CINXE.COM

<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC "-//W3C//DTD XHTML 1.0 Strict//EN" "http://www.w3.org/TR/xhtml1/DTD/xhtml1-strict.dtd"> <html xmlns="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" xml:lang="en" lang="en"> <head><script type="text/javascript" src="/_static/js/bundle-playback.js?v=HxkREWBo" charset="utf-8"></script> <script type="text/javascript" src="/_static/js/wombat.js?v=txqj7nKC" charset="utf-8"></script> <script>window.RufflePlayer=window.RufflePlayer||{};window.RufflePlayer.config={"autoplay":"on","unmuteOverlay":"hidden"};</script> <script type="text/javascript" src="/_static/js/ruffle/ruffle.js"></script> <script type="text/javascript"> __wm.init("http://web.archive.org/web"); __wm.wombat("http://dating.guardian.co.uk:80/s/help/safety.php","20080913213536","http://web.archive.org/","web","/_static/", "1221341736"); </script> <link rel="stylesheet" type="text/css" href="/_static/css/banner-styles.css?v=S1zqJCYt" /> <link rel="stylesheet" type="text/css" href="/_static/css/iconochive.css?v=3PDvdIFv" />  <title>Safety first - Guardian Soulmates</title> <meta http-equiv="Content-Type" content="text/html; charset=iso-8859-1"/> <meta http-equiv="imagetoolbar" content="no"/> <meta name="MSSmartTagsPreventParsing" content="true"/> <meta name="description" content="Online dating with Guardian Soulmates. Join for free. 90,000 members online now with over 1,000 new members joining each week. Internet dating for like minded individuals."/> <meta name="keywords" content="men, women, dating, dating girls, romance, dating manchester, dating, dating london, girls dating, date, online dating, personals, men seeking, women seeking, men seeking women , men seeking men , women seeking men, women seeking women, guardian, guardian solemates, gaurdian, gaurdian soulmates, soulmates, guardian soulmates, love, romance, internet dating, new partner, dating line, gay, lesbian, date uk, date us, date america, uk dating, uk singles, date the uk, dating co uk, datign, dating sites uk "/> <meta name="author" content="DatingBuzz"/> <meta name="copyright" content="1997-2008, DatingBuzz"/> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://web.archive.org/web/20080913213536js_/http://is0915.www.is.121d8.com/js/functions.js"></script> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://web.archive.org/web/20080913213536js_/http://is0915.www.is.121d8.com/js/vendor/getElementsByClassName.js"></script> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://web.archive.org/web/20080913213536js_/http://is0915.www.is.121d8.com/js/vendor/addEvent.js"></script> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://web.archive.org/web/20080913213536js_/http://is0915.www.is.121d8.com/js/vendor/roundedCorners.js"></script> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://web.archive.org/web/20080913213536js_/http://is0915.www.is.121d8.com/js/vendor/zebraTable.js"></script> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://web.archive.org/web/20080913213536js_/http://is0915.www.is.121d8.com/js/vendor/externalLinks.js"></script> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://web.archive.org/web/20080913213536js_/http://is0915.www.is.121d8.com/js/vendor/sweetTitles/sweetTitles.js"></script> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://web.archive.org/web/20080913213536js_/http://is0915.www.is.121d8.com/js/goPage.js"></script> <link rel="stylesheet" href="http://web.archive.org/web/20080913213536cs_/http://is0915.www.is.121d8.com/css/i2/15.css" type="text/css" media="screen, print" title="Guardian Soulmates default"/> <link rel="stylesheet" href="http://web.archive.org/web/20080913213536cs_/http://is0915.www.is.121d8.com/css/i2/15/print.css" type="text/css" media="print"/>  <script language="javascript1.1" type="text/javascript"> var s_account="guardiangu-network,guardiangu-enterprise"; </script> <script type="text/javascript" language="javascript1.1" src="http://web.archive.org/web/20080913213536js_/http://image.guim.co.uk/omni/omniture.js "></script> <script id="omnitureScript" type="text/javascript"> s.pageName = document.title; s.prop4="Relationships"; s.prop5="Soulmates"; s.prop9="other"; s.prop10="GU"; s.prop11="Enterprise"; s.prop12="Soulmates"; s.hier2="GU/Enterprise/Soulmates"; var s_code=s.t();if(s_code)document.write(s_code); </script>  <script language="javascript" type="text/javascript"> var _hbEC=0,_hbE=new Array;function _hbEvent(a,b){b=_hbE[_hbEC++]=new Object();b._N=a;b._C=0;return b;} var hbx=_hbEvent("pv");hbx.vpc="HBX0103u";hbx.gn="hits.gureport.co.uk"; var pageTitle = "{front}{" + document.title +"}{}"; var refreshRegexp = new RegExp('[?].