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But if you're looking for an intentional, God-pleasing game plan for finding a future spouse, Joshua Harris delivers an appealing one. A compelling new foreword, an all-new "8 Great Courtship Conversations" section, and updated <u class="showmore_hide">material throughout makes this five-year revision of the original <i>Boy Meets Girl</i> a must-have! Harris illustrates how biblical courtship--a healthy, joyous alternative to recreational dating--worked for him and his wife. <i>Boy Meets Girl</i> presents an inspiring, practical example for readers wanting to pursue the possibility of marriage with someone they may be serious about. Are you ready for "romance with purpose"? If you're fed up with self-centered relationships that end in disillusionment, it's time to rethink romance. Finding the loving, committed relationship you want shouldn't mean throwing away your hopes, your integrity, or your heart. In <i>Boy Meets Girl</i>, Joshua Harris --the guy who kissed dating goodbye--makes the case for courtship. As old-fashioned as it might sound, courtship is what modern day relationships desperately need. Think of it as romance chaperoned by wisdom, cared for by community, and directed by God's Word. Filled with inspiring stories from men and women who have rediscovered courtship, <i>Boy Meets Girl</i> is honest, romantic, and refreshingly biblical. Keep God at the center of your relationship as you discover how to: nbsp;nbsp;nbsp;*nbsp;Set a clear course for your romance nbsp;nbsp;nbsp;*nbsp;Get closer without compromise nbsp;nbsp;nbsp;*nbsp;Find support in a caring community nbsp;nbsp;nbsp;*nbsp;Deal with past sexual sin nbsp;nbsp;nbsp;*nbsp;Make the right decisions about your future New! Courtship Conversations Eight ideas for great dates that will help grow and guide your relationship. 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If you trust Him enough to wait on romance in dating, He will lovingly guide you as you pursue it in courtship...right to that wonderful moment when you kneel together at the altar." -- Joshua Harris</u><span class="showmore_showlink">… (<a href="#" onclick="showMore('u_38adf057');">more</a>)</span></div class="" ></td></tr></table></div><div id="workpagesort_10" class="quickedit light flipped"><div class="nav"><div class="sectionhead_rbutcontainer"><span style="font-size:9px;font-weight:normal;"><a value="all members" value="all members" class="func_lt2_display_ui lt2button btn ltbtn-button-float-right btn-tiny btn-default" type="button" role="button" href="/work/12709/members/" ><span class="btntxt">all members</span></a></span></div><span class="navInfoTitle"><span class="divotBig" onclick="LibraryThing.work.handleSectionHide(this, 'members', 'u_025fb7a5', '0');"><span class="chdivot" style="font-size:9px;vertical-align:bottom;">▼</span></span>Members</span><span 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class="workSection"><div class="review_showing_pages"></div><div id='mainreviews_reviewnav' class='reviewnav'><div class="right"><strong><a href="#" onclick="loadReviewsIntoContainer('',0,3,3,'wp_reviews',5,'','12709','',false, null, 'profile');return false;">date<span class="sortArrow"> ▼</span></a></strong> | <a href="#" onclick="loadReviewsIntoContainer('',0,2,3,'wp_reviews',5,'','12709','',false, null, 'profile'); return false;">votes</a></div>Showing 1-5 of 17 (<a href="#" onclick="loadReviewsIntoContainer('',5,0,3,'wp_reviews',5,'','12709','', false, null, 'profile'); return false;">next</a> | <a href="#" onclick="loadReviewsIntoContainer('',0,0,3,'wp_reviews',10000,'','12709','', false, null, 'profile'); return false;">show all</a>)</div><div class="bookReview"><div class="bookReview_content"><div id="brtext_201421429" class="commentText brslop"><div class="brev_cover"><a href="/work/12709" data-workid="12709" class="" ><img src="https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/P/1590521676.01._SX100_SCLZZZZZZZ_.jpg" srcset="https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/P/1590521676.01._SX200_SCLZZZZZZZ_.jpg 