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Proverbs 13:24 He who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him diligently.
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Those who love their children care enough to discipline them.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/esv/proverbs/13.htm">English Standard Version</a></span><br />Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/bsb/proverbs/13.htm">Berean Standard Bible</a></span><br />He who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him diligently.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/kjv/proverbs/13.htm">King James Bible</a></span><br />He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nkjv/proverbs/13.htm">New King James Version</a></span><br />He who spares his rod hates his son, But he who loves him disciplines him promptly.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nasb_/proverbs/13.htm">New American Standard Bible</a></span><br />He who withholds his rod hates his son, But he who loves him disciplines him diligently.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nasb/proverbs/13.htm">NASB 1995</a></span><br />He who withholds his rod hates his son, But he who loves him disciplines him diligently.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nasb77/proverbs/13.htm">NASB 1977 </a></span><br />He who spares his rod hates his son, But he who loves him disciplines him diligently.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/lsb/proverbs/13.htm">Legacy Standard Bible </a></span><br />He who holds back his rod hates his son, But he who loves him disciplines him diligently.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/amp/proverbs/13.htm">Amplified Bible</a></span><br />He who withholds the rod [of discipline] hates his son, But he who loves him disciplines <i>and</i> trains him diligently <i>and</i> appropriately [with wisdom and love].<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/csb/proverbs/13.htm">Christian Standard Bible</a></span><br />The one who will not use the rod hates his son, but the one who loves him disciplines him diligently.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/hcsb/proverbs/13.htm">Holman Christian Standard Bible</a></span><br />The one who will not use the rod hates his son, but the one who loves him disciplines him diligently. <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/asv/proverbs/13.htm">American Standard Version</a></span><br />He that spareth his rod hateth his son; But he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/cev/proverbs/13.htm">Contemporary English Version</a></span><br />If you love your children, you will correct them; if you don't love them, you won't correct them. <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/erv/proverbs/13.htm">English Revised Version</a></span><br />He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/gwt/proverbs/13.htm">GOD'S WORD® Translation</a></span><br />Whoever refuses to spank his son hates him, but whoever loves his son disciplines him from early on.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/gnt/proverbs/13.htm">Good News Translation</a></span><br />If you don't punish your children, you don't love them. If you do love them, you will correct them. <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/isv/proverbs/13.htm">International Standard Version</a></span><br />Whoever does not discipline his son hates him, but whoever loves him is diligent to correct him.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/msb/proverbs/13.htm">Majority Standard Bible</a></span><br />He who spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him diligently.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/net/proverbs/13.htm">NET Bible</a></span><br />The one who spares his rod hates his child, but the one who loves his child is diligent in disciplining him. <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nheb/proverbs/13.htm">New Heart English Bible</a></span><br />One who spares the rod hates his son, but one who loves him is careful to discipline him.