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href="/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/its-like-being-chased-on-a-hamster-wheel-of-impostor-syndrome-this-is-how-i-experience-anxiety/?tid=more_from_lily">‘It’s like being chased on a hamster wheel of impostor syndrome’: This is how I experience anxiety</a></h1> <h3 class="spaced" data-pb-field="custom.blurbText_" data-pb-url-field="custom.blurbUrl_" data-pb-field-type="text" data-pb-placeholder="#">‘My mind held a magnifying glass to social interactions’</h3> <div class="byline-timestamp-container flex-container-row align-items-center spaced align-items-start"> <figure class="spaced spaced-md"> </figure> <div class="byline-wrapper flex-container-row"> <h3 class="byline lighter"> <span>Madhu Rajaraman</span> </h3> <span class="spaced spaced-right spaced-md"></span> </div> <span class=" tiny spaced spaced-right spaced-md"><i class="fa fa-circle "></i></span> <h3 class=" hidden-tablet hidden-desktop">November 29</h3> <h3 class=" hidden-mobile">November 29</h3> </div> </div> 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light’: Melania Trump discusses the opioid crisis, and those red trees, at Liberty University</a></h1> <h3 class="spaced" data-pb-field="custom.blurbText_" data-pb-url-field="custom.blurbUrl_" data-pb-field-type="text" data-pb-placeholder="#">Trump has made combating the opioid crisis part of her platform</h3> <div class="byline-timestamp-container flex-container-row align-items-center spaced align-items-start"> <figure class="spaced spaced-right spaced-md"> <div class="image-xs circular flex-container-row align-items-center img-container "> <img class="b-lazy full-width" alt="The Lily News" data-src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/MiL2e9UjiLxmqOlgaMQhVeczF0U=/1400x0/s3.amazonaws.com/arc-authors/washpost/c939b3e8-f917-47bf-ab9e-e3fa56e730fb.jpg" 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href="/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/amanda-bynes-talks-substance-abuse-twitter-rants-and-recovery-in-her-latest-interview/?tid=more_from_lily"> <img class="b-lazy full-width" alt="Amanda Bynes talks substance abuse, Twitter rants and recovery in her latest interview" data-src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/zA8y8qkj2WNGxUmM0bJdV_aQF1c=/1200x600/arc-anglerfish-washpost-prod-thelily-washpost.s3.amazonaws.com/public/2VZT56FORNHGLMMBDIPL4W4JEM.jpg" src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335im_/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/9zTc5ejZXphjDocc4en35EtlWfM=/0x10/arc-anglerfish-washpost-prod-thelily-washpost.s3.amazonaws.com/public/2VZT56FORNHGLMMBDIPL4W4JEM.jpg"/> </a> </div> </figure> </div> <div class="card card-article-mobile-only full-width flex-container-column spaced spaced-bottom spaced-sm flex"> <ul class="tag-list-wrapper line-height-one list-unstyled flex-container-row "> <li class="vertical-align-children-top"> <a class="tag unstyled-link call-to-action uppercase bold tag-outline tag-first line-height-one" href="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/tag/celebrity"> Celebrity </a> </li> </ul> <h1 class="spaced spaced-xs spaced-bottom small"><a class="unstyled-link" href="/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/amanda-bynes-talks-substance-abuse-twitter-rants-and-recovery-in-her-latest-interview/?tid=more_from_lily">Amanda Bynes talks substance abuse, Twitter rants and recovery in her latest interview</a></h1> <h3 class="spaced" data-pb-field="custom.blurbText_" data-pb-url-field="custom.blurbUrl_" data-pb-field-type="text" data-pb-placeholder="#">Bynes told Paper magazine that she’s ready for a comeback</h3> <div class="byline-timestamp-container flex-container-row align-items-center spaced align-items-start"> <figure class="spaced spaced-right spaced-md"> <div class="image-xs circular flex-container-row align-items-center img-container "> <img class="b-lazy full-width" alt="The Lily News" data-src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/MiL2e9UjiLxmqOlgaMQhVeczF0U=/1400x0/s3.amazonaws.com/arc-authors/washpost/c939b3e8-f917-47bf-ab9e-e3fa56e730fb.jpg" src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335im_/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/lob-bKyZmYkOKaNfYW01LCCDgpU=/0x10/s3.amazonaws.com/arc-authors/washpost/c939b3e8-f917-47bf-ab9e-e3fa56e730fb.jpg"/> </div> </figure> <div class="byline-wrapper flex-container-row"> <h3 class="byline lighter"> <span>The Lily News</span> </h3> <span class="spaced spaced-right spaced-md"></span> </div> <span class=" tiny spaced spaced-right spaced-md"><i class="fa fa-circle "></i></span> <h3 class=" hidden-tablet hidden-desktop">November 29</h3> <h3 class=" hidden-mobile">November 29</h3> </div> </div> </div> </div> </div> <div class="col col-desktop-6 col-tablet-6 col-mobile-6"> <div class="card "> <div class="card-content align-items-start flex-container-row justify-space-between flex-mobile-column"> <div class="full-width spaced card-media spaced-bottom-sm spaced-right spaced-lg flex"> <figure class=""> <div class="full-width img-container aspect-ratio-2x1"> <a href="/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/in-a-key-test-of-strength-house-democrats-nominate-minority-leader-nancy-pelosi-for-speaker/?tid=more_from_lily"> <img class="b-lazy full-width" alt="In a key test of strength, House Democrats nominate Minority Leader Nancy Pelosi for speaker" data-src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/uhxyn2ODbI87Aj7BuJa55nHcxFA=/1200x600/arc-anglerfish-washpost-prod-thelily-washpost.s3.amazonaws.com/public/TUZJSDLTRVA4XHO5VFNXSIWR6I.jpg" src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335im_/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/HGL3rkOV3RIV6X8ANvU4FosNWYc=/0x10/arc-anglerfish-washpost-prod-thelily-washpost.s3.amazonaws.com/public/TUZJSDLTRVA4XHO5VFNXSIWR6I.jpg"/> </a> </div> </figure> </div> <div class="card card-article-mobile-only full-width flex-container-column spaced spaced-bottom spaced-sm flex"> <ul class="tag-list-wrapper line-height-one list-unstyled flex-container-row "> <li class="vertical-align-children-top"> <a class="tag unstyled-link call-to-action uppercase bold tag-outline tag-first line-height-one" href="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/tag/congress"> Congress </a> </li> </ul> <h1 class="spaced spaced-xs spaced-bottom small"><a class="unstyled-link" href="/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/in-a-key-test-of-strength-house-democrats-nominate-minority-leader-nancy-pelosi-for-speaker/?tid=more_from_lily">In a key test of strength, House Democrats nominate Minority Leader Nancy Pelosi for speaker</a></h1> <h3 class="spaced" data-pb-field="custom.blurbText_" data-pb-url-field="custom.blurbUrl_" data-pb-field-type="text" data-pb-placeholder="#">She still has to overcome more than a dozen Democratic rebels in a full vote come January</h3> <div class="byline-timestamp-container flex-container-row align-items-center spaced align-items-start"> <figure class="spaced spaced-right spaced-md"> <div class="image-xs circular flex-container-row align-items-center img-container "> <img class="b-lazy full-width" alt="The Lily News" data-src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/MiL2e9UjiLxmqOlgaMQhVeczF0U=/1400x0/s3.amazonaws.com/arc-authors/washpost/c939b3e8-f917-47bf-ab9e-e3fa56e730fb.jpg" src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335im_/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/lob-bKyZmYkOKaNfYW01LCCDgpU=/0x10/s3.amazonaws.com/arc-authors/washpost/c939b3e8-f917-47bf-ab9e-e3fa56e730fb.jpg"/> </div> </figure> <div class="byline-wrapper flex-container-row"> <h3 class="byline lighter"> <span>The Lily News</span> </h3> <span class="spaced spaced-right spaced-md"></span> </div> <span class=" tiny