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those who take advice are wise.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/esv/proverbs/13.htm">English Standard Version</a></span><br />By insolence comes nothing but strife, but with those who take advice is wisdom.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/bsb/proverbs/13.htm">Berean Standard Bible</a></span><br />Arrogance leads only to strife, but wisdom is with the well-advised.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/kjv/proverbs/13.htm">King James Bible</a></span><br />Only by pride cometh contention: but with the well advised <i>is</i> wisdom.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nkjv/proverbs/13.htm">New King James Version</a></span><br />By pride comes nothing but strife, But with the well-advised <i>is</i> wisdom.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nasb_/proverbs/13.htm">New American Standard Bible</a></span><br />Through overconfidence comes nothing but strife, But wisdom is with those who receive counsel.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nasb/proverbs/13.htm">NASB 1995</a></span><br />Through insolence comes nothing but strife, But wisdom is with those who receive counsel.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nasb77/proverbs/13.htm">NASB 1977 </a></span><br />Through presumption comes nothing but strife, But with those who receive counsel is wisdom.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/lsb/proverbs/13.htm">Legacy Standard Bible </a></span><br />With arrogance comes only quarreling, But with those who receive counsel is wisdom.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/amp/proverbs/13.htm">Amplified Bible</a></span><br />Through pride <i>and</i> presumption come nothing but strife, But [skillful and godly] wisdom is with those who welcome [well-advised] counsel.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/csb/proverbs/13.htm">Christian Standard Bible</a></span><br />Arrogance leads to nothing but strife, but wisdom is gained by those who take advice.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/hcsb/proverbs/13.htm">Holman Christian Standard Bible</a></span><br />Arrogance leads to nothing but strife, but wisdom is gained by those who take advice. <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/asv/proverbs/13.htm">American Standard Version</a></span><br />By pride cometh only contention; But with the well-advised is wisdom.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/cev/proverbs/13.htm">Contemporary English Version</a></span><br />Too much pride causes trouble. Be sensible and take advice. <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/erv/proverbs/13.htm">English Revised Version</a></span><br />By pride cometh only contention: but with the well advised is wisdom.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/gwt/proverbs/13.htm">GOD'S WORD® Translation</a></span><br />Arrogance produces only quarreling, but those who take advice gain wisdom.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/gnt/proverbs/13.htm">Good News Translation</a></span><br />Arrogance causes nothing but trouble. It is wiser to ask for advice. <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/isv/proverbs/13.htm">International Standard Version</a></span><br />Arrogance only brings quarreling, but those receiving advice are wise.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/msb/proverbs/13.htm">Majority Standard Bible</a></span><br />Arrogance leads only to strife, but wisdom is with the well-advised.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/net/proverbs/13.htm">NET Bible</a></span><br />With pride comes only contention, but wisdom is with the well-advised. <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nheb/proverbs/13.htm">New Heart English Bible</a></span><br />Pride only breeds quarrels, but with ones who take advice is wisdom.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/wbt/proverbs/13.htm">Webster's Bible Translation</a></span><br />Only by pride cometh contention: but with the well-advised is wisdom.