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ni nj nk nl nm nn no np nq nr ns gn bk">📸<strong class="mx gv"> Almost exactly 17 years ago, Laney Griner took a picture of her 11-month-old son at the beach — a photo that became the “</strong><a class="af nt" href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Success_Kid" rel="noopener ugc nofollow" target="_blank"><strong class="mx gv">Success Kid</strong></a><strong class="mx gv">” meme<br/></strong><em class="nu">Issue #146: fact-checking Simone Biles’s jump height, the effects of puberty blockers on trans tweens, and dramadoodles<br/>By </em><span class="is"><span class="is" aria-hidden="false"><a class="nv it fe" href="https://medium.com/u/a870c0c34e46?source=post_page---user_mention--8c5a4581daed---------------------------------------" rel="noopener" target="_blank"><em class="nu">Zulie @ Medium</em></a></span></span></p><p id="4856" class="pw-post-body-paragraph mv mw gu mx b my mz na nb nc nd ne nf ng nh ni nj nk nl nm nn no np nq nr ns gn bk">I used to follow a fashion Instagram account for everyday outfit inspo. The account had an interesting business model: it had hundreds of thousands of followers, so up-and-coming outfit-of-the-day Instagram accounts could pay a fee to be featured in posts or stories. I had an absolute shock while scrolling one day when the account featured a five-year-old girl, modeling the same outfit styles that many grown influencers favor. The girl (or her mom, anyway) had been active on Instagram since she was two years old.</p><p id="43fc" class="pw-post-body-paragraph mv mw gu mx b my mz na nb nc nd ne nf ng nh ni nj nk nl nm nn no np nq nr ns gn bk">It felt obscene. This mom was making money by posting her young daughter’s #sponcon. How could the child consent? Was this not a clear violation of child labor laws? How would it affect her as she grew up to be subject to the demands of posting? But ‘kidfluencing’ — AKA using your kids to make money by posting about them on social media — is totally legal.</p><p id="5f1f" class="pw-post-body-paragraph mv mw gu mx b my mz na nb nc nd ne nf ng nh ni nj nk nl nm nn no np nq nr ns gn bk"><span class="is"><span class="is" aria-hidden="false"><a class="nv it fe" href="https://medium.com/u/afe833bdb212?source=post_page---user_mention--8c5a4581daed---------------------------------------" rel="noopener" target="_blank">John Polonis</a></span></span>, a lawyer — and dad — points out in his piece on <a class="af nt" href="https://medium.com/better-marketing/kidfluencers-the-ethics-of-marketing-my-child-f1e0b01b5a63?sk=v2%2F60b3742f-36ba-482f-bb71-2d78bfd15df9" rel="noopener">the ethics of kidfluencing</a> that few laws protect kids from exploitation online, and most are toothless. The strongest, <a class="af nt" href="https://www.illinoissenatedemocrats.com/?view=article&id=5828%3Akoehler-leads-nation-in-protecting-young-influencers-with-new-law-in-effect&catid=90" rel="noopener ugc nofollow" target="_blank">recently passed in Illinois</a>, requires kids to sue their parents if they want to recoup any of their earnings, rather than giving any upfront protections. He also highlights that he sees benefits to his social media presence even without direct kidfluencing: his YouTube thumbnails get more clicks when he includes a pic of his kids.</p><p id="b1aa" class="pw-post-body-paragraph mv mw gu mx b my mz na nb nc nd ne nf ng nh ni nj nk nl nm nn no np nq nr ns gn bk">Maybe we should just ban all parents from posting about their kids online. But there are non-nefarious reasons to share your kids’ lives online, too. As father and writer <span class="is"><span class="is" aria-hidden="false"><a class="nv it fe" href="https://medium.com/u/d8285308b7d7?source=post_page---user_mention--8c5a4581daed---------------------------------------" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Will Leitch</a></span></span> writes, <a class="af nt" href="https://williamfleitch.medium.com/when-your-kids-can-read-what-you-wrote-about-them-12c2247de6b1?sk=v2%2F049ff435-e4f5-4f7a-a769-c4e3bec20a89" rel="noopener">when he became a parent</a>, it was hard not to post about his kids because fatherhood was so all-consuming. Plus, where do you draw the line? Many of us post pictures and videos online to share with friends and family. What if they go viral by accident? What if a brand offers you a sponsorship deal off the back of that?