spaced spaced-right spaced-md"><i class="fa fa-circle "></i></span> <h3 class=" hidden-tablet hidden-desktop">November 28</h3> <h3 class=" hidden-mobile">November 28</h3> </div> </div> </div> </div> </div> <div class="col col-desktop-6 col-tablet-6 col-mobile-6"> <div class="card "> <div class="card-content align-items-start flex-container-row justify-space-between flex-mobile-column"> <div class="full-width spaced card-media spaced-bottom-sm spaced-right spaced-lg flex"> <figure class=""> <div class="full-width img-container aspect-ratio-2x1"> <a href="/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/more-than-100-women-are-headed-to-congress-can-they-work-across-the-aisle-to-fix-it/?tid=more_from_lily"> <img class="b-lazy full-width" alt="More than 100 women are headed to Congress. Can they work across the aisle to fix it?" data-src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/Vk8HvthalmyVkMIdzOWyHrZ_7gE=/1200x600/arc-anglerfish-washpost-prod-thelily-washpost.s3.amazonaws.com/public/DKPQJKVHQJF2NEKKJC3KA6HJNI.jpg" src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335im_/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/dl8DBQyrPc0G0Dt-yvDC3FOpDXw=/0x10/arc-anglerfish-washpost-prod-thelily-washpost.s3.amazonaws.com/public/DKPQJKVHQJF2NEKKJC3KA6HJNI.jpg"/> </a> </div> </figure> </div> <div class="card card-article-mobile-only full-width flex-container-column spaced spaced-bottom spaced-sm flex"> <ul class="tag-list-wrapper line-height-one list-unstyled flex-container-row "> <li class="vertical-align-children-top"> <a class="tag unstyled-link call-to-action uppercase bold tag-outline tag-first line-height-one" href="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/tag/congress"> Congress </a> </li> <li class="transparency-label vertical-align-children-top"> <label for="transparency-label-cbx" class="call-to-action uppercase line-height-one">Opinion</label> </li> </ul> <h1 class="spaced spaced-xs spaced-bottom small"><a class="unstyled-link" href="/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/more-than-100-women-are-headed-to-congress-can-they-work-across-the-aisle-to-fix-it/?tid=more_from_lily">More than 100 women are headed to Congress. Can they work across the aisle to fix it?</a></h1> <h3 class="spaced" data-pb-field="custom.blurbText_" data-pb-url-field="custom.blurbUrl_" data-pb-field-type="text" data-pb-placeholder="#">Time will tell if they’re better equipped than their male counterparts to find solutions</h3> <div class="byline-timestamp-container flex-container-row align-items-center spaced align-items-start"> <figure class="spaced spaced-md"> </figure> <div class="byline-wrapper flex-container-row"> <h3 class="byline lighter"> <span>Kathleen Parker</span> </h3> <span class="spaced spaced-right spaced-md"></span> </div> <span class=" tiny spaced spaced-right spaced-md"><i class="fa fa-circle "></i></span> <h3 class=" hidden-tablet hidden-desktop">November 28</h3> <h3 class=" hidden-mobile">November 28</h3> </div> </div> </div> </div> </div> <div class="col col-desktop-6 col-tablet-6 col-mobile-6"> <div class="card "> <div class="card-content align-items-start flex-container-row justify-space-between flex-mobile-column"> <div class="full-width spaced card-media spaced-bottom-sm spaced-right spaced-lg flex"> <figure class=""> <div class="full-width img-container aspect-ratio-2x1"> <a href="/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/what-does-sex-look-like-after-sexual-trauma-seven-survivors-of-assault-talk-about-their-recovery-process/?tid=more_from_lily"> <img class="b-lazy full-width" alt="What does sex look like after sexual trauma? Seven survivors of assault talk about their recovery