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/web/proverbs/13.htm">World English Bible</a></span><br />Pride only breeds quarrels, but wisdom is with people who take advice. <div class="vheading2"><b>Literal Translations</b></div><span class="versiontext"><a href="/lsv/proverbs/13.htm">Literal Standard Version</a></span><br />A vain man causes debate through pride, "" And wisdom [is] with the counseled.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/ylt/proverbs/13.htm">Young's Literal Translation</a></span><br /> A vain man through pride causeth debate, And with the counselled is wisdom.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/slt/proverbs/13.htm">Smith's Literal Translation</a></span><br />Only by pride contention will be given: but with those being advised, wisdom.<div class="vheading2"><b>Catholic Translations</b></div><span class="versiontext"><a href="/drb/proverbs/13.htm">Douay-Rheims Bible</a></span><br />Among the proud there are always contentions: but they that do all things with counsel, are ruled by wisdom. <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/cpdv/proverbs/13.htm">Catholic Public Domain Version</a></span><br />Among the arrogant, there are always conflicts. But those who do everything with counsel are ruled by wisdom.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nabre/proverbs/13.htm">New American Bible</a></span><br />The stupid sow discord by their insolence, but wisdom is with those who take counsel. <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nrsvce/proverbs/13.htm">New Revised Standard Version</a></span><br />By insolence the heedless make strife, but wisdom is with those who take advice.<div class="vheading2"><b>Translations from Aramaic</b></div><span class="versiontext"><a href="/lamsa/proverbs/13.htm">Lamsa Bible</a></span><br />A wicked man commits shameful things; but with the well-advised is wisdom.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/hpbt/proverbs/13.htm">Peshitta Holy Bible Translated</a></span><br />An evil man in disgrace does evil, and those who are counseled are wise.<div class="vheading2"><b>OT Translations</b></div><span class="versiontext"><a href="/jps/proverbs/13.htm">JPS Tanakh 1917</a></span><br />By pride cometh only contention; But with the well-advised is wisdom.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/sep/proverbs/13.htm">Brenton Septuagint Translation</a></span><br />A bad man does evil with insolence: but they that are judges of themselves are wise.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/parallel/proverbs/13-10.htm">Additional Translations ...</a></span></div></div></div><div id="centbox"><div class="padcent"><a name="audio" id="audio"></a><div class="vheadingv"><b>Audio Bible</b></div><iframe width="100%" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/kpUA5ZltBeQ?start=2421" title="YouTube video player" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share" allowfullscreen></iframe><span class="p"><br /><br /><br /></span><div class="vheadingv"><b>Context</b></div><span class="hdg"><a href="/bsb/proverbs/13.htm">A Father's Discipline</a></span><br>…<span class="reftext">9</span>The light of the righteous shines brightly, but the lamp of the wicked is extinguished. <span class="reftext">10</span><span class="highl"><a href="/hebrew/2087.htm" title="2087: bə·zā·ḏō·wn (Prep-b:: N-ms) -- Insolence, presumptuousness. From zuwd; arrogance.">Arrogance</a> <a href="/hebrew/5414.htm" title="5414: yit·tên (V-Qal-Imperf-3ms) -- To give, put, set. A primitive root; to give, used with greatest latitude of application.">leads</a> <a href="/hebrew/7535.htm" title="7535: raq- (Adv) -- The same as raq as a noun; properly, leanness, i.e. limitation; only adverbial, merely, or conjunctional, although.">only</a> <a href="/hebrew/4683.htm" title="4683: maṣ·ṣāh (N-fs) -- Strife, contention. From natsah; a quarrel.">to strife,</a> <a href="/hebrew/2451.htm" title="2451: ḥāḵ·māh (N-fs) -- Wisdom. From chakam; wisdom.">but wisdom</a> <a href="/hebrew/854.htm" title="854: wə·’eṯ- (Conj-w:: Prep) -- With (denoting proximity). Probably from 'anah; properly, nearness, near; hence, generally, with, by, at, among, etc.">is with</a> <a href="/hebrew/3289.htm" title="3289: nō·w·‘ā·ṣîm (V-Nifal-Prtcpl-mp) -- To advise, counsel. A primitive root; to advise; reflexively, to deliberate or resolve.">the well-advised.