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/wbt/proverbs/13.htm">Webster's Bible Translation</a></span><br />He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/web/proverbs/13.htm">World English Bible</a></span><br />One who spares the rod hates his son, but one who loves him is careful to discipline him. <div class="vheading2"><b>Literal Translations</b></div><span class="versiontext"><a href="/lsv/proverbs/13.htm">Literal Standard Version</a></span><br />Whoever is sparing his rod is hating his son, "" And whoever is loving him has hurried his discipline.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/ylt/proverbs/13.htm">Young's Literal Translation</a></span><br /> Whoso is sparing his rod is hating his son, And whoso is loving him hath hastened him chastisement.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/slt/proverbs/13.htm">Smith's Literal Translation</a></span><br />He withholding his rod hates his son: and he loving him, sought correction for him.<div class="vheading2"><b>Catholic Translations</b></div><span class="versiontext"><a href="/drb/proverbs/13.htm">Douay-Rheims Bible</a></span><br />He that spareth the rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him correcteth him betimes. <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/cpdv/proverbs/13.htm">Catholic Public Domain Version</a></span><br />He who spares the rod hates his son. But he who loves him urgently instructs him.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nabre/proverbs/13.htm">New American Bible</a></span><br />Whoever spares the rod hates the child, but whoever loves will apply discipline. <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/nrsvce/proverbs/13.htm">New Revised Standard Version</a></span><br />Those who spare the rod hate their children, but those who love them are diligent to discipline them.<div class="vheading2"><b>Translations from Aramaic</b></div><span class="versiontext"><a href="/lamsa/proverbs/13.htm">Lamsa Bible</a></span><br />He who spares his rod hates his son; but he who loves his son disciplines him diligently.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/hpbt/proverbs/13.htm">Peshitta Holy Bible Translated</a></span><br />Everyone that spares concerning his rod, hates his son, and he that loves his son disciplines him earnestly.<div class="vheading2"><b>OT Translations</b></div><span class="versiontext"><a href="/jps/proverbs/13.htm">JPS Tanakh 1917</a></span><br />He that spareth his rod hateth his son; But he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/sep/proverbs/13.htm">Brenton Septuagint Translation</a></span><br />He that spares the rod hates his son: but he that loves, carefully chastens <i>him</i>.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/parallel/proverbs/13-24.htm">Additional Translations ...</a></span></div></div></div><div id="centbox"><div class="padcent"><a name="audio" id="audio"></a><div class="vheadingv"><b>Audio Bible</b></div><iframe width="100%" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/kpUA5ZltBeQ?start=2527" title="YouTube video player" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share" allowfullscreen></iframe><span class="p"><br /><br /><br /></span><div class="vheadingv"><b>Context</b></div><span class="hdg"><a href="/bsb/proverbs/13.htm">A Father's Discipline</a></span><br>…<span class="reftext">23</span>Abundant food is in the fallow ground of the poor, but without justice it is swept away. <span class="reftext">24</span><span class="highl"><a href="/hebrew/2820.htm" title="2820: ḥō·w·śêḵ (V-Qal-Prtcpl-ms) -- To withhold, refrain. A primitive root; to restrain or Refrain; by implication, to refuse, spare, preserve; also to observe.">He who spares</a> <a href="/hebrew/7626.htm" title="7626: ḇə·ṭōw (N-msc:: 3ms) -- Rod, staff, club, scepter, tribe. From an unused root probably meaning to branch off; a scion, i.e. a stick Or a clan.">the rod</a> <a href="/hebrew/8130.htm" title="8130: śō·w·nê (V-Qal-Prtcpl-ms) -- To hate. A primitive root; to hate.">hates</a> <a href="/hebrew/1121.htm" title="1121: ḇə·nōw (N-msc:: 3ms) -- Son. From banah; a son, in the widest sense (like 'ab, 'ach, etc.).">his son,</a> <a href="/hebrew/157.htm" title="157: wə·’ō·hă·ḇōw (Conj-w:: V-Qal-Prtcpl-msc:: 3ms) -- To love. Or raheb; a primitive root; to have affection for.">but he who loves him</a> <a href="/hebrew/4148.htm" title="4148: mū·sār (N-ms) -- Discipline, chastening, correction. From yacar; properly, chastisement; figuratively, reproof, warning or instruction; also restraint.">disciplines him</a> <a href="/hebrew/7836.htm" title="7836: ši·ḥă·rōw (V-Piel-Perf-3ms:: 3ms) -- To look early or diligently for. A primitive root; properly, to dawn, i.e. be early at any task; by extension, to search for.">diligently.