process. " data-src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/wcXko9otHPHQxui03ky4tXKmxfw=/1200x600/arc-anglerfish-washpost-prod-thelily-washpost.s3.amazonaws.com/public/PIJPRHLY2VCRPDU7JZ5MUI7U7U.jpg" src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335im_/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/URfkI3Pi5ORq6T4t4c5yhlq41ME=/0x10/arc-anglerfish-washpost-prod-thelily-washpost.s3.amazonaws.com/public/PIJPRHLY2VCRPDU7JZ5MUI7U7U.jpg"/> </a> </div> </figure> </div> <div class="card card-article-mobile-only full-width flex-container-column spaced spaced-bottom spaced-sm flex"> <ul class="tag-list-wrapper line-height-one list-unstyled flex-container-row "> <li class="vertical-align-children-top"> <a class="tag unstyled-link call-to-action uppercase bold tag-outline tag-first line-height-one" href="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/tag/voices-of-sexual-trauma"> Voices of sexual trauma </a> </li> <li class="transparency-label vertical-align-children-top"> <label for="transparency-label-cbx" class="call-to-action uppercase line-height-one">Perspective</label> </li> </ul> <h1 class="spaced spaced-xs spaced-bottom small"><a class="unstyled-link" href="/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/what-does-sex-look-like-after-sexual-trauma-seven-survivors-of-assault-talk-about-their-recovery-process/?tid=more_from_lily">What does sex look like after sexual trauma? Seven survivors of assault talk about their recovery process. </a></h1> <h3 class="spaced" data-pb-field="custom.blurbText_" data-pb-url-field="custom.blurbUrl_" data-pb-field-type="text" data-pb-placeholder="#">Not every story is the same</h3> <div class="byline-timestamp-container flex-container-row align-items-center spaced align-items-start"> <figure class="spaced spaced-md"> </figure> <div class="byline-wrapper flex-container-row"> <h3 class="byline lighter"> <span>Katie Simon</span> </h3> <span class="spaced spaced-right spaced-md"></span> </div> <span class=" tiny spaced spaced-right spaced-md"><i class="fa fa-circle "></i></span> <h3 class=" hidden-tablet hidden-desktop">November 28</h3> <h3 class=" hidden-mobile">November 28</h3> </div> </div> </div> </div> </div> <div class="col col-desktop-6 col-tablet-6 col-mobile-6"> <div class="card "> <div class="card-content align-items-start flex-container-row justify-space-between flex-mobile-column"> <div class="full-width spaced card-media spaced-bottom-sm spaced-right spaced-lg flex"> <figure class=""> <div class="full-width img-container aspect-ratio-2x1"> <a href="/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/there-is-no-attempt-to-hide-ivanka-trump-defends-her-use-of-a-private-email-address-in-interview/?tid=more_from_lily"> <img class="b-lazy full-width" alt="‘There is no attempt to hide’: Ivanka Trump defends her use of a private email address in interview" data-src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/1NREyxtISItu1aoUzsW5SnRwo5U=/1200x600/arc-anglerfish-washpost-prod-thelily-washpost.s3.amazonaws.com/public/3DX5JKK6JRCLXMYXVJPQPYXSFA.jpg" src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335im_/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/nrEfzBhvt7ZkBrbJNtcKiitJB-0=/0x10/arc-anglerfish-washpost-prod-thelily-washpost.s3.amazonaws.com/public/3DX5JKK6JRCLXMYXVJPQPYXSFA.jpg"/> </a> </div> </figure> </div> <div class="card card-article-mobile-only full-width flex-container-column spaced spaced-bottom spaced-sm flex"> <ul class="tag-list-wrapper line-height-one list-unstyled flex-container-row "> <li class="vertical-align-children-top"> <a class="tag unstyled-link call-to-action uppercase bold tag-outline tag-first line-height-one" href="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/tag/ivanka-trump"> Ivanka Trump </a> </li> </ul> <h1 class="spaced spaced-xs spaced-bottom small"><a class="unstyled-link" href="/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/there-is-no-attempt-to-hide-ivanka-trump-defends-her-use-of-a-private-email-address-in-interview/?tid=more_from_lily">‘There is no attempt to hide’: Ivanka Trump defends her use of a private email