*&?refresh=1','i'); if (refreshRegexp.test(top.location + "")) { pageTitle += "{AUTO}"; } hbx.acct="DM550607IGAM;DM54102495BW";//ACCOUNT NUMBER(S) hbx.pn=pageTitle;//PAGE NAME(S) XXX hbx.mlc="Enterprise/Soulmates";//MULTI-LEVEL CONTENT CATEGORY - fine hbx.fv=""; hbx.lt="auto"; hbx.dlf="n"; hbx.dft="n"; hbx.elf="n"; hbx.ci="(none)"; hbx.hc1="(none)"; </script> <script type="text/javascript" language="javascript1.1" src="http://web.archive.org/web/20080913213536js_/http://www.guardian.co.uk/external/hbx/0,15633,,00.js"></script> <noscript> <img alt="" src="http://web.archive.org/web/20080913213536im_/http://hits.gureport.co.uk/HG?hc=we89&cd=1&hv=6&ce=u&hb=DM550607IGAM;DM54102495BW&n={other}{}{}&vcon=Enterprise/Soulmates&seg=&cmp=&gp=&fnl=&pec=&dcmp=&ra=&gn=&cv=&ld=&la=&customerid=(none)&c1=(none)&c2=&c3=&c4=" border="0" width="1" height="1"> </noscript>  <script src="http://web.archive.org/web/20080913213536js_/http://www.google-analytics.com/urchin.js" type="text/javascript"></script> <script type="text/javascript"> _uacct = "UA-1326214-1"; _udn = "none"; _ulink = 1; urchinTracker(); </script> </head> <body id="help_safety"> <div id="externalframe">  <div id="topframe" style="margin-bottom:6px; margin-top:2px; ">  <form id="section-selector" method="post" action="http://web.archive.org/web/20080913213536/http://www.guardian.co.uk/redirect/1,,,00.html" style="text-align:right; "> <label style="font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; border: none;" for="go-to">Go to: </label> <select id="go-to" name="Url"> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Guardian Unlimited home</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/uklatest/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">UK news</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/worldlatest/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">World news</option> <option value="http://commentisfree.guardian.co.uk?gusrc=gpd">Comment is free blog</option> <option value="http://blogs.guardian.co.uk/news?gusrc=gpd">Newsblog</option> <option value="http://blogs.guardian.co.uk/sport?gusrc=gpd">Sport blog</option> <option value="http://blogs.guardian.co.uk/arts?gusrc=gpd">Arts & entertainment blog</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/podcasts/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Podcasts</option> <option value="/Guardian/inpictures/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">In pictures</option> <option value=" ?gusrc=gpd">----------------------</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/Archive/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Archive search</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Arts/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Arts</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Books/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Books</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Business/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Business</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Education/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">EducationGuardian.co.uk</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Environment?gusrc=gpd">Environment</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Film/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Film</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Football/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Football</option> <option value="http://jobs.guardian.co.uk/?gusrc=gpd">Jobs</option> <option value="http://lifeandhealth.guardian.co.uk?gusrc=gpd">Life & style</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Media/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">MediaGuardian.co.uk</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Money/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Money</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Music/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Music</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Observer/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">The Observer</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Politics/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Politics</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/science?gusrc=gpd">Science</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Shopping/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Shopping</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Society/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">SocietyGuardian.co.uk</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Sport/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Sport</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/index/talk/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Talk</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/technology?gusrc=gpd">Technology</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/travel?gusrc=gpd">Travel</option> <option value="http://www.ivebeenthere.co.uk?gusrc=gpd">Been there</option> <option value=" ?gusrc=gpd">----------------------</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/audio/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Audio</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/index/services/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Email services</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/Documentaries/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Special