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Meskipun hal demikian tidak diucapkan, tetapi prioritas terhadap salah satu saudaranya tampak pada pemberian berlebih ayahnya dibanding saudara-saudaranya yang lain. Saya mohon penjelasan perihal pilih kasih orang tua semacam ini. <span style="font-style: italic;">Wassalamu 'alakum wr. wb</span>. (Zakiyah/Purwakarta).</div><div><br></div><div><span style="font-weight: bold;">Jawaban</span></div><div><span style="font-style: italic;">Assalamu ‘alaikum wr. wb.</span></div><div>Penanya dan pembaca yang budiman. Semoga Allah memberikan rahmat-Nya kepada kita semua. Orang tua dituntut untuk bersikap adil di antara anak-anaknya. Mereka tidak boleh memprioritaskan salah satu anaknya dari segi perhatian dan pemberian.</div><div><br></div><div>Perintah untuk bersikap adil ini dapat ditemukan dalam sabda Rasulullah SAW berikut ini:</div><div><br></div><div style="text-align: right; "><span style="font-size: 18px;">فَاتَّقُوا اللَّهَ، وَاعْدِلُوا بَيْنَ أَوْلاَدِكُمْ</span></div><div style="text-align: right;"><br></div><div>Artinya, “Bertakwalah kepada Allah. Bersikap adillah terhadap anak-anakmu,” (HR Bukhari).</div><div><br></div><div>Hadits ini dipahami oleh para ulama sebagai bentuk larangan bagi orang tua dalam bersikap pilih kasih terhadap anak kesayangan entah karena anak tertua, anak terakhir, anak berprestasi, anak paling saleh, anak paling berbakti dan seterusnya.</div><div><br></div><div>Pilih kasih orang tua dilarang oleh agama karena jelas dapat menimbulkan keretakan dan kecemburuan sosial di lingkungan rumah tangga. Pilih kasih orang tua di kalangan anaknya termasuk cucu sebagai keturunan di bawahnya dilarang dalam agama Islam.</div><div><br></div><div style="text-align: right; "><span style="font-size: 18px;">وَيُكْرَهُ لِأَصْلٍ تَفْضِيْلٌ فِيْ عَطِيَةِ فُرُوْعٍ وَإِنْ سَفَلُوْا وَلَوِ اْلأَحْفَادَ مَعَ وُجُوْدِ اْلأَوْلاَد</span></div><div style="text-align: right;"><br></div><div>Artinya, “Orang tua dimakruh bersikap pilih kasih dalam pemberian terhadap anak, walaupun ke bawah atau cucu meski anaknya masih ada,” (Lihat Zainuddin Al-Malibari, <span style="font-style: italic;">Fathul Mu’in </span>pada <span style="font-style: italic;">I’anatut Thalibin</span>, [Singapura, Sulaiman Mar’i: tanpa catatan tahun], juz III, halaman 153).</div><div><br></div><div>Kami menyarankan agar orang tua bersikap adil terhadap semua anaknya. Orang tua dituntut untuk menjaga kerukunan di kalangan anak-anaknya dengan cara menjauhi sikap pilih kasih dalam hal pemberian terhadap salah satu anaknya karena hal ini cukup berisiko bagi keharmonisan keluarganya.</div><div><br></div><div>Demikian jawaban singkat ini. Semoga bisa dipahami dengan baik. 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