2x, https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/P/1590521676.01._SX300_SCLZZZZZZZ_.jpg 3x" class="bookReview_cover cover" /></a></div><div class="commentHeader"></div>This is the book to read on starting and maintaining a relationship that glorifies God, should be read by every Christian who wants to engage in courtship <span class="rating">( <img src="https://image.librarything.com/pics/ss10.gif"> )</span></div><div id="rfd_201421429" class="reviewFlagDialogBox"></div><div class="commentFooter"><span class="reviewMods"><span class="reviewVoteInfo"><span class="reviewVoteCount" id="rvc_201421429"> </span> </span><!-- reviewVoteInfo --><span class="reviewFlags"> <img id="rfi1_201421429" src="https://image.librarything.com/pics/flag-trans.gif"> <img id="rfi2_201421429" src="https://image.librarything.com/pics/flag-trans.gif"><span id="rfrf_201421429"> </span></span></span> <!-- reviewMods --><span class="controlItems ci3"><a href="/profile/Teddy37" target="_top">Teddy37</a> | Jun 9, 2021 | <a href="/review/201421429"><img src="https://image.librarything.com/pics/permalink.gif" width="16" height="7"></a></span> <!-- controlItems --></div></div></div><div class="bookReview"><div class="bookReview_content"><div id="brtext_136805327" class="commentText brslop"><div class="brev_cover"><a href="/work/12709" data-workid="12709" class="" ><img src="https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/P/1590521676.01._SX100_SCLZZZZZZZ_.jpg" srcset="https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/P/1590521676.01._SX200_SCLZZZZZZZ_.jpg 2x, https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/P/1590521676.01._SX300_SCLZZZZZZZ_.jpg 3x" class="bookReview_cover cover" /></a></div><div class="commentHeader"></div>courtship counsel <span class="rating">( <img src="https://image.librarything.com/pics/ss6.gif"> )</span></div><div id="rfd_136805327" class="reviewFlagDialogBox"></div><div class="commentFooter"><span class="reviewMods"><span class="reviewVoteInfo"><span class="reviewVoteCount" id="rvc_136805327"> </span> </span><!-- reviewVoteInfo --><span class="reviewFlags"> <img id="rfi1_136805327" src="https://image.librarything.com/pics/flag-trans.gif"> <img id="rfi2_136805327" src="https://image.librarything.com/pics/flag-trans.gif"><span id="rfrf_136805327"> </span></span></span> <!-- reviewMods --><span class="controlItems ci3"><a href="/profile/BookstoogeLT" target="_top">BookstoogeLT</a> | Dec 10, 2016 | <a href="/review/136805327"><img src="https://image.librarything.com/pics/permalink.gif" width="16" height="7"></a></span> <!-- controlItems --></div></div></div><div class="bookReview"><div class="bookReview_content"><div id="brtext_116110027" class="commentText brslop"><div class="brev_cover"><a href="/work/12709" data-workid="12709" class="" ><img src="https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/P/1590521676.01._SX100_SCLZZZZZZZ_.jpg" srcset="https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/P/1590521676.01._SX200_SCLZZZZZZZ_.jpg 2x, https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/P/1590521676.01._SX300_SCLZZZZZZZ_.jpg 3x" class="bookReview_cover cover" /></a></div><div class="commentHeader"></div>This is the book to read on starting and maintaining a relationship that glorifies God, should be read by every Christian who wants to engage in courtship <span class="rating">( <img src="https://image.librarything.com/pics/ss10.gif"> )</span></div><div id="rfd_116110027" class="reviewFlagDialogBox"></div><div class="commentFooter"><span class="reviewMods"><span class="reviewVoteInfo"><span class="reviewVoteCount" id="rvc_116110027"> </span> </span><!-- reviewVoteInfo --><span class="reviewFlags"> <img id="rfi1_116110027" src="https://image.librarything.com/pics/flag-trans.gif"> <img id="rfi2_116110027" src="https://image.librarything.com/pics/flag-trans.gif"><span id="rfrf_116110027"> </span></span></span> <!