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I’ve been having a secret affair for eight years… and have no intention of stopping
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And yet throughout it all, I’d be thinking about when I could nip to the bathroom to reply to a text from James*, my secret lover. He’s 13 years older than me, and also married; I’ve been in love with him for eight years and I have no plans to end our affair.</p> <p>Those eight years have been torturous and guilt-filled, but they’ve also been extremely happy. I’ve found my soulmate, laughed more than I ever thought possible, had the most amazing sex and felt completely loved. Until I met James, now 59, I’d never known the feeling of being with someone who is always looking out for me, and I know I give him the same security.</p> <p>I’d been married for 10 years when we met through work. I had three daughters under six and I was exhausted and permanently anxious. But what made life even harder was that my husband felt like my fourth child. We’d got together in our 20s and he was fun and charming, but he didn’t grow up. He’s borderline <a href="https://web.archive.org/web/20200216111122/https://www.telegraph.co.uk/health-fitness/mind/miracle-cure-alcoholism-invasive-surgery-can-re-wire-addicts/">alcoholic</a> and won’t countenance AA or relationship counselling. I’m too worried about him having shared custody of our daughters to leave him because of his alcohol problem, and we can’t afford to run two households. In a bizarre way, though, our relationship works – the children adore him and I shield them from his drinking.</p> <p>With James, I felt an immediate attraction. He asked me out for lunch one day, the conversation flowed and halfway through the meal I realised I was holding his hand. It felt overwhelmingly right. I’d never had an affair before, but looking back, I guess I was craving something – or someone – to fill the emptiness of my marriage. After our second lunch, we kissed outside the restaurant, and it was only afterwards I realised we could have been spotted. Even so, when he suggested dinner and a hotel room the following week, I agreed and told my husband I had a work event. Getting ready that evening was surreal and I felt horrendously guilty. But since then the lying has become normalised – I see it as a necessary evil. We see each other at least once a week. We speak every day and WhatsApp constantly while at work.</p> <p>My guilt now is largely reserved for the five children we have between us. I know my actions are selfish and I feel for his wife, too. James says she knows he isn’t faithful, but is choosing to turn a blind eye. 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