</a> </span><span class="reftext">25</span>A righteous man eats to his heart’s content, but the stomach of the wicked is empty.…<div class="cred"><a href="//berean.bible">Berean Standard Bible</a> · <a href="//berean.bible/downloads.htm">Download</a></div><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a name="crossref" id="crossref"></a><div class="vheading">Cross References</div><div id="crf"><span class="crossverse"><a href="/hebrews/12-5.htm">Hebrews 12:5-11</a></span><br />And you have forgotten the exhortation that addresses you as sons: “My son, do not take lightly the discipline of the Lord, and do not lose heart when He rebukes you. / For the Lord disciplines the one He loves, and He chastises every son He receives.” / Endure suffering as discipline; God is treating you as sons. For what son is not disciplined by his father? ...<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/ephesians/6-4.htm">Ephesians 6:4</a></span><br />Fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath; instead, bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/colossians/3-21.htm">Colossians 3:21</a></span><br />Fathers, do not provoke your children, so they will not become discouraged.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/proverbs/22-6.htm">Proverbs 22:6</a></span><br />Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/proverbs/19-18.htm">Proverbs 19:18</a></span><br />Discipline your son, for in that there is hope; do not be party to his death.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/deuteronomy/8-5.htm">Deuteronomy 8:5</a></span><br />So know in your heart that just as a man disciplines his son, so the LORD your God disciplines you.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/revelation/3-19.htm">Revelation 3:19</a></span><br />Those I love I rebuke and discipline. Therefore be earnest and repent.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/proverbs/23-13.htm">Proverbs 23:13-14</a></span><br />Do not withhold discipline from a child; although you strike him with a rod, he will not die. / Strike him with a rod, and you will deliver his soul from Sheol.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/2_timothy/3-16.htm">2 Timothy 3:16</a></span><br />All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for instruction, for conviction, for correction, and for training in righteousness,<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/proverbs/29-15.htm">Proverbs 29:15</a></span><br />A rod of correction imparts wisdom, but a child left to himself disgraces his mother.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/proverbs/29-17.htm">Proverbs 29:17</a></span><br />Discipline your son, and he will give you rest; he will bring delight to your soul.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/1_corinthians/11-32.htm">1 Corinthians 11:32</a></span><br />But when we are judged by the Lord, we are being disciplined so that we will not be condemned with the world.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/psalms/94-12.htm">Psalm 94:12</a></span><br />Blessed is the man You discipline, O LORD, and teach from Your law,<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/job/5-17.htm">Job 5:17</a></span><br />Blessed indeed is the man whom God corrects; so do not despise the discipline of the Almighty.<span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="crossverse"><a href="/proverbs/3-11.htm">Proverbs 3:11-12</a></span><br />My son, do not reject the discipline of the LORD, and do not loathe His rebuke; / for the LORD disciplines the one He loves, as does a father the son in whom he delights.</div><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a name="tsk" id="tsk"><div class="vheading">Treasury of Scripture</div><p class="tsk2">He that spares his rod hates his son: but he that loves him chastens him betimes.</p><p class="tskverse"><b><a href="/proverbs/3-12.htm">Proverbs 3:12</a></b></br> For whom the LORD loveth he correcteth; even as a father the son <i>in whom</i> he delighteth.