-- reviewMods --><span class="controlItems ci3"><a href="/profile/Theodore.Gebretsadik" target="_top">Theodore.Gebretsadik</a> | Feb 8, 2015 | <a href="/review/116110027"><img src="https://image.librarything.com/pics/permalink.gif" width="16" height="7"></a></span> <!-- controlItems --></div></div></div><div class="bookReview"><div class="bookReview_content"><div id="brtext_94265520" class="commentText brslop"><div class="brev_cover"><a href="/work/12709" data-workid="12709" class="" ><img src="https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/P/1590521676.01._SX100_SCLZZZZZZZ_.jpg" srcset="https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/P/1590521676.01._SX200_SCLZZZZZZZ_.jpg 2x, https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/P/1590521676.01._SX300_SCLZZZZZZZ_.jpg 3x" class="bookReview_cover cover" /></a></div><div class="commentHeader"></div>The main argument (serious courtship vs. casual uncommitted relationships) is good and biblical and easy to make a strong case for. I support the author's opinions, but the book is kind of boring. The best parts are quotes from other authors. That being said, I am happy for Mr. and Mrs. Harris! <span class="rating">( <img src="https://image.librarything.com/pics/ss4.gif"> )</span></div><div id="rfd_94265520" class="reviewFlagDialogBox"></div><div class="commentFooter"><span class="reviewMods"><span class="reviewVoteInfo"><span class="reviewVoteCount" id="rvc_94265520"> </span> </span><!-- reviewVoteInfo --><span class="reviewFlags"> <img id="rfi1_94265520" src="https://image.librarything.com/pics/flag-trans.gif"> <img id="rfi2_94265520" src="https://image.librarything.com/pics/flag-trans.gif"><span id="rfrf_94265520"> </span></span></span> <!-- reviewMods --><span class="controlItems ci3"><a href="/profile/krista.rutherford" target="_top">krista.rutherford</a> | Jan 3, 2014 | <a href="/review/94265520"><img src="https://image.librarything.com/pics/permalink.gif" width="16" height="7"></a></span> <!-- controlItems --></div></div></div><div class="bookReview"><div class="bookReview_content"><div id="brtext_91727998" class="commentText brslop"><div class="brev_cover"><a href="/work/12709" data-workid="12709" class="" ><img src="https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/P/1590521676.01._SX100_SCLZZZZZZZ_.jpg" srcset="https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/P/1590521676.01._SX200_SCLZZZZZZZ_.jpg 2x, https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/P/1590521676.01._SX300_SCLZZZZZZZ_.jpg 3x" class="bookReview_cover cover" /></a></div><div class="commentHeader"></div>A lot of people think that “courtship” is an old-fashioned concept. But, Joshua Harris believes that it’s still a very valid way of pursuing a girl. He used it with his own now-wife, Shannon, and they are living their happily ever after.<br><br>This book explains what courtship is, and how to put it into practice. It’s dating — but with a clear purpose; with the intent of figuring out whether you and the other person are meant to marry. There’s no hurry, and God is at the centre.<br><br>I enjoyed this book, and hope to pass it along to my kids when they are ready to date. Maybe beforehand. Even if you do like I do, and just get a lot out of it as far as guy-girl interactions (aside from the dating), it’s worth the read.<br><br>Another thing I enjoyed was that, in the back of the book, there are 8 ideas for “dates” that a couple can have while courting — ones that have the purpose of showing how he & she handle this or that situation, and then discussion questions to talk about things like how finances should be handled, or whether kids are in their future, or whether they are competitive in certain areas. There are some neat ideas in there.<br><br>I definitely recommended this one. <span class="rating">( <img src="https://image.librarything.com/pics/ss9.gif"> )</span></div><div id="rfd_91727998" class="reviewFlagDialogBox"></div><div class="commentFooter"><span class="reviewMods"><span class="reviewVoteInfo"><span class="reviewVoteCount" id="rvc_91727998"> </span> </span><!