address in interview</a></h1> <h3 class="spaced" data-pb-field="custom.blurbText_" data-pb-url-field="custom.blurbUrl_" data-pb-field-type="text" data-pb-placeholder="#">The president’s daughter dismissed comparisons to Hillary Clinton</h3> <div class="byline-timestamp-container flex-container-row align-items-center spaced align-items-start"> <figure class="spaced spaced-right spaced-md"> <div class="image-xs circular flex-container-row align-items-center img-container "> <img class="b-lazy full-width" alt="The Lily News" data-src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/MiL2e9UjiLxmqOlgaMQhVeczF0U=/1400x0/s3.amazonaws.com/arc-authors/washpost/c939b3e8-f917-47bf-ab9e-e3fa56e730fb.jpg" src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335im_/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/lob-bKyZmYkOKaNfYW01LCCDgpU=/0x10/s3.amazonaws.com/arc-authors/washpost/c939b3e8-f917-47bf-ab9e-e3fa56e730fb.jpg"/> </div> </figure> <div class="byline-wrapper flex-container-row"> <h3 class="byline lighter"> <span>The Lily News</span> </h3> <span class="spaced spaced-right spaced-md"></span> </div> <span class=" tiny spaced spaced-right spaced-md"><i class="fa fa-circle "></i></span> <h3 class=" hidden-tablet hidden-desktop">November 28</h3> <h3 class=" hidden-mobile">November 28</h3> </div> </div> </div> </div> </div> <div class="col col-desktop-6 col-tablet-6 col-mobile-6"> <div class="card "> <div class="card-content align-items-start flex-container-row justify-space-between flex-mobile-column"> <div class="full-width spaced card-media spaced-bottom-sm spaced-right spaced-lg flex"> <figure class=""> <div class="full-width img-container aspect-ratio-2x1"> <a href="/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/its-proposal-season-how-much-of-the-wedding-should-the-brides-parents-pay-for/?tid=more_from_lily"> <img class="b-lazy full-width" alt="It’s proposal season. How much of the wedding should the bride’s parents pay for?" data-src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/N8HGruZlnRK0WPdJfUhYd-sz_lE=/1200x600/arc-anglerfish-washpost-prod-thelily-washpost.s3.amazonaws.com/public/5DJQBKHYPVHLVF6G44BFELZ2DA.jpg" src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335im_/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/Uu2OBa3TCXpLMcFJM1qgbVGkJbM=/0x10/arc-anglerfish-washpost-prod-thelily-washpost.s3.amazonaws.com/public/5DJQBKHYPVHLVF6G44BFELZ2DA.jpg"/> </a> </div> </figure> </div> <div class="card card-article-mobile-only full-width flex-container-column spaced spaced-bottom spaced-sm flex"> <ul class="tag-list-wrapper line-height-one list-unstyled flex-container-row "> <li class="vertical-align-children-top"> <a class="tag unstyled-link call-to-action uppercase bold tag-outline tag-first line-height-one" href="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/tag/weddings"> Weddings </a> </li> <li class="transparency-label vertical-align-children-top"> <label for="transparency-label-cbx" class="call-to-action uppercase line-height-one">Perspective</label> </li> </ul> <h1 class="spaced spaced-xs spaced-bottom small"><a class="unstyled-link" href="/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/its-proposal-season-how-much-of-the-wedding-should-the-brides-parents-pay-for/?tid=more_from_lily">It’s proposal season. How much of the wedding should the bride’s parents pay for?