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<p>Recently, Ann Andriani posted a review of <span style="text-decoration:underline;">Opening Up</span> over at <a href="http://www.allsexreviews.com/opening-up.html" target="_blank">All Sex Reviews</a>, and she had fantastic things to say about the book!</p> <p><em>“I said it before and I’ll say it again, “<span style="text-decoration:underline;">Opening Up</span>” is THE resource for creating a nontraditional relationship that works for you and your partner(s). It offers advice, stories, guidance, ideas and thoughtful passages from how relationships become open to opening up, creating rules, communicating feelings/fears/jealousy/joys to ironing out the rough spots. You hear from couples that it works for and others that ran into difficulties and challenges and had to close things up. It’s not a fantasy book, it doesn’t promise or even hint at success without work. It’s that kind of honesty that always tickles me and I truly appreciate it.”</em></p> <p>Feel free to check out the entire review at the <a href="http://www.allsexreviews.com/opening-up.html" target="_blank">website</a>!</p> </div><!-- .entry-content --> <footer class="entry-footer"> <span class="byline"><span class="author vcard"><img alt='' src='https://secure.gravatar.com/avatar/4222149fcbe106311037bab248184e81?s=49&r=g' srcset='https://secure.gravatar.com/avatar/4222149fcbe106311037bab248184e81?s=98&r=g 2x' class='avatar avatar-49 photo' height='49' width='49' /><span class="screen-reader-text">Author </span> <a class="url fn n" href="https://openingup.net/author/admin/">Tristan Taormino</a></span></span><span class="posted-on"><span class="screen-reader-text">Posted on </span><a href="https://openingup.net/2009/11/03/another-fantastic-review-for-opening-up/" rel="bookmark"><time class="entry-date published updated" datetime="2009-11-03T18:39:34-05:00">November 3, 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