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class="main-meta"> <span content="2009-04-02">2009-04-02 23:03:09</span> <span></span> </div> <script type="application/ld+json"> { "@context": "http://schema.org/", "@type": "Review", "datePublished": "2009-04-02T23:03:09", "reviewBody": "在电影院里看完这场电影，这次对于这部对白这么多的原版片子我居然听懂了大半，我想这要归功于对这些爱情里疯狂的小事的熟悉吧。片子带我复习了一遍爱情的各种时态。期待的将来时，享受的现在时，洒脱过去时和悲...", "description": "{ review.abstract(200) }", "itemReviewed": { "@type": "Movie", "name": "他其实没那么喜欢你 He's Just Not That Into You", "url": "/subject/2161696/", "sameAs": "https://movie.douban.com/subject/2161696/", "image": "https://img1.doubanio.com/view/photo/s_ratio_poster/public/p477821688.jpg" }, "publisher": { "@type": "Organization", "name": "豆瓣(Douban)" }, "author": { "@type": "Person", "url": "https://www.douban.com/people/dacular/", "name": "喵啊喵", "sameAs": "https://www.douban.com/people/dacular/" }, "reviewRating": { "@type": "Rating", "ratingValue": "5" } } </script> </header> <link rel="stylesheet" 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在电影院里看完这场电影，这次对于这部对白这么多的原版片子我居然听懂了大半，我想这要归功于对这些爱情里疯狂的小事的熟悉吧。片子带我复习了一遍爱情的各种时态。<br>期待的将来时，享受的现在时，洒脱过去时和悲伤的完成时。<br>把它们串起来，发现其实这是一个女人走过情路的所有过程。德鲁演的mary其实是应该放在第一位的，因为她还处在淘一个恋爱对象出来的阶段。sadly的是，她的男人仿佛都生活在网络或者电话中，根本连现实中的接触都没有。所以她的结局，就是把网络和电话里的男人拖到现实中去，想想也是听不容易的，虽说好男人到处都是，但是首先你得有机会接触到活生生的大活人不是。Mary从头到尾笑的灿烂，但是我只是觉得，德鲁来演这个爱情的将来时有些年级太大了，一个女人最好在25岁前对大多数类型的情感实现免疫，这样才不会擦火走眼到连在电话录音中唱歌的陌生男人都为之雀跃欢呼。而且你看到一个小女生满脸明媚的忧伤的期待，会是觉得可爱的，如果是30岁的半熟女呢，恐怕剩女两个字就要跃然纸上了。<br>不要说残忍，时间从来没有放过任何一个女人，既然如此，我们只能尽力顺天而行，在适当的时候做适当的事，更重要的是，从年轻的爱情里提取经验精华，下次爱情来的时候，才能恰到好处的扮演好自己的角色。<br>爱情的进行时是很喜欢的GIGI的那部分。这个女孩并不是很美丽，但是胜在够可爱够率真。很久前就觉得，20几岁的女孩子没有不好的，不美丽可以可爱，即使做出很多很雷的事也可以得到原谅----年轻的时候大家都不谈对错，年轻的时候的眼泪和微笑都是美丽的真实的故事，没有矫情没有虚伪。就像gigi，丝毫不掩饰自己想要恋爱的欲望，是啊，大好的青春没有人欣赏，再淡定优雅也只是一层灰色的外壳。所以我很欣赏gigi的热情，她研究男人的每一个signal，乖乖的等在电话跟前，魂不守舍，挂老妈电话，洗澡带手机，这些小小的片段都在我们的身上出现过。因为年轻时候的我们的耐性只有那么多，面对爱情对象已经将将来500年的事情想好了，而可能他只是想今天意大利为什么输球。。<br>男人和女人，永远不是一国里的人，与其沟通，不如跟着最初的感觉走，至少如果一个男人真的在乎你，他一定回来找你。只是如果他不在乎，你就不要反追了，因为这样，只能是自取其辱。<br>很喜欢最后gigi的样子，依然是跟各种各样质量不佳的男人约会，那又有什么关系？她依然把自己收拾的光鲜亮丽，不是为了那些某某某男人，而是为了绽放自己的美丽，才来寻找爱情。你可以不喜欢我，但是不可以剥夺我追求幸福的权利。自尊自爱的gigi，终于让alex自投罗网了。<br>别想他们能爱多久，爱情就像鲜花，至少美丽过，就值得。<br>然后呢，现在的gigi可以分成几条叉路了，也就是下面的另外三种情感。要么跟同居男友7年之痒逼婚不止，要么最后set free后依然保持sex的关系，变成一种后情侣时代的暧昧。结婚之路呢，无非就是那两种结局，就像世间只有两种浪漫，一则相濡以沫，一则相忘于江湖。<br>这几种路在乎于一个女人的性格，性格决定命运。如果是anna那样的，喜欢一直飞舞在爱情路上的花蝴蝶，那她可能终生恋爱却始终找不到值得依靠的人。因为她其实像个孩子一样没有责任感，只知道自己喜欢的就想要得到，对人夫和前男友，都只是占有而不想负责。JA演的一心想结婚的女人，其实是大多数女人的常态，疲惫了的时候想有个人依靠而已，虽然大多数事情休息之后还是要自己解决，但是有个人可以靠一下总好过一个人挨过千秋万代。<br>脆弱就只是那么一瞬间的事情。<br>最后是离婚女子的故事，告诉我们如果所托非人，就不要再浪费时间了。女人不能原谅的不是男人的出轨，而是可怕的谎言。他骗他说没有再抽烟，但是却一再被发现。这个时候敏感和神经质可以瞬间让女人晋级为顶级克格勃，而她脆弱的神经已经崩到了最紧，最后一根稻草很容易就将骆驼压倒了。尽管她可能真的不在乎男人出轨，但是没有了信任的感情，就是一个死局。<br><br>片子看完了，在看gigi的时候不断想到过去自己做的很多傻事情。女人都一样脆弱敏感神经质，想着男人永远觉得荒谬的小想法。为啥你不再打电话，为啥你不再送花，为啥你不再叫我宝贝，为啥不在送我回家？男人只是懒，在女人这里，整个爱的世界都随着这些细节的流失倒塌了。所以呢，你看到女人神经兮兮没事找事就是不爽的时候，其实她在生着几天甚至几周前的隔夜气，而最可气的是，男人居然一点反映都没有。<br><br>呵呵，你看啊，华丽的道理我都明白，有关男人沉默的时候不要去吵闹，男人不想说话的时候不要逼她这些狗屁道理我也都明白。只是，真到爱情里面，一切道理都是虚无的，我们女人只能follow自己的感情，如果可以理智和冷静，那便是因为，爱的不够。<br><br>然后呢，就是关于身边的一些朋友暧昧的惨淡下场。事实证明正确的收到和处理男人发过来的信号是很重要的。我们都知道暧昧的法则是不主动，不拒绝，不负责。但是这并不是最重要的，因为你要知道这世界上还有更jerk的一群男人，他们的法则是，主动，不拒绝，不负责。<br><br>所以，当我的朋友哀哀的对我说，他最后为什么那样对我，一个电话都没了整个人蒸发，聚会上见到就当空气。而一个月前我们还天天电话甚至kiss。。。<br><br>另一个则幽幽的说，我真把他当最好的朋友，他知道我有男朋友，也从未表示要追我。为什么现在要弄得这么僵呢，我真的什么都没有做错，真是莫名其妙。。。<br><br>傻女人们快醒醒吧，he 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