</p><p id="d931" class="pw-post-body-paragraph mv mw gu mx b my mz na nb nc nd ne nf ng nh ni nj nk nl nm nn no np nq nr ns gn bk">It’s worth asking yourself where your line is, if only so you have a good answer when your child inevitably asks you why so many people know them as “<a class="af nt" href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Success_Kid" rel="noopener ugc nofollow" target="_blank">Success Kid</a>.”</p><h1 id="f1f1" class="nw nx gu bf ny nz oa ob oc od oe of og oh oi oj ok ol om on oo op oq or os ot bk">What else we’re reading</h1><ul class=""><li id="b458" class="mv mw gu mx b my ou na nb nc ov ne nf ng ow ni nj nk ox nm nn no oy nq nr ns oz pa pb bk">No, I’m not done thinking about the Olympics! I’m also not done thinking about the lifespan of a zombie stat, which I wrote about in <a class="af nt" href="https://medium.com/blog/how-a-half-truth-becomes-a-zombie-stat-daac41931e74" rel="noopener">a previous newsletter</a>. That’s why physicist <span class="is"><span class="is" aria-hidden="false"><a class="nv it fe" href="https://medium.com/u/51cf056b60c7?source=post_page---user_mention--8c5a4581daed---------------------------------------" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Rhett Allain</a></span></span>’s myth-busting investigation into <a class="af nt" href="https://medium.com/the-quantastic-journal/gymnastics-physics-does-simone-biles-really-jump-12-feet-above-the-floor-4944c457617a?sk=v2%2F2c8113e7-8ddf-4dcc-9bd7-d1ab79e594a4" rel="noopener">whether Simone Biles <em class="nu">really</em> gets 12 feet off the floor</a>, as per <a class="af nt" href="https://www.usatoday.com/story/sports/olympics/2024/08/01/simone-biles-jump-how-high-12-feet/74633975007/" rel="noopener ugc nofollow" target="_blank">USA Today</a>, struck my interest. In short, not quite: She did reach around 10.9 feet, depending on whether you calculate the distance from the floor to her feet, or her head. Still amazing for someone who is 4’8”.</li><li id="ca3b" class="mv mw gu mx b my pc na nb nc pd ne nf ng pe ni nj nk pf nm nn no pg nq nr ns oz pa pb bk">Trans author and biologist <span class="is"><span class="is" aria-hidden="false"><a class="nv it fe" href="https://medium.com/u/41187c62f451?source=post_page---user_mention--8c5a4581daed---------------------------------------" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Julia Serano</a></span></span> shares how <a class="af nt" href="https://juliaserano.medium.com/gender-affirming-care-for-trans-youth-is-neither-new-nor-experimental-a-timeline-and-compilation-b4bb8375d797" rel="noopener">gender-affirming care has become the standard recommendation</a> from the medical community even for prepubescent children. Over the past three decades, she explains, the “watchful waiting” model, where doctors advised against any interventions for pre-pubescent gender-dysphoric children, has been recognized as psychologically harmful. For children who are “insistent, persistent, and consistent about their gender identity,” doctors now recommend a gender affirmative model, which allows and encourages social transition.