</p><p class="tskverse"><b><a href="/proverbs/8-36.htm">Proverbs 8:36</a></b></br> But he that sinneth against me wrongeth his own soul: all they that hate me love death.</p><p class="tskverse"><b><a href="/proverbs/19-18.htm">Proverbs 19:18</a></b></br> Chasten thy son while there is hope, and let not thy soul spare for his crying.</p><div class="vheading">Jump to Previous</div><a href="/job/24-5.htm">Betimes</a> <a href="/proverbs/12-25.htm">Care</a> <a href="/psalms/101-2.htm">Careful</a> <a href="/deuteronomy/8-5.htm">Chasteneth</a> <a href="/proverbs/7-22.htm">Chastisement</a> <a href="/proverbs/13-4.htm">Diligent</a> <a href="/proverbs/11-27.htm">Diligently</a> <a href="/proverbs/13-18.htm">Discipline</a> <a href="/proverbs/3-12.htm">Disciplines</a> <a href="/proverbs/13-17.htm">Gives</a> <a href="/proverbs/7-23.htm">Hastened</a> <a href="/proverbs/13-5.htm">Hates</a> <a href="/proverbs/13-5.htm">Hateth</a> <a href="/proverbs/12-1.htm">Hating</a> <a href="/proverbs/13-20.htm">Keeps</a> <a href="/proverbs/12-1.htm">Loves</a> <a href="/proverbs/12-2.htm">Punishment</a> <a href="/proverbs/10-13.htm">Rod</a> <a href="/malachi/3-17.htm">Spares</a> <a href="/job/27-22.htm">Spareth</a> <a href="/job/27-22.htm">Sparing</a> <a href="/james/1-5.htm">Unkind</a> <a href="/proverbs/11-26.htm">Withholds</a><div class="vheading2">Jump to Next</div><a href="/jeremiah/7-13.htm">Betimes</a> <a href="/proverbs/16-17.htm">Care</a> <a href="/proverbs/27-23.htm">Careful</a> <a href="/hebrews/12-6.htm">Chasteneth</a> <a href="/proverbs/15-10.htm">Chastisement</a> <a href="/proverbs/21-5.htm">Diligent</a> <a href="/proverbs/23-1.htm">Diligently</a> <a href="/proverbs/15-5.htm">Discipline</a> <a href="/hebrews/12-6.htm">Disciplines</a> <a href="/proverbs/14-2.htm">Gives</a> <a href="/isaiah/32-4.htm">Hastened</a> <a href="/proverbs/15-10.htm">Hates</a> <a href="/proverbs/15-10.htm">Hateth</a> <a href="/proverbs/14-9.htm">Hating</a> <a href="/proverbs/14-16.htm">Keeps</a> <a href="/proverbs/15-9.htm">Loves</a> <a href="/proverbs/15-10.htm">Punishment</a> <a href="/proverbs/14-3.htm">Rod</a> <a href="/proverbs/17-27.htm">Spares</a> <a href="/proverbs/17-27.htm">Spareth</a> <a href="/proverbs/17-27.htm">Sparing</a> <a href="/lamentations/3-51.htm">Unkind</a> <a href="/ezekiel/18-8.htm">Withholds</a><div class="vheading2">Proverbs 13</div><span class="reftext">1. </span><span class="outlinetext"><a href="/proverbs/13-1.htm">a scoffer does not listen to rebuke</a></span><br></div></div><div id="mdd"><div align="center"><div class="bot2"><table align="center" width="100%"><tr><td><div align="center"> <script id="3d27ed63fc4348d5b062c4527ae09445"> (new Image()).src = 'https://capi.connatix.com/tr/si?token=51ce25d5-1a8c-424a-8695-4bd48c750f35&cid=3a9f82d0-4344-4f8d-ac0c-e1a0eb43a405'; 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In ancient Israel, the "rod" was a common tool for shepherds, used to guide and protect sheep, symbolizing authority and correction. The use of the rod here is metaphorical, representing the necessity of corrective discipline. The idea is that failing to discipline a child is akin to neglect, which can lead to a lack of moral and spiritual development. This concept is echoed in other scriptures, such as <a href="/proverbs/22-15.htm">Proverbs 22:15</a> and <a href="/proverbs/23-13.htm">Proverbs 23:13-14</a>, which stress the importance of discipline in imparting wisdom and preventing folly. The cultural context of the time viewed discipline as an expression of love and concern for the child's future well-being.<p><b>but he who loves him disciplines him diligently</b><br>This part of the verse highlights the connection between love and discipline. In biblical times, discipline was seen as an essential part of parenting, reflecting God's own relationship with His people. <a href="/hebrews/12-6.htm">Hebrews 12:6-7</a> draws a parallel between God's discipline of His children and a father's discipline of his son, indicating that discipline is a sign of legitimate sonship and love. The term "diligently" suggests consistency and care in the process of discipline, ensuring that it is done with the child's best interest in mind. This aligns with the broader biblical narrative that portrays God as a loving Father who disciplines His children for their growth and maturity, as seen in <a href="/deuteronomy/8-5.htm">Deuteronomy 8:5</a> and <a href="/revelation/3-19.htm">Revelation 3:19</a>.