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dead brother’s phone"> <span class="dfm-title free"> Miss Manners: I was dismayed by the co-workers’ calls to my dead brother’s phone </span> </a> </h3>  <div class="entry-meta"> <time datetime="2024-11-16 11:10:43">November 16, 2024 at 11:10 a.m.</time> </div> </header> <div class="excerpt"> After his sudden collapse, I plugged in his phone and found a string of texts. </div> </div> </article> <article class=" author-view archive-view has-image post-14208576 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-advice category-latest-headlines category-things-to-do type-of-work-opinion-columnist" data-id="14208576" data-timestamp="1731644965" > <figure> <a href="https://www.orlandosentinel.com/2024/11/15/miss-manners-no-wedding-registry/" title="Miss Manners: We didn’t have a registry, and I don’t know what to say about these wedding gifts" class=""></a> <a href="https://www.orlandosentinel.com/2024/11/15/miss-manners-no-wedding-registry/" title="Miss Manners: We didn’t have a registry, and I don’t know what to say about these wedding gifts"> <div class="image-wrapper"><img alt="Miss Manners Judith Martin" title="Miss Manners Judith Martin" subtitle="" class="lazyload size-feature_small" data-sizes="auto" data-src="https://www.orlandosentinel.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/miss-manners-1500px.png?w=128" data-srcset="https://www.orlandosentinel.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/10/miss-manners-1500px.png?w=128 140w" ></div> </a> </figure> <div class="article-info"> <header> <h3 class="entry-title"> <div class="entry-section"><a href="https://www.orlandosentinel.com/advice/">Advice | </a></div> <a class="article-title" href="https://www.orlandosentinel.com/2024/11/15/miss-manners-no-wedding-registry/" title="Miss Manners: We didn’t have a registry, and I don’t know what to say about these wedding gifts"> <span class="dfm-title free"> Miss Manners: We didn’t have a registry, and I don’t know what to say about these wedding gifts </span> </a> 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