;by Iris Murdoch;&nbsp;&nbsp;<b>The Importance of Being Earnest</b>&nbsp;by Oscar Wilde;&nbsp;&nbsp;<b>Julian</b>&nbsp;[last &lsquo;pagan&rsquo; Roman emperor] by Gore Vidal;&nbsp;&nbsp;<b>Pictures and Passions: A History of Homosexuality in the Visual Arts</b>&nbsp;by James M. Saslow (includes hundreds of art photos; winner of two Lambda Literary Awards) &ndash; THANKS</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; color: windowtext">&nbsp;to Prof. Saslow,<b>&nbsp;</b></span><span style="color: windowtext"><a href="https://www.academia.edu/41736543/Pictures_and_Passions_A_History_of_Homosexuality_in_the_Visual_Arts" target="_blank"><b><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; background: yellow">Pictures and Passions is briefly FREE to download complete</span></b></a></span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; color: windowtext">&nbsp;(use the basic &ldquo;Download PDF&rdquo; link; 59 MB) and <b>Gilgamesh</b> (which translation).&nbsp;</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif"></span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in; color: black; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif"><b><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">MARY ANNE</span></b><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">&nbsp;recommends:&nbsp;<b>The Future Is History: How Totalitarianism Reclaimed Russia</b>&nbsp;by Masha Gessen; and <b>Love Me Tender</b> by Constance Debre (English translation and/or French original).&nbsp;</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in; color: black; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif"><b><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">TASH</span></b><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">&nbsp;recommends:&nbsp;</span><b><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">Looking for Lorraine: The Radiant and Radical Life of Lorraine Hansberry</span></b><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">&nbsp;by Imani Perry. There is also a PBS documentary :)&nbsp;</span><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif"></span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in; color: black; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">CAROLYN recommends: Paul Takes the Form of a Mortal Girl b Andrea Lawlor and XX by Carolina Robertis</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in; color: red; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif"><b><span style="font-size: 14pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">What would YOU &ndash; including new members &ndash; like our group to discuss? Nominate ANY LGBTQ+ book that interests you! I&rsquo;ll add your recommendations here.</span></b></li> </ul> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in; color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif"> <b><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; color: black">&nbsp;</span></b> </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in; color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif"> <span style="font-size: 12pt">&nbsp;</span> </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in; color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif"> <b><span style="font-size: 16pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; color: black">BOOKS WE&rsquo;VE DISCUSSED (Complete List):</span></b><span style="font-size: 16pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; color: black"></span> </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in; color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif"> &nbsp; &nbsp; </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in; color: #222222; font-size: 12pt; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif"> &nbsp; </p> <ul type="disc" style="margin-top: 0in; margin-bottom: 0in"> <li class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in"><span style="color: black; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt">April 2024: &quot;Most Ardently&quot; by Gale Cole Novoa</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">March 2024:&nbsp;</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">February 2024:</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">January 2024: TBD</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">December 2023: Why Fish Don't Exist&quot; by LuLu Miller</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">November 2023: &quot;My Government Means to Kill Me&quot; by Rasheed Newson</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">October 2023: Time Square Red Times Square Blue, by Samuel Delany</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">September 2023: &quot;The Future is History. How Totalitarianism Reclaimed Russia&quot; by Masha Gessen&nbsp;</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in">August 2023</li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">July 2023: &quot;Girls Can Kiss Now&quot; by Jill Gutowitz - a collection of essays</span>&nbsp;</li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">June 2023: I'm Afraid of Men and People Change -- both by Vivek Sharya; and History Compics - The Stonewall Riots, Making a Stand for LGBTQ Rights (a graphic novel for ages 9-13).