</a> </span><span class="reftext">11</span>Dishonest wealth will dwindle, but what is earned through hard work will be multiplied.…<div class="cred"><a href="//berean.bible">Berean Standard Bible</a> · <a href="//berean.bible/downloads.htm">Download</a></div><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a name="crossref" id="crossref"></a><div class="vheading">Cross References</div><div id="crf"><span class="crossverse"><a href="/james/3-14.htm">James 3:14-16</a></span><br />But if you harbor bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast in it or deny the truth. / Such wisdom does not come from above, but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic. / For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every evil practice.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/proverbs/11-2.htm">Proverbs 11:2</a></span><br />When pride comes, disgrace follows, but with humility comes wisdom.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/proverbs/16-18.htm">Proverbs 16:18</a></span><br />Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/1_corinthians/8-1.htm">1 Corinthians 8:1</a></span><br />Now about food sacrificed to idols: We know that we all have knowledge. Knowledge puffs up, but love builds up.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/philippians/2-3.htm">Philippians 2:3</a></span><br />Do nothing out of selfish ambition or empty pride, but in humility consider others more important than yourselves.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/proverbs/29-23.htm">Proverbs 29:23</a></span><br />A man’s pride will bring him low, but a humble spirit will obtain honor.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/proverbs/15-33.htm">Proverbs 15:33</a></span><br />The fear of the LORD is the instruction of wisdom, and humility comes before honor.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/romans/12-16.htm">Romans 12:16</a></span><br />Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but associate with the lowly. Do not be conceited.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/proverbs/28-25.htm">Proverbs 28:25</a></span><br />A greedy man stirs up strife, but he who trusts in the LORD will prosper.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/1_peter/5-5.htm">1 Peter 5:5</a></span><br />Young men, in the same way, submit yourselves to your elders. And all of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because, “God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.”<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/proverbs/22-10.htm">Proverbs 22:10</a></span><br />Drive out the mocker, and conflict will depart; even quarreling and insults will cease.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/galatians/5-26.htm">Galatians 5:26</a></span><br />Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying one another.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/proverbs/18-12.htm">Proverbs 18:12</a></span><br />Before his downfall a man’s heart is proud, but humility comes before honor.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/proverbs/21-24.htm">Proverbs 21:24</a></span><br />Mocker is the name of the proud and arrogant man—of him who acts with excessive pride.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/1_corinthians/13-4.htm">1 Corinthians 13:4</a></span><br />Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.</div><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a name="tsk" id="tsk"><div class="vheading">Treasury of Scripture</div><p class="tsk2">Only by pride comes contention: but with the well advised is wisdom.</p><p class="hdg">only</p><p class="tskverse"><b><a href="/proverbs/21-24.htm">Proverbs 21:24</a></b></br> Proud <i>and</i> haughty scorner <i>is</i> his name, who dealeth in proud wrath.