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One lucky winner would be chosen at random to receive a free 1-year subscription of Geni Pro. </p> <p>Today we are excited to announce the winner of our Father’s Day giveaway is <strong>Paula Wertheim</strong>!</p> <div class="wp-block-image"><figure class="aligncenter size-large is-resized"><img fetchpriority="high" decoding="async" src="https://www.geni.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/PaulaWertheim-600x783.jpeg" alt="" class="wp-image-109240" width="350" height="456" srcset="https://www.geni.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/PaulaWertheim-600x783.jpeg 600w, https://www.geni.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/PaulaWertheim-230x300.jpeg 230w, https://www.geni.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/PaulaWertheim-768x1003.jpeg 768w, https://www.geni.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/PaulaWertheim-1176x1536.jpeg 1176w, https://www.geni.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/PaulaWertheim-1569x2048.jpeg 1569w, https://www.geni.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/PaulaWertheim-scaled.jpeg 1961w" sizes="(max-width: 350px) 100vw, 350px" /></figure></div> <p>Paula shared a lovely story about her husband’s late stepfather, John P. Walther.</p> <blockquote class="wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow"><p>My husband’s late stepfather John P. Walther was the coolest dad a kid could ever hope for.聽When John met Gilda Wertheim in 1962, he was a good 15 years her senior with two grown children of his own, while Gilda was a young widow with 3 children; the youngest was my husband Todd who was 8.聽Although John was raised as a Catholic in Chicago, he made it his business to respect his stepson’s Jewish heritage by pasting a white satin skullcap on his bald pate and shlepping his young charge to the local synagogue every Sabbath until Todd’s bar mitzvah. The photo is John Todd and Gilda at Todd’s bar mitzvah party, 1968.</p><p>Here’s John P. Walther’s best advice: </p><p>After we had been dating for some time in university, Todd decided it was time to take me for a weekend at his home in Catskill, NY to meet his parents. On Sunday morning John took Todd aside and said, “You had better marry this girl or don’t talk to me again. I can forgive mistakes but there is NO excuse for stupidity!”</p></blockquote> <p>Congratulations, Paula! We hope you enjoy your free year of Geni Pro!</p> </div> <div id="author-info"> <span class="author-image"><img alt='' src='https://secure.gravatar.com/avatar/fe0dc6fe0296d883075ff67efbfb6473?s=60&d=mm&r=g' srcset='https://secure.gravatar.com/avatar/fe0dc6fe0296d883075ff67efbfb6473?s=120&d=mm&r=g 2x' class='avatar avatar-60 photo' height='60' width='60' decoding='async'/></span> <div class="author-content"> <h3>Post written by Amanda</h3> <p>Amanda is the Marketing Communications Manager at Geni. 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