<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2620869939431833133.post1256765565816287225..comments</id><updated>2010-07-09T01:45:06.607+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Date the District: Reading His Mind</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://datethedistrict.blogspot.com/feeds/1256765565816287225/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2620869939431833133/1256765565816287225/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://datethedistrict.blogspot.com/2009/11/reading-his-mind.html'/><author><name>Date the District</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01824995534660654328</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>8</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2620869939431833133.post-7828086932347888007</id><published>2010-07-09T01:45:06.607+01:00</published><updated>2010-07-09T01:45:06.607+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Just wanted to say that I recently started dating ...</title><content type='html'>Just wanted to say that I recently started dating a girl and found out that she religiously follows this blog through her twitter account. I didn&amp;#39;t return her texts because of the ridiculous shit I am reading on this blog and the possibility that she is an enormous bitch with crazy ideas in her head about men like the last paragraph of this entry. Cheers ladies, you&amp;#39;ll never find a decent man because the guys that you are attracted to are enormous DC douchebags that should be thrown into the tidal basin.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2620869939431833133/1256765565816287225/comments/default/7828086932347888007'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2620869939431833133/1256765565816287225/comments/default/7828086932347888007'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://datethedistrict.blogspot.com/2009/11/reading-his-mind.html?showComment=1278636306607#c7828086932347888007' title=''/><author><name>Anonymous</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://datethedistrict.blogspot.com/2009/11/reading-his-mind.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2620869939431833133.post-1256765565816287225' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2620869939431833133/posts/default/1256765565816287225' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2620869939431833133.post-2050058382987836544</id><published>2009-11-25T14:23:19.406Z</published><updated>2009-11-25T14:23:19.406Z</updated><title type='text'>I once heard a marriage counselor say, &amp;quot;When ...</title><content type='html'>I once heard a marriage counselor say, &amp;quot;When you try to be in someone else&amp;#39;s mind, it means you&amp;#39;re out of yours.&amp;quot; A simple phrase, but one that stops overanalyzing in its tracks (at least for me).</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2620869939431833133/1256765565816287225/comments/default/2050058382987836544'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2620869939431833133/1256765565816287225/comments/default/2050058382987836544'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://datethedistrict.blogspot.com/2009/11/reading-his-mind.html?showComment=1259158999406#c2050058382987836544' title=''/><author><name>Julia</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13125009620060580370</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://datethedistrict.blogspot.com/2009/11/reading-his-mind.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2620869939431833133.post-1256765565816287225' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2620869939431833133/posts/default/1256765565816287225' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2620869939431833133.post-4789910269494815143</id><published>2009-11-24T19:18:30.639Z</published><updated>2009-11-24T19:18:30.639Z</updated><title type='text'>Good point. I also agree with LiLu&amp;#39;s comment -...</title><content type='html'>Good point. I also agree with LiLu&amp;#39;s comment -- that when it works, you won&amp;#39;t HAVE to figure out what he&amp;#39;s thinking. Because he&amp;#39;ll tell you &amp;amp; show you. If he&amp;#39;s not -- then he&amp;#39;s just not that into you. Reverse is true for the opposite sex, this doesn&amp;#39;t just apply to men. If a guy were pursuing me and I weren&amp;#39;t responding too enthusiastically, well, don&amp;#39;t take it personally dude. I&amp;#39;m just not that into you.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is nice to have closure though - like Shannon was saying, it sucks if ppl just fade out. But I guess confrontation is hard, no one likes to disappoint.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2620869939431833133/1256765565816287225/comments/default/4789910269494815143'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2620869939431833133/1256765565816287225/comments/default/4789910269494815143'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://datethedistrict.blogspot.com/2009/11/reading-his-mind.html?showComment=1259090310639#c4789910269494815143' title=''/><author><name>spleeness</name><uri>http://spleeness.blogspot.com/</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://datethedistrict.blogspot.com/2009/11/reading-his-mind.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2620869939431833133.post-1256765565816287225' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2620869939431833133/posts/default/1256765565816287225' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2620869939431833133.post-7561832798181627275</id><published>2009-11-24T18:18:11.371Z</published><updated>2009-11-24T18:18:11.371Z</updated><title type='text'>Foggy - You left out sports, big TVs and Barcaloun...</title><content type='html'>Foggy - You left out sports, big TVs and Barcaloungers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While I think it&amp;#39;s annoying and cowardly when men &amp;#39;fade out&amp;#39; instead of break off a relationship, there&amp;#39;s a point where you don&amp;#39;t need an &amp;#39;answer.&amp;#39; He&amp;#39;s not interested. That&amp;#39;s your answer.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2620869939431833133/1256765565816287225/comments/default/7561832798181627275'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2620869939431833133/1256765565816287225/comments/default/7561832798181627275'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://datethedistrict.blogspot.com/2009/11/reading-his-mind.html?showComment=1259086691371#c7561832798181627275' title=''/><author><name>Shannon</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16089796721473561446</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://datethedistrict.blogspot.com/2009/11/reading-his-mind.