</p><p class="tskverse"><b><a href="/judges/12-1.htm">Judges 12:1-6</a></b></br> And the men of Ephraim gathered themselves together, and went northward, and said unto Jephthah, Wherefore passedst thou over to fight against the children of Ammon, and didst not call us to go with thee? we will burn thine house upon thee with fire… </p><p class="tskverse"><b><a href="/1_kings/12-10.htm">1 Kings 12:10,11,16</a></b></br> And the young men that were grown up with him spake unto him, saying, Thus shalt thou speak unto this people that spake unto thee, saying, Thy father made our yoke heavy, but make thou <i>it</i> lighter unto us; thus shalt thou say unto them, My little <i>finger</i> shall be thicker than my father's loins… </p><p class="hdg">with</p><p class="tskverse"><b><a href="/proverbs/12-15.htm">Proverbs 12:15,16</a></b></br> The way of a fool <i>is</i> right in his own eyes: but he that hearkeneth unto counsel <i>is</i> wise… </p><p class="tskverse"><b><a href="/proverbs/17-14.htm">Proverbs 17:14</a></b></br> The beginning of strife <i>is as</i> when one letteth out water: therefore leave off contention, before it be meddled with.</p><p class="tskverse"><b><a href="/proverbs/19-20.htm">Proverbs 19:20</a></b></br> Hear counsel, and receive instruction, that thou mayest be wise in thy latter end.</p><div class="vheading">Jump to Previous</div><a href="/proverbs/12-15.htm">Advice</a> <a href="/esther/2-15.htm">Advised</a> <a href="/job/21-10.htm">Breeds</a> <a href="/proverbs/13-5.htm">Causeth</a> <a href="/psalms/80-6.htm">Contention</a> <a href="/proverbs/12-15.htm">Counsel</a> <a href="/psalms/16-7.htm">Counselled</a> <a href="/romans/1-29.htm">Debate</a> <a href="/psalms/119-126.htm">Effect</a> <a href="/psalms/144-1.htm">Fighting</a> <a href="/proverbs/10-13.htm">Found</a> <a href="/psalms/94-4.htm">Insolence</a> <a href="/proverbs/12-24.htm">Ones</a> <a href="/proverbs/11-2.htm">Pride</a> <a href="/james/4-1.htm">Quarrels</a> <a href="/proverbs/11-12.htm">Quiet</a> <a href="/proverbs/11-31.htm">Receive</a> <a href="/proverbs/11-13.htm">Spirit</a> <a href="/proverbs/10-12.htm">Strife</a> <a href="/proverbs/12-11.htm">Vain</a> <a href="/proverbs/12-8.htm">Wisdom</a><div class="vheading2">Jump to Next</div><a href="/proverbs/19-20.htm">Advice</a> <a href="/john/18-14.htm">Advised</a> <a href="/job/21-10.htm">Breeds</a> <a href="/proverbs/13-22.htm">Causeth</a> <a href="/proverbs/15-18.htm">Contention</a> <a href="/proverbs/15-22.htm">Counsel</a> <a href="/isaiah/7-5.htm">Counselled</a> <a href="/proverbs/17-19.htm">Debate</a> <a href="/proverbs/20-18.htm">Effect</a> <a href="/proverbs/15-18.htm">Fighting</a> <a href="/proverbs/14-9.htm">Found</a> <a href="/isaiah/10-12.htm">Insolence</a> <a href="/proverbs/17-12.htm">Ones</a> <a href="/proverbs/14-3.htm">Pride</a> <a href="/proverbs/18-1.htm">Quarrels</a> <a href="/proverbs/14-17.htm">Quiet</a> <a href="/proverbs/19-20.htm">Receive</a> <a href="/proverbs/14-29.htm">Spirit</a> <a href="/proverbs/15-18.htm">Strife</a> <a href="/proverbs/14-6.htm">Vain</a> <a href="/proverbs/14-1.htm">Wisdom</a><div class="vheading2">Proverbs 13</div><span class="reftext">1. </span><span class="outlinetext"><a href="/proverbs/13-1.htm">a scoffer does not listen to rebuke</a></span><br></div></div><div id="mdd"><div align="center"><div class="bot2"><table align="center" width="100%"><tr><td><div align="center"> <script id="3d27ed63fc4348d5b062c4527ae09445"> (new Image()).src = 'https://capi.connatix.com/tr/si?token=51ce25d5-1a8c-424a-8695-4bd48c750f35&cid=3a9f82d0-4344-4f8d-ac0c-e1a0eb43a405'; 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In the context of ancient Israel, pride was seen as a direct challenge to God's authority and wisdom. The Hebrew word for arrogance here implies a sense of self-importance and an inflated view of one's abilities or status. This attitude often leads to conflict, as it fosters an environment where individuals are unwilling to listen or compromise. The story of King Saul (1 Samuel 15) serves as a biblical example, where his pride led to disobedience and ultimately his downfall. Arrogance disrupts relationships and communities, as it prioritizes self over others, contrary to the biblical call for humility (<a href="/philippians/2-3.htm">Philippians 2:3-4</a>).