reports</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/guardian/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">The Guardian</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/northerner/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">The northerner</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/thewrap/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">The wrap</option> <option value=" ?gusrc=gpd">----------------------</option> <option value="http://adinfo-guardian.co.uk?gusrc=gpd">Advertising guide</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/crossword/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Crossword</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/eventsandoffers/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Events / offers</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/feedback/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Feedback</option> <option value="http://www.gameaccount.com/index.jsp?_p_ref=321B620F&_l_type=10000?gusrc=gpd">Gameszone</option> <option value="http://www.guardiangardencentre.co.uk?gusrc=gpd">Garden centre</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/pressoffice/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">GNM press office</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/graduate/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Graduate</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/guardianfilms/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">GuardianFilms</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/headlineservice/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Headline service</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/gu_contacts/0,,180767,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Help / contacts</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/information/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Information</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/values/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Living our values</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/newsroom/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Newsroom</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/notesandqueries/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Notes & Queries</option> <option value="http://www.guardianoffers.co.uk/mall/departmentpage.cfm/Guardian?gusrc=gpd">Reader Offers</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/readerseditor">Readers' editor</option> <option value="http://dating.guardian.co.uk/s/?gusrc=gpd">Soulmates dating</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/styleguide/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Style guide</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/syndication/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Syndication services</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/travel/readeroffers?gusrc=gpd">Travel offers</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/TV/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">TV listings</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/weather?gusrc=gpd">Weather</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/index/webguides/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Web guides</option> <option value="http://www.careersatgnl.co.uk?gusrc=gpd">Working for us</option> <option value=" ?gusrc=gpd">----------------------</option> <option value="http://www.guardianabroad.co.uk?gusrc=gpd">Guardian Abroad</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/guardianweekly/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Guardian Weekly</option> <option value="http://www.moneyobserver.com?gusrc=gpd">Money Observer</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.co.uk/Guardian/public/0,,,00.html?gusrc=gpd">Public</option> <option value="http://www.learn.co.uk?gusrc=gpd">Learn</option> <option value="http://www.guardian.backissuenewspapers.co.uk?gusrc=gpd">Guardian back issues</option> <option value="http://www.observer.backissuenewspapers.co.uk?gusrc=gpd">Observer back issues</option> <option value="http://guardianprofessional.co.uk?gusrc=gpd">Guardian Professional</option> </select> <button type="submit" value="Go"/>Go</button> </form>  </div> <div id="guheadercontainer ">  <div id="topslot"><table width="940px"><tr> <td valign="middle">  <div id="gulogo" style="float:left"><a href="http://web.archive.org/web/20080913213536/http://www.guardian.co.uk/" target="_blank"><img src="http://web.archive.org/web/20080913213536im_/http://is0915.www.is.121d8.com/pics/i2/15/chrome/guardian_logo.gif" width="140" height="22" border="0" alt="guardian.co.uk logo"></a></div>  </td> <td valign="middle"> <div id="ad" style="text-align:right"> <script type="text/javascript"> var srcLink = "http://web.archive.org/web/20080913213536/http://ads.guardian.co.uk/js.ng/spacedesc=topslot&keywords=%2C&site=Soulmates&country=(none)&region=(none)&city=(none)&bandwidth=&rand=" + Math.ceil(Math.random() * 100000) + "&system=thirdparty&blockVideoAds=false&" document.write('<script