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Read our <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20161120142240/http://www.independent.co.uk/service/privacy-policy-a6184181.html">Privacy</a> and <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20161120142240/http://www.independent.co.uk/service/cookie-policy-a6184186.html">Cookie</a> Policies to find out more.</p> </div> <div class="tabs"></div> <div class="region region-content"> <article class="full-article" itemscope itemtype="http://schema.org/NewsArticle"> <meta itemprop="mainEntityOfPage" content="http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/sex-cinema-mumsnet-forum-woman-outrages-members-a7425061.html"> <div itemprop="publisher" itemscope itemtype="https://schema.org/Organization"> <meta itemprop="name" content="The Independent"> <link itemprop="sameAs" href="http://www.independent.co.uk"> <link itemprop="logo" href="https://static.independent.co.uk/static-assets/brand-logo.png"> </div> <header> <ol vocab="http://schema.org/" typeof="BreadcrumbList" class="breadcrumbs clearfix"><li property="itemListElement" typeof="ListItem"><a property="item" typeof="WebPage" href="https://web.archive.org/web/20161120142240/http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style"><span property="name">Lifestyle</span></a></li><li property="itemListElement" typeof="ListItem"><a property="item" typeof="WebPage" href="https://web.archive.org/web/20161120142240/http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex"><span property="name">Love & Sex</span></a></li></ol> <h1 itemprop="headline" class=" ">Woman outrages Mumsnet after revealing details of her unusual cinema-based sex life</h1> <div class="intro"> <p>"You should be on the sex offenders' register and you'd both deserve it"</p> </div> <ul class="caption meta inline-pipes-list"> <li class="author" itemprop="author" itemscope itemtype="http://schema.org/Person"> <span itemprop="name"><a href="/web/20161120142240/http://www.independent.co.uk/author/rachel-hosie" title="Rachel Hosie" itemprop="sameAs">Rachel Hosie</a></span> </li> <li> <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20161120142240/https://twitter.com/rachel_hosie">@rachel_hosie</a> </li> <li title="18 November 2016 15:13 London"><time data-microtimes="{"published":"1479482035000","display":0,"changed":"1479482034000"}" datetime="15:13, 18 November 2016" unixtime="1479482034000">Friday 18 November 2016 15:13 BST</time></li> <li class="comments"> <a href="#commentsDiv" id="comment-count" class="icon-comment"></a> </li> </ul> <div id="gigya-share-btns-1"></div> <div class="fb-like"> <iframe src="https://web.archive.org/web/20161120142240if_/https://www.facebook.com/plugins/like.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Findylifestyleonline%2F&width=450&layout=button&action=like&size=large&show_faces=false&share=false&height=35&appId=235586169789578" width="70" height="35" style="border:none;overflow:hidden;float:left;" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" allowtransparency="true"></iframe> <div class="fb-info">Click to follow<br/>Indy Lifestyle Online</div> </div> </header> <!--<div class="push-notifications-cta"></div>--> <figure itemprop="associatedMedia image" itemscope itemtype="http://schema.org/ImageObject" class="featured-media medium-width"> <meta itemprop="representativeOfPage" content="true"> <meta itemprop="url" content="https://web.archive.org/web/20161120142240/https://static.independent.co.uk/s3fs-public/thumbnails/image/2016/11/18/14/istock-182166117.jpg"> <meta itemprop="width" content="1014"> <meta itemprop="height" content="676"> <!-- scald=5046381:article_responsive_images --><picture title="istock-182166117.jpg"> <!--[if IE 9]><video style="display: none;"><![endif]--> <source srcset="https://web.archive.org/web/20161120142240im_/http://www.independent.co.uk/s3/files/styles/article_medium/public/thumbnails/image/2016/11/18/14/istock-182166117.jpg 1x" media="(min-width: 620px) and (max-width: 929px)"/> <source srcset="https://web.archive.org/web/20161120142240im_/http://www.independent.co.uk/s3/files/styles/article_large/public/thumbnails/image/2016/11/18/14/istock-182166117.jpg 1x" media="(min-width: 930px) and (max-width: 1239px)"/> <source srcset="https://web.archive.org/web/20161120142240im_/https://static.independent.co.uk/s3fs-public/styles/story_large/public/thumbnails/image/2016/11/18/14/istock-182166117.jpg 1x" media="(min-width: 1240px)"/> <!