<p><b>but wisdom is with the well-advised</b><br>Wisdom in the biblical sense is more than just knowledge; it is the application of understanding in a way that aligns with God's will. The phrase "well-advised" suggests a community or counsel of individuals who provide guidance. In ancient Israel, elders and wise men were often sought for advice, as seen in the story of Rehoboam (1 Kings 12), where the king's failure to heed wise counsel led to the division of the kingdom. Wisdom literature, such as Proverbs, emphasizes the importance of seeking and valuing the input of others, recognizing that no one person has all the answers. This aligns with the New Testament teaching in <a href="/james/1-5.htm">James 1:5</a>, which encourages believers to ask God for wisdom. The ultimate embodiment of wisdom is found in Jesus Christ, who is described as the wisdom of God (<a href="/1_corinthians/1-24.htm">1 Corinthians 1:24</a>), and who exemplified a life of humility and obedience to the Father.<div class="vheading2">Persons / Places / Events</div>1. <b><a href="/topical/s/solomon.htm">Solomon</a></b><br>Traditionally considered the author of Proverbs, Solomon was the son of King David and known for his wisdom. His insights into human behavior and godly living are captured in the book of Proverbs.<br><br>2. <b><a href="/topical/a/ancient_israel.htm">Ancient Israel</a></b><br>The cultural and historical context of Proverbs is ancient Israel, where wisdom literature was a key component of teaching and moral instruction.<br><br>3. <b><a href="/topical/t/the_wise_and_the_foolish.htm">The Wise and the Foolish</a></b><br>Throughout Proverbs, these two archetypes are used to contrast those who live according to God's wisdom and those who reject it.<div class="vheading2">Teaching Points</div><b><a href="/topical/t/the_danger_of_arrogance.htm">The Danger of Arrogance</a></b><br>Arrogance is a root cause of conflict and strife. It blinds individuals to their own faults and prevents them from seeking reconciliation or understanding.<br><br><b><a href="/topical/t/the_value_of_humility.htm">The Value of Humility</a></b><br>Humility opens the door to wisdom. By acknowledging our limitations and seeking advice, we position ourselves to grow in understanding and make better decisions.<br><br><b><a href="/topical/s/seeking_godly_counsel.htm">Seeking Godly Counsel</a></b><br>Wisdom is often gained through the counsel of others. Surrounding ourselves with godly advisors can help us navigate life's challenges more effectively.<br><br><b><a href="/topical/t/the_role_of_wisdom_in_relationships.htm">The Role of Wisdom in Relationships</a></b><br>Wisdom fosters peace and harmony in relationships. By valuing others' perspectives and being open to correction, we can build stronger, more respectful connections.<br><br><b><a href="/topical/p/practical_steps_to_cultivate_wisdom.htm">Practical Steps to Cultivate Wisdom</a></b><br>Regularly engage with Scripture, pray for discernment, and actively seek feedback from trusted mentors to cultivate a heart of wisdom.<div class="vheading2">Lists and Questions</div><a href="/top10/lessons_from_proverbs_13.htm">Top 10 Lessons from Proverbs 13</a><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a href="/q/what_does_'fear_of_the_lord'_mean.htm">What does 'Fear of the Lord' mean?</a><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a href="/q/bible_miracle_examples.htm">What does the Bible teach about hate?</a><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a href="/q/bible's_view_on_estrangement.htm">What is the Bible's view on estrangement?</a><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a href="/q/what_does_'love_is_not_proud'_mean.htm">What does "Love is Not Proud" mean?</a><a name="commentary" id="commentary"></a><div class="vheading2"><a href="/commentaries/ellicott/proverbs/13.htm">Ellicott's Commentary for English Readers</a></div>(10) <span class= "bld">Only by pride cometh contention.--</span>Rather, <span class= "ital">by pride cometh nothing but contention. </span>A man who is too proud to receive counsel is sure to fall out with others; they are wise who suffer themselves to be advised.<p><div class="vheading2"><a href="/commentaries/pulpit/proverbs/13.htm">Pulpit Commentary</a></div><span class="cmt_sub_title">Verse 10.</span> - <span class="cmt_word">Only by pride cometh contention.