<div class="vheading2">Persons / Places / Events</div>1. <b><a href="/topical/s/solomon.htm">Solomon</a></b><br>Traditionally attributed as the author of Proverbs, Solomon was the son of King David and known for his wisdom. His proverbs often provide practical guidance for living a life that honors God.<br><br>2. <b><a href="/topical/t/the_father_and_son.htm">The Father and Son</a></b><br>This verse metaphorically represents the relationship between a parent and child, emphasizing the importance of discipline in nurturing a child's growth and character.<br><br>3. <b><a href="/topical/a/ancient_israel.htm">Ancient Israel</a></b><br>The cultural and historical context of ancient Israel, where family and community life were central, and discipline was a key aspect of upbringing.<div class="vheading2">Teaching Points</div><b><a href="/topical/t/the_purpose_of_discipline.htm">The Purpose of Discipline</a></b><br>Discipline is an expression of love and care. It is not about punishment but about guiding a child towards wisdom and righteousness.<br><br><b><a href="/topical/t/the_balance_of_love_and_correction.htm">The Balance of Love and Correction</a></b><br>Effective discipline involves a balance of love and correction. It should be administered with the child's best interest in mind, aiming to build character and understanding.<br><br><b><a href="/topical/t/the_consequences_of_neglecting_discipline.htm">The Consequences of Neglecting Discipline</a></b><br>Failing to discipline can lead to a lack of respect for authority and poor decision-making. It is crucial for parents to understand the long-term impact of their approach to discipline.<br><br><b><a href="/topical/d/discipline_as_a_reflection_of_god's_love.htm">Discipline as a Reflection of God's Love</a></b><br>Just as God disciplines those He loves, parents are called to reflect this divine love through their discipline, teaching children about God's nature and His expectations.<br><br><b><a href="/topical/c/cultural_and_historical_context.htm">Cultural and Historical Context</a></b><br>Understanding the cultural context of ancient Israel can help modern readers appreciate the importance placed on discipline and the family structure in biblical times.<div class="vheading2">Lists and Questions</div><a href="/top10/lessons_from_proverbs_13.htm">Top 10 Lessons from Proverbs 13</a><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a href="/q/how_to_reconcile_proverbs_13_24_with_anti-spanking_views.htm">How can Proverbs 13:24’s endorsement of the “rod” in disciplining children be reconciled with current ethical and psychological objections to corporal punishment? </a><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a href="/q/what_does_'spare_the_rod'_mean.htm">What does "spare the rod, spoil the child" mean?</a><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a href="/q/what_does_the_bible_say_on_spanking.htm">What are the Bible's teachings on spanking children?</a><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a href="/q/what_does_the_bible_say_on_discipline.htm">What does the Bible teach about discipline?</a><a name="commentary" id="commentary"></a><div class="vheading2"><a href="/commentaries/ellicott/proverbs/13.htm">Ellicott's Commentary for English Readers</a></div>(24) <span class= "bld">Betimes.</span>--While he may yet be influenced rightly, and before faults are rooted in him.<p><div class="vheading2"><a href="/commentaries/pulpit/proverbs/13.htm">Pulpit Commentary</a></div><span class="cmt_sub_title">Verse 24.</span> - <span class="cmt_word">He that spareth his rod hateth his son.</span> Correction of children is a great point with our author (see <a href="/proverbs/19-18.htm">Proverbs 19:18</a>; <a href="/proverbs/22-15.htm">Proverbs 22:15</a>; <a href="/proverbs/23-13.htm">Proverbs 23:13</a>, etc.; Proverbs 29:15, 17). So Ecclus. 