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Happiness is much simpler than money or physical things.</strong></figcaption></figure></div></div></div><div class="ab cb"><div class="ci bh ga gb gc gd"><p id="f542" class="pw-post-body-paragraph nu nv ha nw b hu nx ny nz hx oa ob oc od oe of og oh oi oj ok ol om on oo op gt bk">I have mixed feelings when I think about the sentence — <em class="oq">‘ When you have everything, it’s easy to be what you want to be</em>.’ They say happiness is just symbolic.</p><p id="fd76" class="pw-post-body-paragraph nu nv ha nw b hu nx ny nz hx oa ob oc od oe of og oh oi oj ok ol om on oo op gt bk">Sadly, in the world we live in, I feel compelled to say something that many people say and have experienced for themselves, something that is not new, but old.</p><p id="5d81" class="pw-post-body-paragraph nu nv ha nw b hu nx ny nz hx oa ob oc od oe of og oh oi oj ok ol om on oo op gt bk">When you have money, you can have everything. 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