&nbsp;</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">May 2023: Detransition, Baby by Torrey Peters (2020)</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">April 2023: Genderqueer by Maia Kobabe (2019)</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">March 2023: There Will Be No Miracles Here by Casey Gerald (Yale MC '09)</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">February 2023: Love in the Big City by Sang Jong Park. Translated by Anton Hur (2021-201 pages)</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">January 2023: The Summer Book by Tove Jansson</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">December 2022: Spoiler Alert: The Hero Dies:A Memoir of Love, Loss and Other Four-Letter Words by Michael Ausiello (2017). Also a Dec 2022 movie Spoiler</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">November 2022: Love, Hate and Click Bait by Liz Bowery (2022)</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">October 2022:&nbsp;</span><b><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">Looking for Lorraine: The Radiant and Radical Life of Lorraine Hansberry</span></b><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">&nbsp;by Imani Perry (Yale '94).&nbsp; (2018) - 250 pages. PBG movie is Lorraine Hansberry: Sighted Eyes / Feeling Heart</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">September 2022: <b>Paul Takes the Form of a Mortal Girl</b>, by Andrea Lawlor (2017)</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">May and June 2022: <b>Maurice</b>, by EM Forster (1913 - published 1971 with a happy ending)</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">April 2022: <b>On Earth We're Briefly Gorgeous</b>, by Ocean Vuong</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">March 2022: <b>Ain't I a Woman</b>, by bell hooks</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">February 2022 &ndash;&nbsp;<b>Sweeney Todd, The Demon Barber of Fleet Street</b>, Stephen Sondheim&rsquo;s &ldquo;Musical Thriller&rdquo;</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">January 2022 &ndash;&nbsp;<b>Song in a Weary Throat</b>, Pauli Murray&rsquo;s memoir. (Movie available)</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">December 2021 &ndash;&nbsp;<b>Orlando</b>, Virginia Woolf&rsquo;s novel</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">November 2021 &ndash;&nbsp;<b>Shuggie Bain</b>, Douglas Stuart&rsquo;s novel</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">October 2021 &ndash;&nbsp;<b>Fa**ots</b>, Larry Kramer&rsquo;s satirical first novel</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">September 2021 &ndash;&nbsp;<b>The Sparsholt Affair</b>, Alan Hollinghurst&rsquo;s novel</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">August 2021 &ndash;&nbsp;<b>The Talented Mr. Ripley</b>, Patricia Highsmith&rsquo;s thriller novel</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">July 2021 &ndash;&nbsp;<b>Becoming a Man: Half a Life Story</b>, Paul Monette&rsquo;s memoir</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">June 2021 &ndash;&nbsp;<b>Girl, Woman, Other</b>, Bernardine Evaristo&rsquo;s novel</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">May 2021 &ndash;&nbsp;<b>The Inheritance</b>, Matthew Lopez&rsquo;s play, inspired by E.M. Forster&rsquo;s&nbsp;novel&nbsp;<b>Howards End</b></span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">April 2021 &ndash;&nbsp;<b>The Heart&rsquo;s Invisible Furies</b>, John Boyne&rsquo;s novel</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">March 2021 &ndash;&nbsp;<b>Native Country of the Heart, a&nbsp;Memoir</b>, by Cherr&iacute;e Moraga</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">February 2021 &ndash;&nbsp;<b>Leaves of Grass</b>&nbsp;(1855 first version), Walt Whitman&rsquo;s poetry</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">January 2021 &ndash;&nbsp;<b>The Song of Achilles</b>, Madeline Miller&rsquo;s novel</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">December 2020 &ndash;&nbsp;<b>Call Me by Your Name</b>, Andr&eacute; Aciman&rsquo;s novel [no meetings in October or November]</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">September 2020 &ndash;&nbsp;<b>The Gods of Tango</b>, Carolina de Robertis&rsquo;s novel [no meeting in August]</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">July 2020 &ndash;&nbsp;<b>Under the Udala Trees</b>, Chinelo Okparanta&rsquo;s novel</span></li> <li class="MsoNormal" style="color: black; font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt; margin: 0in"><span style="font-size: 11pt; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif">June 2020 (our first discussion) &ndash;&nbsp;<b>Zami: A New Spelling of My Name</b>, Audre Lorde&rsquo;s autobiographical novel (&ldquo;biomythography&rdquo;)</span></li> </ul> <p> &nbsp; </p> <p> <b><font face="arial, helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">&nbsp;More info:&nbsp;</font></b> </p> </div> </p> </td> </tr> </table></div> <table width="100%" border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0"> <tr> <td align=center valign=middle height=150 class=hellorow><br />&copy; Copyright Yale Gay and Lesbian Alumni/ae Association, Inc., ALL RIGHTS RESERVED.<br /> <a href="http://www.AlumniMagnet.com"><img src="images/magnet_assets/icons/powered_by_alumnimagnet_2.png" id="bobtopcap" style="width: 220px; height: 30px;" border="0" class=shakoof ></a><br> <a href="http://www.AlumniMagnet.com" style="font-family:arial; font-size:9px; font-color:#333333; text-decoration:none;">Alumni Development Software</a> </td> </tr> </table> </body> </html>

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