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2620869939431833133.post-1256765565816287225' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2620869939431833133/posts/default/1256765565816287225' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2620869939431833133.post-1196985039569506139</id><published>2009-11-24T18:14:01.940Z</published><updated>2009-11-24T18:14:01.940Z</updated><title type='text'>Perhaps Brian was just naturally quiet and Girl&amp;#3...</title><content type='html'>Perhaps Brian was just naturally quiet and Girl&amp;#39;s constant yammering drove him off. That could definitely be the case. Or, more likely, his phone was on vibrate or silent from the afternoon meeting and he didn&amp;#39;t hear it when she called.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you&amp;#39;re trying to figure out what any guy is thinking at any given moment your top three answers 80 percent of the time will be: Boobs (perhaps not yours, but probably the last set he saw); booze (When am I getting my next drink); and, of course, food.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2620869939431833133/1256765565816287225/comments/default/1196985039569506139'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2620869939431833133/1256765565816287225/comments/default/1196985039569506139'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://datethedistrict.blogspot.com/2009/11/reading-his-mind.html?showComment=1259086441940#c1196985039569506139' title=''/><author><name>FoggyDew</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07934197854661226301</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://datethedistrict.blogspot.com/2009/11/reading-his-mind.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2620869939431833133.post-1256765565816287225' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2620869939431833133/posts/default/1256765565816287225' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2620869939431833133.post-3207884609222924613</id><published>2009-11-24T16:10:00.944Z</published><updated>2009-11-24T16:10:00.944Z</updated><title type='text'>Ugh, so sad - if he wants to talk to you, he will ...</title><content type='html'>Ugh, so sad - if he wants to talk to you, he will talk to you! Still, women are stereotyped as being flighty and irrational when really as many men share the same traits.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2620869939431833133/1256765565816287225/comments/default/3207884609222924613'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2620869939431833133/1256765565816287225/comments/default/3207884609222924613'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://datethedistrict.blogspot.com/2009/11/reading-his-mind.html?showComment=1259079000944#c3207884609222924613' title=''/><author><name>convincemedc</name><uri>http://convincemedc.wordpress.com/</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://datethedistrict.blogspot.com/2009/11/reading-his-mind.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2620869939431833133.post-1256765565816287225' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2620869939431833133/posts/default/1256765565816287225' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2620869939431833133.post-1775544911048619667</id><published>2009-11-24T04:23:24.501Z</published><updated>2009-11-24T04:23:24.501Z</updated><title type='text'>I&amp;#39;m really hoping that this was a made up conv...</title><content type='html'>I&amp;#39;m really hoping that this was a made up conversation. How does &amp;quot;I don&amp;#39;t want a relationship.&amp;quot; every equal &amp;quot;I have the swine flu and that&amp;#39;s why I didn&amp;#39;t reply to your text.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Yes, please stop trying to figure out what he&amp;#39;s saying.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2620869939431833133/1256765565816287225/comments/default/1775544911048619667'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2620869939431833133/1256765565816287225/comments/default/1775544911048619667'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://datethedistrict.blogspot.com/2009/11/reading-his-mind.html?showComment=1259036604501#c1775544911048619667' title=''/><author><name>Erik</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/02996427677728884688</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://datethedistrict.blogspot.com/2009/11/reading-his-mind.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2620869939431833133.post-1256765565816287225' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2620869939431833133/posts/default/1256765565816287225' type='text/html'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2620869939431833133.post-6820377421080266604</id><published>2009-11-23T16:44:37.732Z</published><updated>2009-11-23T16:44:37.732Z</updated><title type='text'>I think this is the kind of mentality that sounds ...</title><content type='html'>I think this is the kind of mentality that sounds great in theory, but is hard to put into practice- at least for oneself.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;While I definitely agree that there is a strategy for playing the dating game, my own theory is that when it&amp;#39;s the right person, none of these games and tactics will even come into play- it will just be easy.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2620869939431833133/1256765565816287225/comments/default/6820377421080266604'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2620869939431833133/1256765565816287225/comments/default/6820377421080266604'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://datethedistrict.blogspot.com/2009/11/reading-his-mind.html?showComment=1258994677732#c6820377421080266604' title=''/><author><name>LiLu</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/18002691394373545956</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='12900582402992374836'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://datethedistrict.blogspot.com/2009/11/reading-his-mind.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2620869939431833133.post-1256765565816287225' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2620869939431833133/posts/default/1256765565816287225' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>