--[if IE 9]></video><![endif]--> <img src="https://web.archive.org/web/20161120142240im_/http://www.independent.co.uk/s3/files/styles/article_small/public/thumbnails/image/2016/11/18/14/istock-182166117.jpg" alt="istock-182166117.jpg" title="istock-182166117.jpg"/> </picture><!-- END scald=5046381 --> </figure> <div class="article-wrapper clearfix"> <div class="main-content-column"> <div class="text-wrapper" itemprop="articleBody"> <p>It takes a lot to shock people on the internet nowadays. We live in an age of oversharing, and as a result, most people think they’ve heard it all.</p> <p>So when one woman recently shared a story of a particular sex habit, the outraged reaction she received said a lot.</p> <p>The anonymous woman admitted that she and her husband, both in their 40s, have an adventurous sex life, even more so than when they were younger.</p> <div class="relatedlinkslist inline-block-related-list inline-block-left"> <h2 class="box-title">Read more</h2> <div class="relatedlinkslist-content" style="min-height: 10px;"> <ul class="related"><li><a data-author="Lola Carson..." data-nid="7424426" data-publish_date="18-11-2016" href="/web/20161120142240/http://www.independent.co.uk/voices/monki-monkifesto-sex-positivity-women-female-masturbation-please-yoself-fashion-brand-outrage-a7424426.html">Monki forced to pull its campaign after outrage about masturbation</a></li> <li><a data-author="Thomas Macaulay..." data-nid="7323771" data-publish_date="22-09-2016" href="/web/20161120142240/http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/crime/chef-sex-offender-register-paul-andrew-peggs-pulled-down-teenagers-trousers-pub-a7323771.html">Man who pulled down teen's trousers ends up on sex offenders' register</a></li> <li><a data-author="Feliks Garcia..." data-nid="7167261" data-publish_date="01-08-2016" href="/web/20161120142240/http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/pokemon-go-sex-offenders-new-york-ban-andrew-cuomo-a7167261.html">New York governor bans sex offenders from playing Pokémon Go</a></li> <li><a data-author="Simon Kelner..." data-nid="697286" data-publish_date="18-02-2014" href="/web/20161120142240/http://www.independent.co.uk/voices/comment/were-all-exhibitionists-now-9136439.html">We're all exhibitionists now</a></li> </ul></div> </div> <p>“He's quite an exhibitionist and I suppose I am too,” revealed the woman, and one way in which this manifests itself is their habit of touching each other in the cinema whenever they go and watch a film. </p> <p>Perhaps in an effort to play down her story, she added that they tend to go to quiet screenings in the afternoon and “it's usually at least a certificate 15 film so there are no young kids around.”</p> <p>Despite admitting that she gets “really turned on”, the woman had started to worry about being caught and taken to the police.</p> <p>And it’s unlikely that the responses she received will make her feel any better.</p> <p>People were appalled, which is all the more noteworthy as the discussion appeared on <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20161120142240/http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/sex/2772785-Sure-we-broke-the-law-today-but-how-serious-would-it-be-if-we-had-been-caught?pg=1" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Mumsnet</a>, where comments are usually supportive <span style="line-height: 20.8px;">on the whole</span><span style="line-height: 1.6;">. </span></p> <p>There were frequent calls to place the woman and her husband on the sex offenders’ register, “and you'd both 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According to the study from the University of Alberta, couples enjoyed more frequent and satisfying sex for both partners when the housework is split equally across men and women</p> <!-- Optional photo credits --> </li> <li data-gallery-legend="9"> <h2> <span class="counter">9/20</span> <!-- Optional photo title --> Arguing with a partner is beneficial </h2> <!-- Optional photo caption --> <p>Arguing in a relationship is not often seen as having a positive impact on both partners. But a new study from US psychologists suggests that if each party feels understood, falling out does not have a detrimental impact on their satisfaction in the relationship. Researchers at the University of California said feeling understood appeared to improve a relationship on its own, regardless of any practical consequence of that understanding. And when people felt their partners understood them, the conflict was not only not harmful but actually good for the relationship</p> <!