</a></h1> <h3 class="spaced" data-pb-field="custom.blurbText_" data-pb-url-field="custom.blurbUrl_" data-pb-field-type="text" data-pb-placeholder="#">Hint: You’re not obligated to follow tradition</h3> <div class="byline-timestamp-container flex-container-row align-items-center spaced align-items-start"> <figure class="spaced spaced-md"> </figure> <div class="byline-wrapper flex-container-row"> <h3 class="byline lighter"> <span>Michelle Singletary</span> </h3> <span class="spaced spaced-right spaced-md"></span> </div> <span class=" tiny spaced spaced-right spaced-md"><i class="fa fa-circle "></i></span> <h3 class=" hidden-tablet hidden-desktop">November 28</h3> <h3 class=" hidden-mobile">November 28</h3> </div> </div> </div> </div> </div> <div class="col col-desktop-6 col-tablet-6 col-mobile-6"> <div class="card "> <div class="card-content align-items-start flex-container-row justify-space-between flex-mobile-column"> <div class="full-width spaced card-media spaced-bottom-sm spaced-right spaced-lg flex"> <figure class=""> <div class="full-width img-container aspect-ratio-2x1"> <a href="/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/fan-of-the-handmaids-tale-margaret-atwood-is-working-on-a-sequel/?tid=more_from_lily"> <img class="b-lazy full-width" alt="Fan of ‘The Handmaid’s Tale’? Margaret Atwood is working on a sequel." data-src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/8DxNE1pyYQ4K6nAUO37yz1jsbEA=/1200x600/arc-anglerfish-washpost-prod-thelily-washpost.s3.amazonaws.com/public/B6MQL5EZJZGELDPXM6XASBEZSU.jpg" src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335im_/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/HbFjeAHQMDUnLZ2p-2yibnE2org=/0x10/arc-anglerfish-washpost-prod-thelily-washpost.s3.amazonaws.com/public/B6MQL5EZJZGELDPXM6XASBEZSU.jpg"/> </a> </div> </figure> </div> <div class="card card-article-mobile-only full-width flex-container-column spaced spaced-bottom spaced-sm flex"> <ul class="tag-list-wrapper line-height-one list-unstyled flex-container-row "> <li class="vertical-align-children-top"> <a class="tag unstyled-link call-to-action uppercase bold tag-outline tag-first line-height-one" href="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/tag/books"> Books </a> </li> </ul> <h1 class="spaced spaced-xs spaced-bottom small"><a class="unstyled-link" href="/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/fan-of-the-handmaids-tale-margaret-atwood-is-working-on-a-sequel/?tid=more_from_lily">Fan of ‘The Handmaid’s Tale’? Margaret Atwood is working on a sequel.</a></h1> <h3 class="spaced" data-pb-field="custom.blurbText_" data-pb-url-field="custom.blurbUrl_" data-pb-field-type="text" data-pb-placeholder="#">The book, titled ‘The Testaments,’ is set to publish in September 2019</h3> <div class="byline-timestamp-container flex-container-row align-items-center spaced align-items-start"> <figure class="spaced spaced-right spaced-md"> <div class="image-xs circular flex-container-row align-items-center img-container "> <img class="b-lazy full-width" alt="The Lily News" data-src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/MiL2e9UjiLxmqOlgaMQhVeczF0U=/1400x0/s3.amazonaws.com/arc-authors/washpost/c939b3e8-f917-47bf-ab9e-e3fa56e730fb.jpg" src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335im_/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/lob-bKyZmYkOKaNfYW01LCCDgpU=/0x10/s3.amazonaws.com/arc-authors/washpost/c939b3e8-f917-47bf-ab9e-e3fa56e730fb.jpg"/> </div> </figure> <div class="byline-wrapper flex-container-row"> <h3 class="byline lighter"> <span>The Lily News</span> </h3> <span class="spaced spaced-right spaced-md"></span> </div> <span class=" tiny spaced spaced-right spaced-md"><i class="fa fa-circle "></i></span> <h3 class=" hidden-tablet hidden-desktop">November 28</h3> <h3 class=" hidden-mobile">November 28</h3> </div> </div> </div> </div> </div> <div class="col col-desktop-6 col-tablet-6 col-mobile-6"> <div class="card "> <div class="card-content align-items-start flex-container-row justify-space-between flex-mobile-column"> <div class="full-width spaced card-media spaced-bottom-sm spaced-right spaced-lg flex"> <figure class=""> <div class="full-width img-container aspect-ratio-2x1"> <a href="/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/jane-maas-succeeded-in-advertising-during-its-mad-man-era-it-was-worse-than-the-show-she-later-said/?tid=more_from_lily"> <img class="b-lazy full-width" alt="Jane Maas succeeded in