type=\"text\/javascript\" src='+ srcLink +'><\/script>'); </script> </div></td> </tr></table> </div>  <table width="940px"><tr><td><hr size="1" width="940" color="#BEBEBE"></hr></div></td></tr></table> </div>  </div> <div id="bodybg"> <div id="container"> <div id="header"> <h1><a href="/web/20080913213536/http://dating.guardian.co.uk/s/home/" title="Return to the Guardian Soulmates Home Page">Guardian Soulmates</a></h1> <p id="skip"><a href="#content">Skip to Content</a></p> </div>  <div id="wrapper"> <div id="navigation"> <ul id="rootMenu" class="firstLevel"> <li><a href="/web/20080913213536/http://dating.guardian.co.uk/s/" title="Return to the Guardian Soulmates Home Page" rel="splashMenu">Home</a></li> <li><a href="/web/20080913213536/http://dating.guardian.co.uk/s/join/" title="Sign up now - it's quick, easy and free!" rel="joinMenu">Create your free profile</a></li> <li><a href="/web/20080913213536/http://dating.guardian.co.uk/s/find/" title="Find people by searching, browsing, matching, looking up an alias or checking out the gallery" rel="findMenu">Browse profiles</a></li> <li><a href="/web/20080913213536/http://dating.guardian.co.uk/s/info/shopping.php" title="Why join Guardian Soulmates?" rel="info_shoppingMenu">Why join?</a></li> <li><a href="/web/20080913213536/http://dating.guardian.co.uk/s/subscribe/" title="Subscribe in order to contact other members" rel="subscribeMenu">Subscribe</a></li> <li><a href="/web/20080913213536/http://dating.guardian.co.uk/s/info/success.php" title="Real-life stories of members who've found love online at Guardian Soulmates." rel="info_successMenu">Success stories</a></li> <li><a href="/web/20080913213536/http://dating.guardian.co.uk/s/help/" title="Help" rel="helpMenu">Help</a></li> <li><a href="/web/20080913213536/http://dating.guardian.co.uk/s/find/siteMap.php" title="Sitemap" rel="find_siteMapMenu">Sitemap</a></li> <li class="on"><a href="/web/20080913213536/http://dating.guardian.co.uk/s/help/safety.php" title="Hints and tips on safe dating." rel="help_safetyMenu">Safety</a></li> <li class="last"><a href="/web/20080913213536/http://dating.guardian.co.uk/s/help/tell.php" title="Tell a friend about Guardian Soulmates" rel="help_tellFriendMenu">Tell a friend</a></li> </ul> <div class="c"> </div> </div> <div class="c"> </div> <div class="phrsub"></div> <div id="pageheader"> <div id="phead"><span> Safety </span> </div> <div id="loginBox" class="box"> <form name="" id="loginForm" action="/web/20080913213536/http://dating.guardian.co.uk/s/login/" method="post"> <fieldset> <label for="username" class="i">Username</label> <input type="text" name="username" id="username" class="t" value="username" onblur="if(this.value=='') this.value='username';" onfocus="if(this.value=='username') this.value='';"/> <label for="password" class="i">Password</label> <input type="password" name="password" id="password" class="t" value="Password" onblur="if(this.value=='') this.value='Password';" onfocus="if(this.value=='Password') this.value='';"/> <button type="submit">Log In</button> <div class="c"> </div> <input type="checkbox" name="rememberLogin" id="rememberLogin" class="o" value="1"/><label for="rememberLogin">Remember me</label>  |  <span><a href="/web/20080913213536/http://dating.guardian.co.uk/s/login/forgotten.php" title="Forgotten your password? Let us remind you.">Forgotten password?</a></span> <input type="hidden" name="from" value="help_safety"/> </fieldset> </form> </div>  </div> <div class="c"> </div> <div id="wrapperbg"> <div id="content"> <div class="lphrsub"></div> <div id="sectionheader" class="box"> <h4></h4>  </div>  At Guardian Soulmates we work hard to provide a safe environment for our members so you can focus on the fun part of dating. All member profiles and photographs are manually checked and vetted by our Customer Support Team to ensure that they comply with our <a href="/web/20080913213536/http://dating.guardian.co.uk/s/help/terms.php">terms of use</a> and we take action against those profiles that, in our view, are in breach of these guidelines or are otherwise unacceptable. <br/><br/> We know that starting online dating can seem like a big step and, from time to time, people have safety worries, so we抳e compiled a list of handy tips for you below. <br/><br/> Rest assured that if you do ever have cause for concern about another member抯 behaviour, then you can report them to us in confidence, using our '<a href="/web/20080913213536/http://dating.guardian.co.uk/s/help/report.php">report abuse</a>' form. <br/><br/> In the unlikely event that you feel your personal safety has been compromised, or that you or other members are at risk, then we urge you to contact the police in the first instance. <br/><br/> <ul> <li><strong>Use common sense.</strong> Online dating isn't really all that different from meeting people in the real world. Some people will float your boat and some won't. The key thing to remember is that your personal safety is paramount so trust yourself. The vast majority of people are here for the same reasons you are. If you're at all unsure about a person however, then don't take a risk.