-- Optional photo credits --> </li> <li data-gallery-legend="10"> <h2> <span class="counter">10/20</span> <!-- Optional photo title --> Ireland gay marriage </h2> <!-- Optional photo caption --> <p>Same-sex couples in the Republic of Ireland can officially get married after the country voted overwhelmingly for the change in a referendum in May. Legislation legalising gay civil marriage, passed following the vote, came into effect on 16 November 2015. The first couples to be affected will be gay couples who married legally abroad – whose unions will now automatically be recognised by the Irish state. But the race is now on to see who which couple will become the first gay newlyweds to legally marry in Eire itself</p> <!-- Optional photo credits --> </li> <li data-gallery-legend="11"> <h2> <span class="counter">11/20</span> <!-- Optional photo title --> 'Female Viagra' approved </h2> <!-- Optional photo caption --> <p>A drug dubbed the ‘female Viagra’ has finally been approved by the US Food and Drug administration but concerns have been raised over the drug’s possible side effects. Flibanserin, produced by Sprout Pharmaceuticals, was approved by the FDA on the third application in five years – after twice failing over concerns regarding possible side-effects.</p> <!-- Optional photo credits --> <p class="credits">AP</p> </li> <li data-gallery-legend="12"> <h2> <span class="counter">12/20</span> <!-- Optional photo title --> Grindr users surveyed on sexual preferences </h2> <!-- Optional photo caption --> <p>Grindr users are not that gay, at least according to a new survey. More than 300 users on the gay dating app, contacted by Pink News as part of an informal study, did not identifying as exclusively attracted to men. The study used the Kinsey scale, based on the work of sexologist Alfred Kinsey, which ranges from 0 (exclusively straight) to 6 (exclusively gay) and also allows identification as asexual (X). Pink News found that the average answer was around five, with the most frequent answer being five, followed by six and then four when they contacted users from their office in central London.</p> <!-- Optional photo credits --> <p class="credits">Rex</p> </li> <li data-gallery-legend="13"> <h2> <span class="counter">13/20</span> <!-- Optional photo title --> Watching porn does not cause negative attitudes to women </h2> <!-- Optional photo caption --> <p>The average porn user may have more egalitarian views towards women than non-users, a contentious new study has suggested. Researchers at Western University in Canada have even argued that many pornography fans might be “useful allies” in women’s struggles for equality in the workplace and in public office. They reported in the Journal of Sex Research that the 23 per cent of people who said they had watched an “X-rated” film during the previous year were no more or less likely to identify as feminists than those who did not watch porn.</p> <!-- Optional photo credits --> <p class="credits">Getty</p> </li> <li data-gallery-legend="14"> <h2> <span class="counter">14/20</span> <!-- Optional photo title --> The characteristics of men who pay for sex </h2> <!-- Optional photo caption --> <p>Men who pay for sex share similar traits to rapists and sex offenders, according to new research. A study from University of California, Los Angeles (UCLA), claims that men who have sex with female sex workers feel less empathy for them than men who do not buy sex. Part of this reason is due to the fact that they view them as "intrinsically different from other women,” according to the authors.</p> <!-- Optional photo credits --> <p class="credits">Getty Images</p> </li> <li data-gallery-legend="15"> <h2> <span class="counter">15/20</span> <!-- Optional photo title --> How much sex we have (and how much we'd like) </h2> <!-- Optional photo caption --> <p>As a nation, we don’t have as much sex as we would like, a survey has (somewhat unsurprisingly) confirmed. In a poll of 1523 people by YouGov, 64 per cent of Britons said they would wish to have sex at least a few times a month. The same sample said that only 38 per cent had sex at least a few times a month. In addition, 10 per cent said they wished to have sex every day, a goal which only 1 per cent admitted reaching.</p> <!-- Optional photo credits --> </li> <li data-gallery-legend="16"> <h2> <span class="counter">16/20</span> <!-- Optional photo title --> One per cent of Britons 'have never felt sexually attracted to anyone at all' </h2> <!