advertising during its ‘Mad Men’ era. It was worse than the show, she later said." data-src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/z2Dx1AdvZ2WUdBG8Mv_5DKdGfXg=/1200x600/arc-anglerfish-washpost-prod-thelily-washpost.s3.amazonaws.com/public/VBZCUK6J75G2NBO2WZKJDFCDBY.jpg" src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335im_/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/wX6jetEzGPd79-wnzE9TxaSFu9Q=/0x10/arc-anglerfish-washpost-prod-thelily-washpost.s3.amazonaws.com/public/VBZCUK6J75G2NBO2WZKJDFCDBY.jpg"/> </a> </div> </figure> </div> <div class="card card-article-mobile-only full-width flex-container-column spaced spaced-bottom spaced-sm flex"> <ul class="tag-list-wrapper line-height-one list-unstyled flex-container-row "> <li class="vertical-align-children-top"> <a class="tag unstyled-link call-to-action uppercase bold tag-outline tag-first line-height-one" href="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/tag/obituaries"> Obituaries </a> </li> </ul> <h1 class="spaced spaced-xs spaced-bottom small"><a class="unstyled-link" href="/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/jane-maas-succeeded-in-advertising-during-its-mad-man-era-it-was-worse-than-the-show-she-later-said/?tid=more_from_lily">Jane Maas succeeded in advertising during its ‘Mad Men’ era. It was worse than the show, she later said.</a></h1> <h3 class="spaced" data-pb-field="custom.blurbText_" data-pb-url-field="custom.blurbUrl_" data-pb-field-type="text" data-pb-placeholder="#">Maas died Nov. 16 at 86</h3> <div class="byline-timestamp-container flex-container-row align-items-center spaced align-items-start"> <figure class="spaced spaced-right spaced-md"> <div class="image-xs circular flex-container-row align-items-center img-container "> <img class="b-lazy full-width" alt="The Lily News" data-src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/MiL2e9UjiLxmqOlgaMQhVeczF0U=/1400x0/s3.amazonaws.com/arc-authors/washpost/c939b3e8-f917-47bf-ab9e-e3fa56e730fb.jpg" src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335im_/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/lob-bKyZmYkOKaNfYW01LCCDgpU=/0x10/s3.amazonaws.com/arc-authors/washpost/c939b3e8-f917-47bf-ab9e-e3fa56e730fb.jpg"/> </div> </figure> <div class="byline-wrapper flex-container-row"> <h3 class="byline lighter"> <span>The Lily News</span> </h3> <span class="spaced spaced-right spaced-md"></span> </div> <span class=" tiny spaced spaced-right spaced-md"><i class="fa fa-circle "></i></span> <h3 class=" hidden-tablet hidden-desktop">November 28</h3> <h3 class=" hidden-mobile">November 28</h3> </div> </div> </div> </div> </div> <div class="col col-desktop-6 col-tablet-6 col-mobile-6"> <div class="card "> <div class="card-content align-items-start flex-container-row justify-space-between flex-mobile-column"> <div class="full-width spaced card-media spaced-bottom-sm spaced-right spaced-lg flex"> <figure class=""> <div class="full-width img-container aspect-ratio-2x1"> <a href="/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/christine-blasey-ford-says-she-is-grateful-to-have-had-the-opportunity-to-testify-no-matter-how-terrifying-it-was/?tid=more_from_lily"> <img class="b-lazy full-width" alt="Christine Blasey Ford says she is ‘grateful’ to have had the opportunity to testify, no matter how ‘terrifying’ it was" data-src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/zB3i1_CZ69CyjVWDmGRkJ9z_Zr8=/1200x600/arc-anglerfish-washpost-prod-thelily-washpost.s3.amazonaws.com/public/7WOAWYL7NZFNNFQEDSDKEBCJOU.jpg" src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335im_/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/wQQcCytMNhVeBeyCx9ZL4zYBtSE=/0x10/arc-anglerfish-washpost-prod-thelily-washpost.s3.amazonaws.com/public/7WOAWYL7NZFNNFQEDSDKEBCJOU.jpg"/> </a> </div> </figure> </div> <div class="card card-article-mobile-only full-width flex-container-column spaced spaced-bottom