</li></ul><h1 id="cd99" class="nw nx gu bf ny nz oa ob oc od oe of og oh oi oj ok ol om on oo op oq or os ot bk"><strong class="al">Your daily dose of practical wisdom: use a “dramadoodle” to unblock yourself creatively</strong></h1><p id="0edb" class="pw-post-body-paragraph mv mw gu mx b my ou na nb nc ov ne nf ng ow ni nj nk ox nm nn no oy nq nr ns gn bk">I am normally a creature of regimented to-do lists and processes, which is why I was so fascinated by voice and theater teacher <span class="is"><span class="is" aria-hidden="false"><a class="nv it fe" href="https://medium.com/u/b751dab6475b?source=post_page---user_mention--8c5a4581daed---------------------------------------" rel="noopener" target="_blank">Kate Brennan</a></span></span>’s idea of <a class="af nt" href="https://medium.com/educreation/how-to-dramadoodle-b797d385ea86?sk=v2%2F2e3fee82-6be9-4514-a3f8-1544338880df" rel="noopener">creating a dramadoodle</a> to brainstorm, unblock, or problem-solve. Start with a blank sheet of paper, draw a bunch of shapes, put your prominent problem/question in the middle shape, and fill the rest with “words, snippets of thought, images, or whatever comes to mind when you think of your essential question.”</p><figure class="pk pl pm pn po pp ph pi paragraph-image"><a href="https://medium.com/educreation/how-to-dramadoodle-b797d385ea86?sk=v2%2F43841631-442e-4e14-a875-88f697013baa"><div class="ph pi pj"><picture><source srcSet="https://miro.medium.com/v2/resize:fit:640/format:webp/0*jXCHY5xiMNU6GiBH 640w, https://miro.medium.com/v2/resize:fit:720/format:webp/0*jXCHY5xiMNU6GiBH 720w, https://miro.medium.com/v2/resize:fit:750/format:webp/0*jXCHY5xiMNU6GiBH 750w, https://miro.medium.com/v2/resize:fit:786/format:webp/0*jXCHY5xiMNU6GiBH 786w, https://miro.medium.com/v2/resize:fit:828/format:webp/0*jXCHY5xiMNU6GiBH 828w, https://miro.medium.com/v2/resize:fit:1100/format:webp/0*jXCHY5xiMNU6GiBH 1100w, https://miro.medium.com/v2/resize:fit:1400/format:webp/0*jXCHY5xiMNU6GiBH 1400w" sizes="(min-resolution: 4dppx) and (max-width: 700px) 50vw, (-webkit-min-device-pixel-ratio: 4) and (max-width: 700px) 50vw, (min-resolution: 3dppx) and (max-width: 700px) 67vw, (-webkit-min-device-pixel-ratio: 3) and (max-width: 700px) 65vw, (min-resolution: 2.5dppx) and (max-width: 700px) 80vw, (-webkit-min-device-pixel-ratio: 2.5) and (max-width: 700px) 80vw, (min-resolution: 2dppx) and (max-width: 700px) 100vw, (-webkit-min-device-pixel-ratio: 2) and (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px" type="image/webp"/><source data-testid="og" srcSet="https://miro.medium.com/v2/resize:fit:640/0*jXCHY5xiMNU6GiBH 640w, https://miro.medium.com/v2/resize:fit:720/0*jXCHY5xiMNU6GiBH 720w, https://miro.medium.com/v2/resize:fit:750/0*jXCHY5xiMNU6GiBH 750w, https://miro.medium.com/v2/resize:fit:786/0*jXCHY5xiMNU6GiBH 786w, https://miro.medium.com/v2/resize:fit:828/0*jXCHY5xiMNU6GiBH 828w, https://miro.medium.com/v2/resize:fit:1100/0*jXCHY5xiMNU6GiBH 1100w, https://miro.medium.com/v2/resize:fit:1400/0*jXCHY5xiMNU6GiBH 1400w" sizes="(min-resolution: 4dppx) and (max-width: 700px) 50vw, (-webkit-min-device-pixel-ratio: 4) and (max-width: 700px) 50vw, (min-resolution: 3dppx) and (max-width: 700px) 67vw, (-webkit-min-device-pixel-ratio: 3) and (max-width: 700px) 65vw, (min-resolution: 2.5dppx) and (max-width: 700px) 80vw, (-webkit-min-device-pixel-ratio: 2.5) and (max-width: 700px) 80vw, (min-resolution: 2dppx) and (max-width: 700px) 100vw, (-webkit-min-device-pixel-ratio: 2) and (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px"/><img alt="" class="bh mc pq c" width="700" height="490" loading="lazy" role="presentation"/></picture></div></a><figcaption class="pr ff ps ph pi pt pu bf b bg z du">via <a class="af nt" href="https://medium.com/educreation/how-to-dramadoodle-b797d385ea86?sk=v2%2F43841631-442e-4e14-a875-88f697013baa" rel="noopener">Kate Brennan</a></figcaption></figure><h1 id="00d2" class="nw nx gu bf ny nz oa ob oc od oe of og oh oi oj ok ol om on oo op oq or os ot bk"><strong class="al">Quiz: Zoom In</strong></h1><p id="3d46" class="pw-post-body-paragraph mv mw gu mx b my ou na nb nc ov ne nf ng ow ni nj nk ox nm nn no oy nq nr ns gn bk"><em class="nu">Below is a zoomed-in version of an image related to one of the stories linked above. 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