30:1, "He that loveth his son causeth him oft to feel the rod, that he may have joy of him in the end." Dukes, "Gold must be beaten, and a boy needs blows" ('Rabbin. Blumenlese,' 71). <span class="cmt_word">Chasteneth him betimes</span>; literally, <span class="accented">early in the morning</span> (<a href="/proverbs/1-28.htm">Proverbs 1:28</a>; <a href="/proverbs/8-17.htm">Proverbs 8:17</a>), which may mean, in the morning of life, ere evil habits have time to grow, or directly after the offence. Or the expression may signify "diligently." Vulgate<span class="accented">, instanter</span>; Septuagint, <span class="greek">ἐπιμελῶς</span>. <span class="p"><br /><br /></span><span class="versiontext"><a href="/commentaries/proverbs/13-24.htm">Parallel Commentaries ...</a></span><span class="p"><br /><br /><br /></span><a name="lexicon" id="lexicon"></a><div class="vheading">Hebrew</div><span class="word">He who spares</span><br /><span class="heb">חוֹשֵׂ֣ךְ</span> <span class="translit">(ḥō·w·śêḵ)</span><br /><span class="parse">Verb - Qal - Participle - masculine singular<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_2820.htm">Strong's 2820: </a> </span><span class="str2">To restrain, refrain, to refuse, spare, preserve, to observe</span><br /><br /><span class="word">the rod</span><br /><span class="heb">שִׁ֭בְטוֹ</span> <span class="translit">(ḇə·ṭōw)</span><br /><span class="parse">Noun - masculine singular construct | third person masculine singular<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_7626.htm">Strong's 7626: </a> </span><span class="str2">Rod, staff, club, scepter, tribe</span><br /><br /><span class="word">hates</span><br /><span class="heb">שׂוֹנֵ֣א</span> <span class="translit">(śō·w·nê)</span><br /><span class="parse">Verb - Qal - Participle - masculine singular<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_8130.htm">Strong's 8130: </a> </span><span class="str2">To hate</span><br /><br /><span class="word">his son,</span><br /><span class="heb">בְנ֑וֹ</span> <span class="translit">(ḇə·nōw)</span><br /><span class="parse">Noun - masculine singular construct | third person masculine singular<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_1121.htm">Strong's 1121: </a> </span><span class="str2">A son</span><br /><br /><span class="word">but he who loves him</span><br /><span class="heb">וְ֝אֹהֲב֗וֹ</span> <span class="translit">(wə·’ō·hă·ḇōw)</span><br /><span class="parse">Conjunctive waw | Verb - Qal - Participle - masculine singular construct | third person masculine singular<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_157.htm">Strong's 157: </a> </span><span class="str2">To have affection f</span><br /><br /><span class="word">disciplines him</span><br /><span class="heb">מוּסָֽר׃</span> <span class="translit">(mū·sār)</span><br /><span class="parse">Noun - masculine singular<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_4148.htm">Strong's 4148: </a> </span><span class="str2">Chastisement, reproof, warning, instruction, restraint</span><br /><br /><span class="word">diligently.</span><br /><span class="heb">שִֽׁחֲר֥וֹ</span> <span class="translit">(ši·ḥă·rōw)</span><br /><span class="parse">Verb - Piel - Perfect - third person masculine singular | third person masculine singular<br /></span><span class="str"><a href="/hebrew/strongs_7836.htm">Strong's 7836: </a> </span><span class="str2">To dawn, be, early at any task, to search for</span><br /><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><div class="vheading">Links</div><a href="/niv/proverbs/13-24.htm">Proverbs 13:24 NIV</a><br /><a href="/nlt/proverbs/13-24.htm">Proverbs 13:24 NLT</a><br /><a href="/esv/proverbs/13-24.htm">Proverbs 13:24 ESV</a><br /><a href="/nasb/proverbs/13-24.htm">Proverbs 13:24 NASB</a><br /><a href="/kjv/proverbs/13-24.htm">Proverbs 13:24 KJV</a><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a href="//bibleapps.com/proverbs/13-24.htm">Proverbs 13:24 BibleApps.com</a><br /><a href="//bibliaparalela.com/proverbs/13-24.htm">Proverbs 13:24 Biblia Paralela</a><br /><a href="//holybible.com.cn/proverbs/13-24.htm">Proverbs 13:24 Chinese Bible</a><br /><a href="//saintebible.com/proverbs/13-24.htm">Proverbs 13:24 French Bible</a><br /><a href="/catholic/proverbs/13-24.htm">Proverbs 13:24 Catholic Bible</a><span class="p"><br /><br /></span><a href="/proverbs/13-24.htm">OT Poetry: Proverbs 13:24 One who spares the rod hates his (Prov. 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