spaced-sm flex"> <ul class="tag-list-wrapper line-height-one list-unstyled flex-container-row "> <li class="vertical-align-children-top"> <a class="tag unstyled-link call-to-action uppercase bold tag-outline tag-first line-height-one" href="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/tag/supreme-court"> Supreme Court </a> </li> </ul> <h1 class="spaced spaced-xs spaced-bottom small"><a class="unstyled-link" href="/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/christine-blasey-ford-says-she-is-grateful-to-have-had-the-opportunity-to-testify-no-matter-how-terrifying-it-was/?tid=more_from_lily">Christine Blasey Ford says she is ‘grateful’ to have had the opportunity to testify, no matter how ‘terrifying’ it was</a></h1> <h3 class="spaced" data-pb-field="custom.blurbText_" data-pb-url-field="custom.blurbUrl_" data-pb-field-type="text" data-pb-placeholder="#">Ford posted a statement thanking supporters on GoFundMe last week</h3> <div class="byline-timestamp-container flex-container-row align-items-center spaced align-items-start"> <figure class="spaced spaced-right spaced-md"> <div class="image-xs circular flex-container-row align-items-center img-container "> <img class="b-lazy full-width" alt="The Lily News" data-src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/MiL2e9UjiLxmqOlgaMQhVeczF0U=/1400x0/s3.amazonaws.com/arc-authors/washpost/c939b3e8-f917-47bf-ab9e-e3fa56e730fb.jpg" src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335im_/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/lob-bKyZmYkOKaNfYW01LCCDgpU=/0x10/s3.amazonaws.com/arc-authors/washpost/c939b3e8-f917-47bf-ab9e-e3fa56e730fb.jpg"/> </div> </figure> <div class="byline-wrapper flex-container-row"> <h3 class="byline lighter"> <span>The Lily News</span> </h3> <span class="spaced spaced-right spaced-md"></span> </div> <span class=" tiny spaced spaced-right spaced-md"><i class="fa fa-circle "></i></span> <h3 class=" hidden-tablet hidden-desktop">November 28</h3> <h3 class=" hidden-mobile">November 28</h3> </div> </div> </div> </div> </div> <div class="col col-desktop-6 col-tablet-6 col-mobile-6"> <div class="card "> <div class="card-content align-items-start flex-container-row justify-space-between flex-mobile-column"> <div class="full-width spaced card-media spaced-bottom-sm spaced-right spaced-lg flex"> <figure class=""> <div class="full-width img-container aspect-ratio-2x1"> <a href="/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/republican-sen-cindy-hyde-smith-projected-to-win-racially-charged-mississippi-runoff/?tid=more_from_lily"> <img class="b-lazy full-width" alt="Republican Sen. Cindy Hyde-Smith wins racially charged Mississippi runoff" data-src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/dY6weV0h9Yv3WAvpbBb-keq48Bs=/1200x600/arc-anglerfish-washpost-prod-thelily-washpost.s3.amazonaws.com/public/R7IFONHLKVCZFLD24DMMD4FZPU.jpg" src="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335im_/https://www.washingtonpost.com/resizer/A7FMCq3rS0joZ-KqhK75u_fk2xs=/0x10/arc-anglerfish-washpost-prod-thelily-washpost.s3.amazonaws.com/public/R7IFONHLKVCZFLD24DMMD4FZPU.jpg"/> </a> </div> </figure> </div> <div class="card card-article-mobile-only full-width flex-container-column spaced spaced-bottom spaced-sm flex"> <ul class="tag-list-wrapper line-height-one list-unstyled flex-container-row "> <li class="vertical-align-children-top"> <a class="tag unstyled-link call-to-action uppercase bold tag-outline tag-first line-height-one" href="https://web.archive.org/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/tag/midterms-2018"> Midterms 2018 </a> </li> </ul> <h1 class="spaced spaced-xs spaced-bottom small"><a class="unstyled-link" href="/web/20181130033335/https://www.thelily.com/republican-sen-cindy-hyde-smith-projected-to-win-racially-charged-mississippi-runoff/?tid=more_from_lily">Republican Sen. 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