</li> </ul> <h3>On the site</h3> <ul> <li><strong>Be in control.</strong> Soulmates allows you to talk to other members anonymously. If you like someone you'll eventually want to swap numbers, email addresses or even meet up but make sure you're totally comfortable before you do. If another member is going faster than you feel happy with, just tell them - you're all in the same boat and they'll understand.</li> <li><strong>Be honest.</strong> People can feel betrayed if the perfect match they've been talking to on the site turns out to have lied about their age and situation. Keep it honest from the start and you'll have a better chance of meeting the person for you.</li> <li><strong>Be aware.</strong> If you feel that another member is using the site inappropriately or has made you feel uncomfortable then <a href="/web/20080913213536/http://dating.guardian.co.uk/s/help/contact.php">tell us</a>. You can also block any member from contacting you.</li> </ul> <h3>In the real world</h3> <ul> <li><strong>Meet in public.</strong> As attractive as a night in with a bottle of red and DVD may sound, keep your first date or two in places where there are other people around.</li> <li><strong>Tell a friend.</strong> You'll feel more comfortable if someone else knows where you are. Plus, they'll enjoy being taken into your confidence. Everyone's a winner.</li> <li><strong>Make your own way.</strong> Your Soulmate may drive an Aston Martin but initially at least sort your own transport to and from the date.</li> <li><strong>Keep some mystery.</strong> Even if cupid's arrows have turned you into a pin cushion bear in mind that there's only so much you can learn about someone on a first date. Keep details of where you live or where you're staying to yourself until you're totally sure of the person.</li> <li><strong>For long distance lovers.</strong> You've bridged the geographical divide for a long distance first date. Good for you. Just pay double attention to the tips above and never stay at the person's house on your first visit.</li> </ul> <p>If you use common sense then you'll have a great time using Soulmates. If you ever have any concerns though our customer support team will be happy to hear from you. <a href="/web/20080913213536/http://dating.guardian.co.uk/s/help/contact.php">Contact us</a>.</p> </div>  <div id="secondary"> <div class="lphrsub"></div> <div id="padder"> <div id="secondnavigation"> <ul id="help_safetyMenu" class="secondLevel"> <li style="display:none;"><a id="help_safetyEmpty"> </a></li> </ul> <div class="c"> </div> </div> <div id="joinbanner"><h1><a href="/web/20080913213536/http://dating.guardian.co.uk/s/join/" title="Sign up now - it's quick, easy and free!">Join now</a></h1></div> <div class="skyscraper"> <iframe title="Advertisement" width="120" height="600" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" src="http://web.archive.org/web/20080913213536if_/http://ads.guardian.co.uk/html.ng/Params.richmedia=yes&site=Soulmates&spacedesc=50&section=soulmates&country=(none)&region=(none)&city=(none)&rand=" + math.ceil(math.random() * 100000) + "&system="thirdparty""> <a href="http://web.archive.org/web/20080913213536/http://ads.guardian.co.uk/click.ng/Params.richmedia=yes&site=Soulmates&spacedesc=50&section=soulmates&country=(none)&region=(none)&city=(none)&rand=" + math.ceil(math.random() * 100000) + "&system="thirdparty""> <img src="http://web.archive.org/web/20080913213536im_/http://ads.guardian.co.uk/image.ng/Params.richmedia=yes&site=Soulmates&spacedesc=50&section=soulmates&country=(none)&region=(none)&city=(none)&rand=" + math.ceil(math.random() * 100000) + "&system="thirdparty"" width="120" height="600" border="0" alt="Advertisement"> </a> </iframe> </div> </div>  </div>  <div class="c"> </div> </div>  </div>  <div id="footer"> <div class="phrsub"></div> <p id="copyright"><a href="/web/20080913213536/http://dating.guardian.co.uk/s/help/contact.php" title="If you can't find the answer to your question in the FAQ, just ask us.">Contact us</a> I <a href="/web/20080913213536/http://dating.guardian.co.uk/s/help/faq.php" title="Not sure how something works? Most of the common questions our users ask are answered here.">FAQs</a> I <a href="/web/20080913213536/http://dating.guardian.co.uk/s/help/privacy.php" title="Your details are safe with us. Read the specifics of our privacy policy here.">Privacy policy</a> I <a href="/web/20080913213536/http://dating.guardian.co.uk/s/help/terms.php" title="Use of this site signifies your agreement to our terms of use. Read the details here.">Terms and conditions</a> I <a href="/web/20080913213536/http://dating.guardian.co.uk/s/help/safety.php" title="Hints and tips on safe dating.">Safety</a> I <a href="/web/20080913213536/http://dating.guardian.co.uk/s/join/" title="Sign up now - it's quick, easy and free!">Join our dating site today</a><br/> Operated for Guardian News and Media (GNM) by Telecom Express. Software copyright © 1997-2008, DatingBuzz. All rights reserved.</p> <div class="c"> </div> </div>  </div>  </div>  </body> </html>