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href="https://medium.com/middle-pause/exciting-news-middle-pause-is-part-of-the-boost-program-ca19508483ed?source=collection_home---4------1-----------------------" data-action="open-post" data-action-value="https://medium.com/middle-pause/exciting-news-middle-pause-is-part-of-the-boost-program-ca19508483ed?source=collection_home---4------1-----------------------" class="u-block u-xs-height170 u-height172 u-backgroundSizeCover u-backgroundOriginBorderBox u-backgroundColorGrayLight u-borderLighter" style="background-image: url("https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/800/0*sn_Of7Qj-HJNJ3Dy"); background-position: 50% 50% !important;"><span class="u-textScreenReader">Exciting News! 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We’re so excited for you!</div></div></a><div class="u-clearfix u-marginTop20"><div class="u-flexCenter"><div class="postMetaInline-avatar u-flex0"><a class="link u-baseColor--link avatar" href="https://medium.com/@debbiewalker59" data-action="show-user-card" data-action-value="22ec1fce9d86" data-action-type="hover" data-user-id="22ec1fce9d86" dir="auto"><img src="https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/fit/c/72/72/1*GO2gdG54Fha205oxSmFeSg.jpeg" class="avatar-image u-size36x36 u-xs-size32x32" alt="Go to the profile of Debbie Walker"></a></div><div class="postMetaInline postMetaInline-authorLockup ui-captionStrong u-flex1 u-noWrapWithEllipsis"><a class="ds-link ds-link--styleSubtle link link--darken link--accent u-accentColor--textNormal u-accentColor--textDarken" href="https://medium.com/@debbiewalker59" data-action="show-user-card" data-action-value="22ec1fce9d86" data-action-type="hover" data-user-id="22ec1fce9d86" dir="auto">Debbie Walker</a><div class="ui-caption u-fontSize12 u-baseColor--textNormal u-textColorNormal js-postMetaInlineSupplemental"><time datetime="2023-05-01T12:45:39.278Z">May 1, 2023</time><span class="middotDivider u-fontSize12"></span><span class="readingTime" title="4 min read"></span><span class="u-paddingLeft4"><span class="svgIcon svgIcon--star svgIcon--15px"><svg class="svgIcon-use" width="15" height="15" ><path d="M7.438 2.324c.034-.099.09-.099.123 0l1.2 3.53a.29.29 0 00.26.19h3.884c.11 0 .127.049.038.111L9.8 8.327a.271.271 0 00-.099.291l1.2 3.53c.034.1-.011.131-.098.069l-3.142-2.18a.303.303 0 00-.32 0l-3.145 2.182c-.087.06-.132.03-.099-.068l1.2-3.53a.271.271 0 00-.098-.292L2.056 6.146c-.087-.06-.071-.112.038-.112h3.884a.29.29 0 00.26-.19l1.2-3.52z"/></svg></span></span></div></div></div></div></div></div><div class="col u-xs-size12of12 js-trackPostPresentation u-paddingLeft12 u-marginBottom15 u-paddingRight12 u-size4of12" data-source="collection_home---4------2-----------------------" data-post-id="50b356b0df08" data-index="2"><div class="u-lineHeightBase postItem"><a href="https://medium.com/middle-pause/boosted-stories-of-middle-pause-50b356b0df08?source=collection_home---4------2-----------------------" data-action="open-post" data-action-value="https://medium.com/middle-pause/boosted-stories-of-middle-pause-50b356b0df08?source=collection_home---4------2-----------------------" class="u-block u-xs-height170 u-height172 u-backgroundSizeCover u-backgroundOriginBorderBox u-backgroundColorGrayLight u-borderLighter" style="background-image: url("https://cdn-images-1.medium.com/max/800/0*Hp13xxxLmVx6vcv4"); 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