</span> Some render "surely" (<span class="accented">raq</span>) for only, as in <a href="/genesis/20-11.htm">Genesis 20:11</a>. Others rightly translate, "By pride cometh only, nothing but, contention." Vulgate, "Between the proud disputes are always rife." One who is haughty and overbearing, or who is too conceited to receive advice, is sure <span class="accented">to</span> quarrel with others. Septuagint, "An evil man with insult doeth evil." <span class="cmt_word">With the well advised is wisdom;</span> those who are not, like the proud, above taking advice and following it, are wise (<a href="/proverbs/11-2.htm">Proverbs 11:2</a>; <a href="/proverbs/12-15.htm">Proverbs 12:15</a>). As the Vulgate puts it, "They who do all things with counsel are directed by wisdom." The LXX., reading differently, has, "They who know themselves are wise," which implies that the wise know their own weakness and imperfection, and hearken humbly to good counsel <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/commentaries/proverbs/13-10.htm">Parallel Commentaries ...</a></span><span class="p"><br /><br /><br /></span><a name="lexicon" id="lexicon"></a><div class="vheading">Hebrew</div><span class="word">Arrogance</span><br /><span class="heb">בְּ֭זָדוֹן</span> <span class="translit">(bə·zā·ḏō·wn)</span><br /><span class="parse">Preposition-b | Noun - masculine singular<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_2087.htm">Strong's 2087: </a> </span><span class="str2">Insolence, presumptuousness</span><br /><br /><span class="word">leads</span><br /><span class="heb">יִתֵּ֣ן</span> <span class="translit">(yit·tên)</span><br /><span class="parse">Verb - Qal - Imperfect - third person masculine singular<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_5414.htm">Strong's 5414: </a> </span><span class="str2">To give, put, set</span><br /><br /><span class="word">only</span><br /><span class="heb">רַק־</span> <span class="translit">(raq-)</span><br /><span class="parse">Adverb<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_7535.htm">Strong's 7535: </a> </span><span class="str2">But, even, except, howbeit howsoever, at the least, nevertheless</span><br /><br /><span class="word">to strife,</span><br /><span class="heb">מַצָּ֑ה</span> <span class="translit">(maṣ·ṣāh)</span><br /><span class="parse">Noun - feminine singular<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_4683.htm">Strong's 4683: </a> </span><span class="str2">Strife, contention</span><br /><br /><span class="word">but wisdom</span><br /><span class="heb">חָכְמָֽה׃</span> <span class="translit">(ḥāḵ·māh)</span><br /><span class="parse">Noun - feminine singular<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_2451.htm">Strong's 2451: </a> </span><span class="str2">Wisdom</span><br /><br /><span class="word">is with</span><br /><span class="heb">וְאֶת־</span> <span class="translit">(wə·’eṯ-)</span><br /><span class="parse">Conjunctive waw | Preposition<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_854.htm">Strong's 854: </a> </span><span class="str2">Nearness, near, with, by, at, among</span><br /><br /><span class="word">the well-advised.</span><br /><span class="heb">נ֖וֹעָצִ֣ים</span> <span class="translit">(nō·w·‘ā·ṣîm)</span><br /><span class="parse">Verb - Nifal - Participle - masculine plural<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_3289.htm">Strong's 3289: </a> </span><span class="str2">To advise, to deliberate, resolve</span><br /><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><div class="vheading">Links</div><a href="/niv/proverbs/13-10.htm">Proverbs 13:10 NIV</a><br /><a href="/nlt/proverbs/13-10.htm">Proverbs 13:10 NLT</a><br /><a href="/esv/proverbs/13-10.htm">Proverbs 13:10 ESV</a><br /><a href="/nasb/proverbs/13-10.htm">Proverbs 13:10 NASB</a><br /><a href="/kjv/proverbs/13-10.htm">Proverbs 13:10 KJV</a><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a href="//bibleapps.com/proverbs/13-10.htm">Proverbs 13:10 BibleApps.com</a><br /><a href="//bibliaparalela.com/proverbs/13-10.htm">Proverbs 13:10 Biblia Paralela</a><br /><a href="//holybible.com.cn/proverbs/13-10.htm">Proverbs 13:10 Chinese Bible</a><br /><a href="//saintebible.com/proverbs/13-10.htm">Proverbs 13:10 French Bible</a><br /><a href="/catholic/proverbs/13-10.htm">Proverbs 13:10 Catholic Bible</a><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a href="/proverbs/13-10.htm">OT Poetry: Proverbs 13:10 Pride only breeds quarrels but with ones (Prov. 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