-- reviewVoteInfo --><span class="reviewFlags"> <img id="rfi1_91727998" src="https://image.librarything.com/pics/flag-trans.gif"> <img id="rfi2_91727998" src="https://image.librarything.com/pics/flag-trans.gif"><span id="rfrf_91727998"> </span></span></span> <!-- reviewMods --><span class="controlItems ci3"><a href="/profile/mizbooks" target="_top">mizbooks</a> | Dec 5, 2012 | <a href="/review/91727998"><img src="https://image.librarything.com/pics/permalink.gif" width="16" height="7"></a></span> <!-- controlItems --></div></div></div><div class='reviewnav'><!-- languagenav --><div class="right"><strong><a href="#" onclick="loadReviewsIntoContainer('',0,3,3,'wp_reviews',5,'','12709','',false, null, 'profile');return false;">date<span class="sortArrow"> ▼</span></a></strong> | <a href="#" onclick="loadReviewsIntoContainer('',0,2,3,'wp_reviews',5,'','12709','',false, null, 'profile'); 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' ><div class='fwikiItem divepigraph'><div class='fwikiItemText fwikiItemTextLong fwikiItemTextUnknownUser'><div class="fwikiAtomicValue" style="min-height:12px;" ></div><img style="float:left;" src='https://image.librarything.com/pics/transdot.gif' height='12px' width='1px' alt=''></div></div> <!-- fwikiItem --></td><td class='fwikiItemControls'></td></td></tr></table></td> </tr> <tr> <td valign="top" class="fwikiLabel"><a name="ck_dedication"></a>Dedication</td> <td><table class="fwikiGroup"><tr><td class='fwikiField' id='u_2f80b883' itemType='1' itemNum='12709' fieldType='30' name='u_2f80b883' allowmultiple='1' hasHistory = '1' fieldName = 'dedication' uitype = '3' ltlang='eng' hint = 'Author's dedication' ><div class='fwikiItem divdedication'><div class='fwikiItemText fwikiItemTextLong fwikiItemTextUnknownUser'><div class="fwikiAtomicValue" style="min-height:12px;" >To my bride, Shannon.<br>This book is the fruit of your<br>encouragement, humility, and sacrifice.<br>I love and cherish you.</div><img style="float:left;" src='https://image.librarything.com/pics/transdot.gif' height='12px' width='1px' alt=''></div></div> <!-- fwikiItem --></td><td class='fwikiItemControls'></td></td></tr></table></td> </tr> <tr> <td valign="top" class="fwikiLabel"><a name="ck_firstwords"></a>First words</td> <td><table class="fwikiGroup"><tr><td class='fwikiField' id='u_15cd9adf' itemType='1' itemNum='12709' fieldType='25' name='u_15cd9adf' allowmultiple='1' hasHistory = '1' fieldName = 'firstwords' uitype = '3' ltlang='eng' hint = 'The first sentence of the work.' ><div class='fwikiItem divfirstwords'><div class='fwikiItemText fwikiItemTextLong fwikiItemTextUnknownUser'><div class="fwikiAtomicValue" style="min-height:12px;" >The clock read 5:05 P.M. Shannon's workday was over.</div><img style="float:left;" src='https://image.librarything.com/pics/transdot.gif' height='12px' width='1px' alt=''></div></div> <!-- fwikiItem --></td><td class='fwikiItemControls'></td></td></tr></table></td> </tr> <tr> <td valign="top" class="fwikiLabel"><a name="ck_quotations"></a>Quotations</td> <td><table class="fwikiGroup"><tr><td class='fwikiField' id='u_f5c3b059' itemType='1' itemNum='12709' fieldType='27' name='u_f5c3b059' allowmultiple='1' hasHistory = '0' fieldName = 'quotations' uitype = '3' ltlang='eng' hint = 'Well-known, relevant or interesting quotations from the work; Quotation marks are unnecessary.' ><div class='fwikiItem divquotations'><div class='fwikiItemText fwikiItemTextLong fwikiItemTextUnknownUser'><div class="fwikiAtomicValue" style="min-height:12px;" ></div><img style="float:left;" src='https://image.librarything.com/pics/transdot.gif' height='12px' width='1px' alt=''></div></div> <!-- fwikiItem --></td><td class='fwikiItemControls'></td></td></tr></table></td> </tr> <tr> <td valign="top" class="fwikiLabel"><a name="ck_lastwords"></a>Last words</td> <td><table class="fwikiGroup"><tr><td class='fwikiField' id='u_edc2cd66' itemType='1' itemNum='12709' fieldType='26' name='u_edc2cd66' allowmultiple='1' hasHistory = '1' fieldName = 'lastwords' uitype = '3' ltlang='eng' hint = 'The last sentence of the work. 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