-- Optional photo caption --> <p>An estimated 1% of Britons have almost no interest in sexual activity, according to researchers. The identity, which describes rarely or never experiencing sexual attraction, has moved from a diagnosis of mental disorder in the past to a sexual orientation in its own right today. As public interest in “asexuality” grows, researchers at Glasgow University have found that romance and intimacy is still very much on the cards for those who take the label.</p> <!-- Optional photo credits --> <p class="credits">Rex</p> </li> <li data-gallery-legend="17"> <h2> <span class="counter">17/20</span> <!-- Optional photo title --> Women really are more attracted to men who make them laugh </h2> <!-- Optional photo caption --> <p>Researchers at an American university have claimed that humour is a key factor in human “sexual selection”, with women appearing to be more attracted to men who make them laugh. Jeffrey Hall, an associate professor of Communication Studies at the University of Kansas, found that when two strangers meet, the more times a man tries to be funny and a woman laughs, the more likely she is to be interested in dating. The reverse was not true for women who attempted humour, according to his study “Sexual Selection and Humour in Courtship: A Case for Warmth and Extroversion,” which has been published in the Evolutionary Psychology journal.</p> <!-- Optional photo credits --> <p class="credits">Getty</p> </li> <li data-gallery-legend="18"> <h2> <span class="counter">18/20</span> <!-- Optional photo title --> What makes a perfect penis? </h2> <!-- Optional photo caption --> <p>Scientists have now answered one of these great unknowns. According to a new study, “general cosmetic appearance” is the most important penile aspect when it comes to what women value down there. This is swiftly followed by the appearance of pubic hair, penile skin, and girth. Length comes in at number six, with the look of the scrotum trailing closely behind. The least important facet of the phallus, say the scientists, is the “position and shape of meatus”, the vertical slit at the opening of the urethra.</p> <!-- Optional photo credits --> </li> <li data-gallery-legend="19"> <h2> <span class="counter">19/20</span> <!-- Optional photo title --> Students who marry after studying the same subject </h2> <!-- Optional photo caption --> <p>Picking a university subject is already difficult enough for young people. But here’s an extra piece of data to weigh on your decision: you may be picking a life partner as well. Dan Kopf of the blog, Priceonomics, analysed US Census data and found that the percentage of Americans who marry someone within their own major is actually fairly high. About half of Americans are married, according to the 2012 American Community Survey (part of the Census). And about 28 per cent of married couples over the age of 22 both graduated from college. (The survey didn’t recognise same-sex marriages for the 2012 data, but it will for 2013 onwards, says Kopf)</p> <!-- Optional photo credits --> </li> <li data-gallery-legend="20"> <h2> <span class="counter">20/20</span> <!-- Optional photo title --> Half of divorcees had doubts on their wedding day </h2> <!-- Optional photo caption --> <p>Over half of divorcees considered abandoning their husband or wife-to-be at the altar on their wedding day, a new study has revealed. On top of likely worrying about wedding favours and making sure guests behave on their big day, 49 per cent of divorcees admitted they were unsure before the ceremony that their marriage would last. Some 15 per cent of divorcees polled said they were so wracked with doubt that they felt physically sick in the run up to their wedding.</p> <!-- Optional photo credits --> <p class="credits">Getty Images</p> </li> </ul><div class="ad-mpu mpu5-container"> </div> </div> </div> </div><!-- END scald=3907121 --></div></div> <p>At the very least, people wanted the woman to be caught: “I hope you suffer the consequences including losing your jobs,” said one.</p> <p>The woman was called “disgusting”, “vile”, “gross”, “rank” and “f*cking grim”. </p> <p>Many people gave her a sharp dressing down: “You clearly have no sense of boundaries and lack maturity,” wrote one person. </p> <p>Another was concerned about the youths that could possibly catch the couple, saying: “It doesn't make it ok for you to w*nk off just because the CHILD is 15.”</p> <p>As well as telling the woman to stop, many people revealed they’d reported her. “Don't make other people play a part in your sex life unless they are 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